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Sinergy   3

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I can't really reply without posting my own moral opinion and thoughts related to lying and fidelity, so I will leave it at that and not get myself banned.

so what was the point of saying anything at all? they are asking for advice, not replies that will make them feel like #######.

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tmma   467

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I can't really reply without posting my own moral opinion and thoughts related to lying and fidelity, so I will leave it at that and not get myself banned.

so what was the point of saying anything at all? they are asking for advice, not replies that will make them feel like #######.

Oh c'mon. Happens all the time. Why do people just post a popcorn smily, then? What's the value of that?

I'll bet afew more of the folks on this thread are churning a similar thought over; will they admit it? Hmmmm? At least he chose to say something that was at least an indication of what he really thought..

Liefde is een bloem zo teer dat hij knakt bij de minste aanraking en zo sterk dat niets zijn groei in de weg staat

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Take a large, almost round, rotating sphere about 8000 miles in diameter, surround it with a murky, viscous atmosphere of gases mixed with water vapor, tilt its axis so it wobbles back and forth with respect to a source of heat and light, freeze it at both ends and roast it in the middle, cover most of its surface with liquid that constantly feeds vapor into the atmosphere as the sphere tosses billions of gallons up and down to the rhythmic pulling of a captive satellite and the sun. Then try to predict the conditions of that atmosphere over a small area within a 5 mile radius for a period of one to five days in advance!

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Jaseball   0

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I can't really reply without posting my own moral opinion and thoughts related to lying and fidelity, so I will leave it at that and not get myself banned.

so what was the point of saying anything at all? they are asking for advice, not replies that will make them feel like #######.

Because this thread was posted on an open DISCUSSION board. I'm not insulting anyone, but the fact remains that marriage and especially this visa process is a big deal because it changes the life of the beneficiary as they have to rip up their roots and move here.

I already mentioned two things brought up by the OP and aired out here - Lying and infidelity. This should be a huge warning sign.

I'm not accusing anyone or pushing my own morals on them or spouting off religious or other standards. I'm saying the beneficiary already knows this dirty laundry and if she can see past it and accept it, it's her life. As long as she is aware.

Sinergy Mentor

Sinergy   3

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bla bla bla bla, i knew youd blow it all out of wack, if your not going to say anything about the thread, no point in saying anything. if you dont like what im saying, ignore it. :)

and the OP was looking for support, not to be told "im not going to tell you my thoughts bc ill get BANNED" real mature and helpful there. geez. if you want to discuss it more, feel free to PM me. i might answer back.

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"VJ Timelines are only an estimate, they are not actual approval dates! They only reflect VJ members. VJ Timelines do not include the thousands of applicants who do not use VJ"

IF YOU ARE NEW TO THE SITE, PLEASE READ THE GUIDES BEFORE ASKING ALOT OF QUESTIONS. THE GUIDES ARE VERY HELPFUL AND WILL SAVE YOU ALOT OF TIME!

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Helmut & Bee   0

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Our california number was WAC0710350XXX. our embassy number was BNK20076XXXXX. I didn't see our number on the web for two month.

Stop worrying about the number. If you really love the guy and want to stay with him for ever, the 7-9 month to get the visa will be a short time. After you come to America, you will make plenty of money, and will have plenty of time to buy him whatever you want.

Good luck to both of you.

AOS Timeline

11/29/07 - Fedex'd to Lockbox (Chicago)

12/3/07 - Delivery confirmation..........

12/21/07 - Checks cashed!!!

01/10/08 Paper NOA1 for daughter received - Postmarked 12/20/07

MSC# on back of check doesn't match MSC# on NOA.

01/31/08 Still no news for wife. All three numbers still come up red on-line.

02/26/08 Called USCIS 800 number. Very friendly and helpful individual and supervisor.

Found out correct MSC numbers. Also found out that we missed the Bio!

We never received any appointment letter. (Originally set for January)

Went to local support office and asked about re-scheduling the Bio. Very nice manager at the office

did our Bio then and there, without having to wait since they were not busy.

April 8 and still waiting.......

May 11....and waiting, and waiting...not even a touch.

May 24 received NOA2 appointment for Interview for 30 July. Web page still not updated.

July 30 - Interview. APPROVED. Green card will be sent.

9/12/08 Called USCIS asking where GC's are?

10/15/08 Get letter from USCIS that GC's were sent August 8. Never received them.

10/20/08 Sent forms and $740 for two new GC's.

11/7/08 Received confirmation of receipt for new GC's.

11/12/08 Received BIO appointment.

11/25/08 Bio done.

Waiting, waiting, waiting

January 2009 finally received GC!

May 3 2010 Filed for Removal of Conditions.

June 21 Bio appointment.

August 11 Approval letter. No Interview.

August 21 - 10 Year card received.

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Jaseball   0

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bla bla bla bla, i knew youd blow it all out of wack, if your not going to say anything about the thread, no point in saying anything. if you dont like what im saying, ignore it. :)

and the OP was looking for support, not to be told "im not going to tell you my thoughts bc ill get BANNED" real mature and helpful there. geez. if you want to discuss it more, feel free to PM me. i might answer back.

