Does this look good for filing? [merged threads]

[Chelsyeet 0]

Hello I’m working on gathering evidence to show we are truly married in good faith but my overthinking mind wont shush up,
So I’d truly appreciate some feedback. I apologize if I ramble Or if spelling is off.
I’m Canadian (32) and my husband is us citizens (30) long distance for 2.5 yrs than came to visit first time for about 3 weeks, went home book led another flight 2 months later. That’s when he asked me to marry him.. And have stayed ever since, I didn’t think much of it of keeping records and trying to get things done fast, dumb me I know. And then when we were trying to get things done a yr later we had 3 tragedies take place that stopped us for many months. Now we wanna get back on it,
I don’t know if I have enough evidence and I’m currently on an overstay, and truly worried.

What we do have:
Marriage certificate
Joint bank account
Bills (phone)
A bunch of money transfers (PayPal)
Bunch of gifts Photos (of us together and on discord calls and length of calls , screenshots of us talking )
 Dentist insurance (as my emergency contact)
Affidavits 3
Joint sponsor ( don’t know if husband makes enough alone)
I am very worried this isn't  to start the filing
I am worried also since our id's don't match addresses.
Any help would be great, Thank you in advance

Edited Monday at 05:47 AM by TBoneTX

[Chelsyeet 0]

Hello I’m working on gathering evidence to show we are truly married in good faith but my overthinking mind wont shush up,
So I’d truly appreciate some feedback. I apologize if I ramble Or if spelling is off.
I’m Canadian (32) and my husband is us citizens (30) long distance for 2.5 yrs than came to visit first time for about 3 weeks, went home book led another flight 2 months later. That’s when he asked me to marry him.. And have stayed ever since, I didn’t think much of it of keeping records and trying to get things done fast, dumb me I know. And then when we were trying to get things done a yr later we had 3 tragedies take place that stopped us for many months. Now we wanna get back on it,
I don’t know if I have enough evidence and I’m currently on an overstay, and truly worried.

What we do have:
Marriage certificate
Joint bank account
Bills (phone)
A bunch of money transfers (PayPal)
Bunch of gifts Photos (of us together and on discord calls and length of calls , screenshots of us talking )
 Dentist insurance (as my emergency contact)
Affidavits 3
Joint sponsor ( don’t know if husband makes enough alone)
I am very worried this isn't  to start the filing
I am worried also since our id's don't match addresses.
Any help would be great, Thank you in advance

[OldUser 8,401]

What's the living arrangement? Do you have joint lease?

Do you both contribute and use money from joint account?

Can he add you to his health insurance (since it's risky to be uninsured in the US and it's good evidence)?

[TBoneTX 46,612]

Duplicate threads have been merged.

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Chelsyeet, please clarify:  Are you, the Canadian, living in the U.S. with your husband?

 

Draft wills, medical & financial powers of attorney, and similar estate documents.  These make superlative evidence of a bona fide relationship, and they're even more crucial to have in "life."

[carmel34 3,678]

10 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

Chelsyeet, please clarify:  Are you, the Canadian, living in the U.S. with your husband?

OP's previous post from last year indicated she is living with her husband in the US and adjusting status.

[Chelsyeet 0]

13 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

Duplicate threads have been merged.

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Chelsyeet, please clarify:  Are you, the Canadian, living in the U.S. with your husband?

 

Draft wills, medical & financial powers of attorney, and similar estate documents.  These make superlative evidence of a bona fide relationship, and they're even more crucial to have in "life."

i live with him in the us, no i don't have any estate things as we live with he's parent's, He's mother is gonna write in an a affidavit that we live here with them, 
and i was thinking of also getting power of attorneys too. 

[Chelsyeet 0]

 

13 hours ago, OldUser said:

What's the living arrangement? Do you have joint lease?

Do you both contribute and use money from joint account?

Can he add you to his health insurance (since it's risky to be uninsured in the US and it's good evidence)?

I mostly use the joint account but yes we both put money in the account, He uses he's main account more as we use it as an easier way to pay our our phone bill (we are on a joint family plan with he's mother) and she just takes out the amount out of he's account. we do not have any joint leases as we live with the family but he's mother has said she would put it in her affidavit that we live with her, 

[pushbrk 13,290]

The OP is the Canadian Beneficiary in an overstay situation, preparing to adjust status.

 

To the OP, the fact you've lived together so long is the strongest evidence you have of a genuine (bona fide) marriage relationship.  No need to worry more about that.

[Chelsyeet 0]

On 3/24/2025 at 1:36 PM, pushbrk said:

The OP is the Canadian Beneficiary in an overstay situation, preparing to adjust status.

 

To the OP, the fact you've lived together so long is the strongest evidence you have of a genuine (bona fide) marriage relationship.  No need to worry more about that.

i will forever be worried, i just hope that my evidence is strong enough truly.