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filip   0

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hi

i am chris, i have been married for like three years , at first it was great but so many things has happened and it is getting to the point that we have both realised that this is not working and we still live together but we have turned into roomates and strangers ,

i finally summoned the courage to tell my wife that its better we move our different ways instead of getting to hate each other , we have trust issue ,too indepent and not ready to compromise .

we have no kid and i am not fighting for any property , i just want to start my life again and find happiness and want the same for her

. i am leaving all the property for her but she does not want to divorce , what should i do in this case,i am leaving everything to her, i want want a clean break to start all over again

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Why would you not get a divorce?

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This isn't really my area of expertise, but this is just my take on the situation-since you've already offered to leave her everything and she STILL doesn't want a divorce, it sounds like she wants to keep the relationship going. So you are going to have to make the decision whether you are willing to stay and work on the relationship or if you're just going to have to leave her. Good luck.

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Hi!

I am Chris and have been married for like three years. At first it was great, but so many things have happened and it is getting to the point that we have both realized this isn't working. Although we still live together, we have turned into roommates and strangers.

I finally summoned the courage to tell my wife that it'd be better if we went our different ways, instead of hating each other. We have trust issues such as being too independent and not ready to compromise.

We have no children and I am not fighting for any property. I just want to start my life again and find happiness, the same for her.

I am leaving all the property for her, but she does not want to divorce. What should I do in this case, since basically I am leaving her everything? I just want a clean break and start all over again.

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Of the two of you; who's the immigrant and who's the USC? Has a GC already been given/granted to the immigrant or not? If so; how long ago? If not; how much longer 'til the interview date?

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hmmmmmmmmm...

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Hi!

I am Chris and have been married for like three years. At first it was great, but so many things have happened and it is getting to the point that we have both realized this isn't working. Although we still live together, we have turned into roommates and strangers.

I finally summoned the courage to tell my wife that it'd be better if we went our different ways, instead of hating each other. We have trust issues such as being too independent and not ready to compromise.

We have no children and I am not fighting for any property. I just want to start my life again and find happiness, the same for her.

I am leaving all the property for her, but she does not want to divorce. What should I do in this case, since basically I am leaving her everything? I just want a clean break and start all over again.

ADVICE NEEDED!

Of the two of you; who's the immigrant and who's the USC? Has a GC already been given/granted to the immigrant or not? If so; how long ago? If not; how much longer 'til the interview date?

If profile info is correct, OP filed for a CR-1, so it sounds like he could already have conditional green card. It be good for that to be confirmed, just in case I am picking up on information that's not accurate.

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