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Marrying an Older woman as a younger man

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Crazy Cat Grand Master

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13 hours ago, Been_Looking said:

She has stated multiple times that she loves me

She needs to join us here for this conversation.

"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

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In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

Boiler Grand Master

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Wonder if she has read the I 864

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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On 4/27/2025 at 6:30 PM, Been_Looking said:

Currently, I am in the United States with an F-1 visa, and I have graduated, but I am nearing my unemployment period because of this bad market! (This isn't the reason for marriage, but I am stating it.) I am hoping if we do get the I-485 receipt, I can take that to colleges that accept it, and can continue on my F-1 visa, thus I am not out of status, as some colleges accept the I-485 receipt. 

The fact that you are focused on marrying her to pursue this plan of action screams immigration fraud.

 

You elect to apply for the fiance or spousal visas to pursue a life with a person you love in the United States.  Using those visas as a means to circumvent an expiring visa is beyond inappropriate.

 

23 hours ago, Been_Looking said:

I hate it when Older men just get away with it!

There is a better argument for the age difference when the man is older, because of very real biological reasons.  An older woman cannot create a family with her spouse.  An older man with a younger spouse can.

 

23 hours ago, Been_Looking said:

USCIS needs to increase their security!

Can't argue with that.

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Been_Looking Newbie

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6 hours ago, hplusj said:

The fact that you are focused on marrying her to pursue this plan of action screams immigration fraud.

 

 

I'm sorry; I should have worded it better! Well, I mean to say I want to get married to her so that we're inseparable! I can't withstand how she would live without me (I cook and also clean for us). 

 

My F-1 visa doesn't expire until 2027. I happened to graduate early, although my I-20 expired since I graduated. 

 

 

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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but if your I-20 expired you have a 60 day grace period to leave. You are no longer authorized to remain in the US if your I-20 is expired. 
Failing to leave within 60 days means you will be unlawfully present in the US. 

 

 

Reading is what? Fun-da-men-tal!

 

Crazy Cat Grand Master

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***Non-contributory comment removed***

"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

Senior Master Sergeant, US Air Force- Retired (after 20+ years)- Missile Systems Maintenance & Titan 2 ICBM Launch Crew Duty (200+ Alert tours)

Registered Nurse- Retired- I practiced in the areas of Labor & Delivery, Home Health, Adolescent Psych, & Adult Psych.

IT Professional- Retired- Web Site Design, Hardware Maintenance, Compound Pharmacy Software Trainer, On-site go live support, Database Manager, App Designer.

______________________________________

In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

 
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