FIANCEE WANTS TO RETURN TO KOREA!!

[oggle1 0]

Thank you one and all for you prayers and support. I appreciate the wishes for good health and good luck.

Today, my lola had asked me about returning to korea. I had aid "NO," but she had stated

" work and make money,so I can feel free to buy me everything that I want like it was before" and " want to go back and feel korean air" and "Korea is better,because I have been there for a while,I know language and I won't lost there,I mean I know how to find a job,etc"

I love this woman and I am afraid that if I allow her to return to Korea, that I may loose her..

I do not know what to do...

[okspider 0]

Thank you one and all for you prayers and support. I appreciate the wishes for good health and good luck.

Today, my lola had asked me about returning to korea. I had aid "NO," but she had stated

" work and make money,so I can feel free to buy me everything that I want like it was before" and " want to go back and feel korean air" and "Korea is better,because I have been there for a while,I know language and I won't lost there,I mean I know how to find a job,etc"

I love this woman and I am afraid that if I allow her to return to Korea, that I may loose her..

I do not know what to do...

So she wants to go back there because she wants to buy stuff and she can't do that now? I mean.. hmm. And she can't get a job in the usa? If she really cares about your guys' life together you should sit down and work the pros and cons together. Maybe she just needs time to adjust. I hope it works out for you!

Edited August 24, 2007 by okspider

[ding 1]

From Uzbek and is familiar with Korea, which she prefers. That's tough. I wonder how you would do there... maybe pretty well, I don't know. If she wants to buy stuff more than be where you are and you two can be together... I dunno. But what does she do there for employment that earns her more than in the US? I thought the Asian economies were pretty closed to foreign workers unless they can't find that skill from a citizen.

Edited August 24, 2007 by ding

[pushbrk 13,173]

Thank you one and all for you prayers and support. I appreciate the wishes for good health and good luck.

Today, my lola had asked me about returning to korea. I had aid "NO," but she had stated

" work and make money,so I can feel free to buy me everything that I want like it was before" and " want to go back and feel korean air" and "Korea is better,because I have been there for a while,I know language and I won't lost there,I mean I know how to find a job,etc"

I love this woman and I am afraid that if I allow her to return to Korea, that I may loose her..

I do not know what to do...

You are speakin of another adult human being. It seems to me that "allowing her..." isn't up to you. If she doesn't want to be with you, you already lost her.

The relationship would need to become important enough to her to stay. Allowing has nothing to do with it, IMO.

[JODO 2]

From his timeline, I am thinking she is in Uzbeck now and has not arrived in the States as of yet.

[oggle1 0]

Thank you one and all for you prayers and support. I appreciate the wishes for good health and good luck.

Today, my lola had asked me about returning to korea. I had aid "NO," but she had stated

" work and make money,so I can feel free to buy me everything that I want like it was before" and " want to go back and feel korean air" and "Korea is better,because I have been there for a while,I know language and I won't lost there,I mean I know how to find a job,etc"

I love this woman and I am afraid that if I allow her to return to Korea, that I may loose her..

I do not know what to do...

So she wants to go back there because she wants to buy stuff and she can't do that now? I mean.. hmm. And she can't get a job in the usa? If she really cares about your guys' life together you should sit down and work the pros and cons together. Maybe she just needs time to adjust. I hope it works out for you!

My fiancee is in Uzbekistan..and she believes that I am lying about sending in the visa

petition. She believes that our petition is not being worked on if we can not verify our case number.

[oggle1 0]

Thank you one and all for you prayers and support. I appreciate the wishes for good health and good luck.

Today, my lola had asked me about returning to korea. I had aid "NO," but she had stated

" work and make money,so I can feel free to buy me everything that I want like it was before" and " want to go back and feel korean air" and "Korea is better,because I have been there for a while,I know language and I won't lost there,I mean I know how to find a job,etc"

I love this woman and I am afraid that if I allow her to return to Korea, that I may loose her..

I do not know what to do...

So she wants to go back there because she wants to buy stuff and she can't do that now? I mean.. hmm. And she can't get a job in the usa? If she really cares about your guys' life together you should sit down and work the pros and cons together. Maybe she just needs time to adjust. I hope it works out for you!

My fiancee is in Uzbekistan..and she believes that I am lying about sending in the visa

petition. She believes that our petition is not being worked on if we can not verify our case number.

I know that I must pay the price for my being a liar when she and I first met, which had trapped me into lying to her for 5 months. Yet, when she decided to stay with me after I was caught lying: I had made a promise to stop lying and I have been faithful to that promise with some failure and some success, but I had learned my lesson. I have improved at every possible situation.

I am hurt to find out that I may loose my Lola even as I endeavor to be more truthful, honest, and hardworking in all that I do.. I am thankful for her because she has helped me to seek the high goals in life. I love my Lola and will forever!!

[applewow 0]

OK...

Let me answer in here..

My name is Lola and yes,I am originally from Uzbekistan..

I met Al in Korea while he was in US military there..

I lost my job and moved to the city where he was stationed..

We were living together for a while and wanted to get married

when I found out that he is married...

I don't want to remember that time,it was hurrible...

But...he filed for divorce and step by spet we became a couple

again...If I say that I love him,it won't be enough...