Why would I PM you? If a mod thinks I am out of line I'll hear from them.

I did say something. I said based off the history of this USC the beneficiary should be wary and carefully think over her decision.

If this site is just for people giving support or only saying things people want to hear it would be useless.

Sinergy Mentor

Sinergy   3

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bla bla bla bla, i knew youd blow it all out of wack, if your not going to say anything about the thread, no point in saying anything. if you dont like what im saying, ignore it. :)

and the OP was looking for support, not to be told "im not going to tell you my thoughts bc ill get BANNED" real mature and helpful there. geez. if you want to discuss it more, feel free to PM me. i might answer back.

Why would I PM you? If a mod thinks I am out of line I'll hear from them.

I did say something. I said based off the history of this USC the beneficiary should be wary and carefully think over her decision.

If this site is just for people giving support or only saying things people want to hear it would be useless.

bc its OFF TOPIC and needs to be taken to PM. read the policy on VJ

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"VJ Timelines are only an estimate, they are not actual approval dates! They only reflect VJ members. VJ Timelines do not include the thousands of applicants who do not use VJ"

IF YOU ARE NEW TO THE SITE, PLEASE READ THE GUIDES BEFORE ASKING ALOT OF QUESTIONS. THE GUIDES ARE VERY HELPFUL AND WILL SAVE YOU ALOT OF TIME!

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applewow   0

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Our california number was WAC0710350XXX. our embassy number was BNK20076XXXXX. I didn't see our number on the web for two month.

Stop worrying about the number. If you really love the guy and want to stay with him for ever, the 7-9 month to get the visa will be a short time. After you come to America, you will make plenty of money, and will have plenty of time to buy him whatever you want.

Good luck to both of you.

Thank you...

Yes I love him and trust him..

He didn't sleep all last night,we were talking

about all this visa issues.Not long time before

he got out from the hospital,he had a minor

heart trouble caused of stress.

He didn't want me to go to Korea,because

he feels better with me staying with my parents,he

feels that I am more save here,with my family than being

alone in a different country..

He is doing his best to supply my needs and I appreciate it...

But..this case number that doesnt look right and doest valid with

uscis website just makes me crazy...

I had to stop it and calm down...

P.S.I appologize about this,,dirty laundry,,

I just wanted to share with my worries,I believe Alvin

did the same...

Oct.02 2007 I129F sent to VSC via ups.

Oct.25 2007 NOA1 receipt .

March 04 2008 Approval notice sent .

April 8 2008Interview . APPROVED

April 11 2008Visa in hand

April 27 2008POE - JFK

April 30 2008 WE GOT MARRIED!

July 3 2008 My sweet husband left for Afghanistan

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Sinergy Mentor

Sinergy   3

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Our california number was WAC0710350XXX. our embassy number was BNK20076XXXXX. I didn't see our number on the web for two month.

Stop worrying about the number. If you really love the guy and want to stay with him for ever, the 7-9 month to get the visa will be a short time. After you come to America, you will make plenty of money, and will have plenty of time to buy him whatever you want.

Good luck to both of you.

Thank you...

Yes I love him and trust him..

He didn't sleep all last night,we were talking

about all this visa issues.Not long time before

he got out from the hospital,he had a minor

heart trouble caused of stress.

He didn't want me to go to Korea,because

he feels better with me staying with my parents,he

feels that I am more save here,with my family than being

alone in a different country..

He is doing his best to supply my needs and I appreciate it...

But..this case number that doesnt look right and doest valid with

uscis website just makes me crazy...

I had to stop it and calm down...

P.S.I appologize about this,,dirty laundry,,

I just wanted to share with my worries,I believe Alvin

did the same...

Your fine dont need to apologize for anything :thumbs:

vj2.jpgvj.jpg

"VJ Timelines are only an estimate, they are not actual approval dates! They only reflect VJ members. VJ Timelines do not include the thousands of applicants who do not use VJ"

IF YOU ARE NEW TO THE SITE, PLEASE READ THE GUIDES BEFORE ASKING ALOT OF QUESTIONS. THE GUIDES ARE VERY HELPFUL AND WILL SAVE YOU ALOT OF TIME!

LovinLiberia Proficient

LovinLiberia   0

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Sorry, sweetie, but that case number is a bunch of #######. I had a Cali case number of WAC07..... and an embassy number of MRV2007... honestly, you need to ask your man for the REAL number, if there is one... :whistle:

Alvin!

I am not leaving,I am not going anywhere...

I am so sorry for not understanding you,I just miss you thats it!

I know that we will get this visa done soon and be happy for the rest

of our lives!!!

I promiss before God,before all people in here!!!

P.S.I think we had to dial with it in a privat conversation...

I guess everybody are thinking that we are crazy...crazy in love!!!

I love you,baby , and always will!!!!!

