My wife cheated on me - with a woman!

[Mags 112]

You know the funny thing is a lot of women who are not really lesbians have had sexual experiences with other women. So, I know some of the women posting here have done it, but none will ever admit it. Maybe the ones making the biggest jokes and criticisms have something to hide.

Your wife isn't a lesbian. She's bi-sexual.

Last warning for personal attacks.

Edited August 31, 2007 by Mags

[*julez* 124]

Oh come on now...haven't you had enough fun yet? This has gone beyond belief.

I believe his goal is to accumulate a 50 page thread of complete and utter nonsense.

[no name 1]

Oh come on now...haven't you had enough fun yet? This has gone beyond belief.

I believe his goal is to accumulate a 50 page thread of complete and utter nonsense.

Then stop feeding it, J!

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Seeing people like this makes me appreciate having waited to get married...if i was as immature as this guy my marriage would not last....thank God there are some people with morals left in this world

[charlie_brown 0]

Can anyone answer the question I posed earlier?

My wife made it clear that it is entirely my choice is I want to join in or not. She said its OK with her either way. She also said she would give that up if I asked her to. I'm not selfish so why should I ask her to do that? I mean, if I don't mind it, then what's the harm?

Anyone?

Only you know whether or not allowing your wife to continue a homosexual affair will be detrimental to your marriage.

Failing your own personal insight, a sex therapist would likely be most helpful, given your situation. Or, you could try marriage counseling.

Well I don't think its accurate to characterize it as a homosexual affair. I mean, they have been best friends forever and they simply know how to give each other orgasms. They dont hold hands, kiss, or go on dates, things which we would normally assocaite with an "affair".

Why would we need a sex therapist? We both have totally satisfying sex lives. And our marriage isn't in at risk so we don't need a marriage conselor either.

She is just offering to share with me the joy she has found with her best friend. Why would such an arrangement be any more harmful to anyone than some other form of non-traditional arrangement like gay marriage?

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

[*julez* 124]

Oh come on now...haven't you had enough fun yet? This has gone beyond belief.

I believe his goal is to accumulate a 50 page thread of complete and utter nonsense.

Then stop feeding it, J!

I know, D, but I am bored today and its been such fun!

[mRx 16]

She is just offering to share with me the joy she has found with her best friend. Why would such an arrangement be any more harmful to anyone than some other form of non-traditional arrangement like gay marriage?

Trollie_brown,

Stop being such a sissy and just do it then.

[charlie_brown 0]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

Think about it. Marriage is already being redefined from one man and one woman to allow male-male and female-female marriages, so why not 3 people? Honestly, some cultures allow it, so why not?

[mRx 16]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

Think about it. Marriage is already being redefined from one man and one woman to allow male-male and female-female marriages, so why not 3 people? Honestly, some cultures allow it, so why not?

So you want to marry "Sarah" as well?

[MKCT 0]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

Think about it. Marriage is already being redefined from one man and one woman to allow male-male and female-female marriages, so why not 3 people? Honestly, some cultures allow it, so why not?

So why did you start this thread then????? You had your own answer. It just seems that you needed other people's "attacks" to be sure of what you want. Just do it and stop talking.

Edited August 31, 2007 by Mirla

[charlie_brown 0]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

Think about it. Marriage is already being redefined from one man and one woman to allow male-male and female-female marriages, so why not 3 people? Honestly, some cultures allow it, so why not?

So why did you start this thread then????? You had your own answer. It just seems that you needed other people's "attacks" to be sure of what you want. Just do it and stop talking.

OK thanks I'll take that as an approval of my wife's idea!!!

I'm sure with 2 women I wouldnt be doing much talking.

[kim&james 0]

OMG well if thats your decision then best of luck to you and for your marriage... you are going to need it.

[Jaseball 0]

So why did you start this thread then????? You had your own answer. It just seems that you needed other people's "attacks" to be sure of what you want. Just do it and stop talking.

Because it is fun for some people to get others worked up and see how many pages in a thread they can generate before it is locked or finally ignored.

Usually the person has social issues in real life and craves attention and interaction with people, so they use message boards, where remaining fairly anonymous is easy, people are naturally curious and friendly, and ineptness, anxiety, or other barriers to normal social interaction isn't as apparent.

Is this guy for real? Don't know and don't care. I made my joke in the first page or two and I'm willing to bump this thread a second and last time for fun.

[MKCT 0]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

Think about it. Marriage is already being redefined from one man and one woman to allow male-male and female-female marriages, so why not 3 people? Honestly, some cultures allow it, so why not?

So why did you start this thread then????? You had your own answer. It just seems that you needed other people's "attacks" to be sure of what you want. Just do it and stop talking.

OK thanks I'll take that as an approval of my wife's idea!!!

I'm sure with 2 women I wouldnt be doing much talking.

How sad! You need an approval from strangers to do what you want...

Anyways, marriage is only for two people so don't stop considering yourself as a "conservative catholic". You don't belong there anymore! hahaha!

Edited August 31, 2007 by Mirla