My wife cheated on me - with a woman!

[PaulineA 1]

Other than the entertainment value, is this thread serving any real purpose?

I'm still looking for that one useful contribution to solving this dilemna. It seems people are intolerant of any type of relationship that doesnt match theirs. Making jokes and lewd remarks doesnt really help.

If you don't know the answer by now, then you will never know.

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

Other than the entertainment value, is this thread serving any real purpose?

I'm still looking for that one useful contribution to solving this dilemna. It seems people are intolerant of any type of relationship that doesnt match theirs. Making jokes and lewd remarks doesnt really help.

C'mon bud. You know this is not the appropriate place to ask for help on this kind of issue. You knew it would turn into a bunch of jokes with very few people offering any valid advice.

Here's your nugget of wisdom. You are an adult. You need to make your own decision about this. It's a personal issue, not one that someone can give you the "right" or "easy" answer to.

If you are still in mental angst as to whether join your wife and her female lover or get "mad" at your wife (I think that was the other option you initially suggested), then you need more help than can be offered on here.

Go do a search for online relationship advice and pose your question there. Even better, go see a shrink.

Edited September 1, 2007 by jane2005

[charlie_brown 0]

Now my wife wants to have another talk about this, but I dont know what she wants to talk about. I cant imagine what it is.

[natty bumppo 293]

Now my wife wants to have another talk about this, but I dont know what she wants to talk about. I cant imagine what it is.

Maybe she feels you enjoy ... self abuse ?

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

Maybe she wants to let you know that she also has been sleeping with her friend's husband (and the friend at the same time too of course) and that he really loves it.

[natty bumppo 293]

Maybe she wants to let you know that she also has been sleeping with her friend's husband (and the friend at the same time too of course) and that he really loves it.

... and you've been ignoring here desires

[eric&gen 0]

Are you gay charlie brown i think you are if you dont want to do it with two girls lol.

[Ban Hammer 13,255]

My God .. Marriage is for 2 people....You cannot be serious being so passive...do you cheat..or better yet ...would you cheat??

Think about it. Marriage is already being redefined from one man and one woman to allow male-male and female-female marriages, so why not 3 people? Honestly, some cultures allow it, so why not?

it's like nike

just do it!

Now my wife wants to have another talk about this, but I dont know what she wants to talk about. I cant imagine what it is.

maybe what flavor of cool whip to buy?

[Sinergy 3]

i have a question. why hasnt this retarded thread been closed? its pointless, stupid and nothing more than attention seeking on the OP's part who obviously has nothing better to do then come on VJ, start a thread, beg for approval to sleep with his wife infront of her choosen partner, a woman, and then attack VJ members. geez.

[eric&gen 0]

Who ever this is it Matako Ric Flair charlie brown wrapped up into one lol get to do whatever it likes on VJ lol.

[Ban Hammer 13,255]

i have a question. why hasnt this retarded thread been closed? its pointless, stupid and nothing more than attention seeking on the OP's part who obviously has nothing better to do then come on VJ, start a thread, beg for approval to sleep with his wife infront of her choosen partner, a woman, and then attack VJ members. geez.

you're just jealous because his wife isn't getting busy with you

*runs*

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

He's waiting for that one special person to come along and offer the perfect answer. This is hardly a black and white situation and requires serious thought. If the thread was closed, the poor guy would not know what to do, seeing as he has no one else in the world who he can discuss this issue with (and that includes his wife!).

Ok, another suggestion....Maybe you should call the friend's husband and see how he feels about it? He's pretty much in the same spot as you are. See if he went for the threesome or not.

[Sand 5]

OMG, whats going on with u guys , man cheating his wife with cat and woman cheating her husband with woman.. this is terrible, maybe tomorrow someone come and say he was cheating wih RAT

[Nessa 23]

oh man, this thread still going?

[ericdraven 0]

I've got the answer!! why don't your wife, her friend and you work out all your problems. A good way could be backyard mud Wrestling you could really work out your problems and film it as well !!!