Please stop the dramatics and bring it to PM. :thumbs:

You guys should be talking about all of this in private, we at the boards can't give opinion about whether she should stay, go, you should or shouldn't marry, etc. You should take this conversation to your private messages, phone, e-mail, etc.

I don't see how people can air their dirty laundry all over this board, either. Hey, whatever floats your boat...

Something doesnt sound right about this number.... but I'm really interested to see how this plays out.

Yeah, I agree.

THIS SOUNDS REALLY GOOD!!!

hahahah I love this

and open dialouge in front of everyone

woooooooooow

this is incredible

I wish someone would contact that Drug addict Rush Limbaugh and report this

this is gooooooood!!!

LMAO!

Jaseball Community Regular

Jaseball   0

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Our california number was WAC0710350XXX. our embassy number was BNK20076XXXXX. I didn't see our number on the web for two month.

Stop worrying about the number. If you really love the guy and want to stay with him for ever, the 7-9 month to get the visa will be a short time. After you come to America, you will make plenty of money, and will have plenty of time to buy him whatever you want.

Good luck to both of you.

Thank you...

Yes I love him and trust him..

He didn't sleep all last night,we were talking

about all this visa issues.Not long time before

he got out from the hospital,he had a minor

heart trouble caused of stress.

He didn't want me to go to Korea,because

he feels better with me staying with my parents,he

feels that I am more save here,with my family than being

alone in a different country..

He is doing his best to supply my needs and I appreciate it...

But..this case number that doesnt look right and doest valid with

uscis website just makes me crazy...

I had to stop it and calm down...

P.S.I appologize about this,,dirty laundry,,

I just wanted to share with my worries,I believe Alvin

did the same...

Best of luck to you.

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AmericanGentleman   0

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Dear Al and Lola,

One of the biggest trials a foriegn groom or bride must undertake is dealing with the culture shock of being imersed into a new and alien country. Most couples do not consider this enormus impact culture shock has until they are struggling with it. I think this culture shock that Lola is having is the most dangerous thorn in your relationship. Many relationships fail because culture shock is not address by BOTH spouses. I do not think either of you are willing to let this relationship fail over this.

Al, to you I would say to try an remind yourself how hard it is for Lola, or anyone, to adapt to a new country. Every thing you think is simple is just slightly harder for her. And if every single thing is slightly harder, it can add up to too much weight. Think about it. Every time you go to a drive thru, renew a library card, answer a telemarket call...all of this things you do without thinking are things she has to cope with as a learning experience. She is going to school with every waking hour and that is extremely difficult for anyone. I believe you love her very much. I also believe your personal needs might not be getting addressed. It is hard for a man to put aside his needs, but you will have to for a short period until she adjusts to the culture shock. I believe she loves you and wants very much to address your needs, but she is simply too overwelmed at the moment to even address her own needs. Have patience with her and yourself, is the best advice I can give from someone who has been there.

Lola, in addition to what I said to all that also applies to you, I would add that you should remind yourself how strong you are. You have already achieve what most women are too weak to even consider. And although you are homesick and possibly a little afraid for the future, you are brave to face each day as an immigrant and work at your relationship at the same time. There is so much for you to do that you might loose sight of what you are working toward. Try to stop and enjoy your present life from time to time. Be patient both with yourself and Al. I think he loves you very much and you can build a good life together. Do not be afraid to ask him for emotional support. I think he really wants to be there for you. You should also take time to recognize that he is making difficult adjustments along side you. Just as you want him to address your needs, do not forget his needs too.

Culture shock goes away in time. Do not let it destroy what you have built together. It is ok to be homesick, and you should return to Korea in the future. But hopefully, you can return to Korea with Al as a happy couple and not as a last resort for being unhappy.

Good luck to you both.

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Logres   0

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Outside of the subject of using a rather unusual forum to have an important personal discussion...... can I just suggest that Al scans in the document that bears the reference number and sends it to Lola by email? Between them hopefully they can clarify what the reference number is, and determine next steps.....

"One person with a belief is equal to a force of 99 who have only interests."

John Stuart Mill

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Mononoke28   135

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Shoot, I just ran out of popcorn. BUT...

1. That Service Center # is whacked. It's BOGUS.

2. This is something that needs to be discussed between them two over the phone and in private.

3. But if this is how you want to deal with it... let me bring more popcorn so I can keep on readin'. It's been quite fun in all honesty.

Diana

CR-1

02/05/07 - I-130 sent to NSC

05/03/07 - NOA2

05/10/07 - NVC receives petition, case # assigned

08/08/07 - Case Complete

09/27/07 - Interview, visa granted

10/02/07 - POE

11/16/07 - Received green card and Welcome to America letter in the mail

Removing Conditions

07/06/09 - I-751 sent to CSC

08/14/09 - Biometrics

09/27/09 - Approved

10/01/09 - Received 10 year green card

U.S. Citizenship

03/30/11 - N-400 sent via Priority Mail w/ delivery confirmation

05/12/11 - Biometrics

07/20/11 - Interview - passed

07/20/11 - Oath ceremony - same day as interview

 
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