HE IS MY EVERYTHING...

I love him that deep that I am willing to sucrifice all that I have

to make sure that he is OK...

I asked him about me going back to Korea because I miss it...

I don't feel right to be back home..Yes,I miss my parents...

My homeland...But everything is not right in here...

We met there and that's why I love this country...

Don't want to say something bad about Uzbekistan,but

I enjoyed my self better there...I could make money and be abple to help my parents..

But now I have to ask Alvin for support,I don't feel right all the time when I have to do that,

because I understand that he has to pay child support,etc...

I want to be independent person and sometimes send him presents and gift,like I did before...

I hope you remember that,Alvin,do you?

Thats all ...

And another thing about not trusting...

Yes,I had a very hard time to get trust back,after knowing that you weer lying about being single,when you were not...

But,because of my love to you I didn't leave you and tried to understand why you did it...

I am realistic person and understand that people are not perfect and sometimes could do mistakes...

But for me...AS LONG AS PEOPLE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER... EVERYTHING COULD WORK OUT JUST WELL!!!

Issue about you sending petition...

I hope you did,but to knowing case number that is not matching with USCIS website is more than just strange...

We got a case number that starts with VSC200707***

I believe people in VJ how has a case number will be able to proof that the case numbers dont start with 200707...

I really hope that everything will be alright soon...

I love you,Alvin and you know that...

All that you have to do just look back to our past and you will understand everything!!!

[beng_and_carl 0]

i believe that TRUST AND HONESTY are the best foundations in a relationship..

you must realize everything Lola...

God bless to you, Lola..

[applewow 0]

From his timeline, I am thinking she is in Uzbeck now and has not arrived in the States as of yet.

Yes,you're right...

I never been in the states before and I'm home now...

I only wanted to go back to Korea for a little while,while we

are waiting for NOA2(hope it will come some day)...

I was working in kindergarten school in Seoul and enjoying that so much...

P.S. I did not know that my desire go back to Korea will alarm my fiance that deep...

I am appologize if it hurt you Alvin!

[oggle1 0]

From his timeline, I am thinking she is in Uzbeck now and has not arrived in the States as of yet.

Yes,you're right...

I never been in the states before and I'm home now...

I only wanted to go back to Korea for a little while,while we

are waiting for NOA2(hope it will come some day)...

I was working in kindergarten school in Seoul and enjoying that so much...

P.S. I did not know that my desire go back to Korea will alarm my fiance that deep...

I am appologize if it hurt you Alvin!

Lola had given up many things for me and I am honored the she thought that I had deserved her sacrifice, but I do understand her unwillingness to wait 4 to 5 more months for a k1 visa to which she will have all she needs and wants. I love this woman with all my heart and I only wanted to make her happy as she made me. I truly understand that she was under lots of pressure to do what she needed to do. I do not hate her nor am I angry but I only wished that she could have waited a few more weeks and all would have been well.

LOLA, PLEASE COME BACK TO ME!!!!

[Ban Hammer 13,643]

i'm lost. what kind of work can she get in korea? can she speak korean?

[oggle1 0]

From his timeline, I am thinking she is in Uzbeck now and has not arrived in the States as of yet.

Yes,you're right...

I never been in the states before and I'm home now...

I only wanted to go back to Korea for a little while,while we

are waiting for NOA2(hope it will come some day)...

I was working in kindergarten school in Seoul and enjoying that so much...

P.S. I did not know that my desire go back to Korea will alarm my fiance that deep...

I am appologize if it hurt you Alvin!

Lola had given up many things for me and I am honored the she thought that I had deserved her sacrifice, but I do understand her unwillingness to wait 4 to 5 more months for a k1 visa to which she will have all she needs and wants. I love this woman with all my heart and I only wanted to make her happy as she made me. I truly understand that she was under lots of pressure to do what she needed to do. I do not hate her nor am I angry but I only wished that she could have waited a few more weeks and all would have been well.

LOLA, PLEASE COME BACK TO ME!!!!

Lola had given up many things for me and I am honored the she thought that I had deserved her sacrifice, but I do understand her unwillingness to wait 4 to 5 more months for a k1 visa to which she will have all she needs and wants. I love this woman with all my heart and I only wanted to make her happy as she made me. I truly understand that she was under lots of pressure to do what she needed to do. I do not hate her nor am I angry but I only wished that she could have waited a few more weeks and all would have been well.

LOLA, PLEASE COME BACK TO ME!!!!

i'm lost. what kind of work can she get in korea? can she speak korean?

she speraks korean well

i believe that TRUST AND HONESTY are the best foundations in a relationship..

you must realize everything Lola...

God bless to you, Lola..

honesty and trust means nothing without common sense

[one...two...tree 2,762]

No offense to either of you two, but it seems like you'd both be rushing into a marriage that is on shaky ground. Being crazy in love with someone doesn't always equate to marriage, IMO, especially when reality and blind love meet.

[applewow 0]

No offense to either of you two, but it seems like you'd both be rushing into a marriage that is on shaky ground. Being crazy in love with someone doesn't always equate to marriage, IMO, especially when reality and blind love meet.

We went through alot of hardship and only,,Being crazy in love,, helped us to survive!!!