I went to a bridal shower yesterday...

[Jashley820 0]

a milk and a sugar in my virtual tea please!

I will take milk...but do you have any splenda...i am on a no sugar diet hahahah

I have plenty of Splenda courtesy of Costco...so you should be very happy!

[G&A 1]

a milk and a sugar in my virtual tea please!

I will take milk...but do you have any splenda...i am on a no sugar diet hahahah

I have plenty of Splenda courtesy of Costco...so you should be very happy!

Isnt Costco in the US so much better! I love Costco...Maybe you can buy a third set of china from costco...and get 4% cashback

[Jashley820 0]

a milk and a sugar in my virtual tea please!

I will take milk...but do you have any splenda...i am on a no sugar diet hahahah

I have plenty of Splenda courtesy of Costco...so you should be very happy!

Isnt Costco in the US so much better! I love Costco...Maybe you can buy a third set of china from costco...and get 4% cashback

I love Costco- we get everything there, no word of a lie. We've recently made a rule to stop going there because we were spending too much money!!

[SonoranSongbird 3]

No reason you can't use your china just for yourself every now and again. I did not register the first time around, and likely won't this time either (we are combining two households after all!), but I have inherited the china set my grandmother got as a wedding gift in 1935. I can't imagine that I am EVER going to have any reason to use service for 12, so I figured why wait for an occasion that may or may not ever come up.

[Jashley820 0]

No reason you can't use your china just for yourself every now and again. I did not register the first time around, and likely won't this time either (we are combining two households after all!), but I have inherited the china set my grandmother got as a wedding gift in 1935. I can't imagine that I am EVER going to have any reason to use service for 12, so I figured why wait for an occasion that may or may not ever come up.

I bet your grandmother's china set is absolutely beautiful! That is definitely something worth cherishing.

[G&A 1]

a milk and a sugar in my virtual tea please!

I will take milk...but do you have any splenda...i am on a no sugar diet hahahah

I have plenty of Splenda courtesy of Costco...so you should be very happy!

Isnt Costco in the US so much better! I love Costco...Maybe you can buy a third set of china from costco...and get 4% cashback

I love Costco- we get everything there, no word of a lie. We've recently made a rule to stop going there because we were spending too much money!!

I KNOW! Once me and my mom went to buy omega 3 eggs...and we left with 2 swarovski crystals and a laptop LOL hahahah its a killer. especially when u walk byy the clothes section and the purses.

[Jashley820 0]

a milk and a sugar in my virtual tea please!

I will take milk...but do you have any splenda...i am on a no sugar diet hahahah

I have plenty of Splenda courtesy of Costco...so you should be very happy!

Isnt Costco in the US so much better! I love Costco...Maybe you can buy a third set of china from costco...and get 4% cashback

I love Costco- we get everything there, no word of a lie. We've recently made a rule to stop going there because we were spending too much money!!

I KNOW! Once me and my mom went to buy omega 3 eggs...and we left with 2 swarovski crystals and a laptop LOL hahahah its a killer. especially when u walk byy the clothes section and the purses.

OMG, now that's hilarious. Usually we go and we end up with house stuff...one time we found a chandelier, another time a rug, then an air compressor...my husband always gets lured in by the tools. The worst is when they run the coupons...I always stock up and so much money is tied up in products sitting in the basement. I call it The Bank of Costco. At least you can get your "deposit" back at any time with their awesome return policy!

[G&A 1]

a milk and a sugar in my virtual tea please!

I will take milk...but do you have any splenda...i am on a no sugar diet hahahah

I have plenty of Splenda courtesy of Costco...so you should be very happy!

Isnt Costco in the US so much better! I love Costco...Maybe you can buy a third set of china from costco...and get 4% cashback

I love Costco- we get everything there, no word of a lie. We've recently made a rule to stop going there because we were spending too much money!!

I KNOW! Once me and my mom went to buy omega 3 eggs...and we left with 2 swarovski crystals and a laptop LOL hahahah its a killer. especially when u walk byy the clothes section and the purses.

OMG, now that's hilarious. Usually we go and we end up with house stuff...one time we found a chandelier, another time a rug, then an air compressor...my husband always gets lured in by the tools. The worst is when they run the coupons...I always stock up and so much money is tied up in products sitting in the basement. I call it The Bank of Costco. At least you can get your "deposit" back at any time with their awesome return policy!

YES! We have one too at my parents house!! in the basement my mom stocks up on house stuff. I will be raiding it when i get my visa hahahahahah thats so funny. The coupons are killers.

[misa 2]

Tell me about it. Planning a wedding on each coast with a Chinese mother and a Jewish mother-in-law is a world of interesting in itself.

My sister had the same problem. What they ended up doing was 2 receptions... a big Portugese one the night of the wedding and then a big Chinese banquet the week after. They could not get married in her (now ex) husband's church though as she's not Catholic so they did the ceremony at a Unitarian church.

I, on the other hand, had none of that. Got married on a visit, no witnesses, nothing. I didn't even dress up.

[~Nini~ 2]

Tell me about it. Planning a wedding on each coast with a Chinese mother and a Jewish mother-in-law is a world of interesting in itself.

My sister had the same problem. What they ended up doing was 2 receptions... a big Portugese one the night of the wedding and then a big Chinese banquet the week after. They could not get married in her (now ex) husband's church though as she's not Catholic so they did the ceremony at a Unitarian church.

I, on the other hand, had none of that. Got married on a visit, no witnesses, nothing. I didn't even dress up.

I'm quite tempted to tell both of them that we're eloping on a sunny island somewhere in the Caribbean. The hassle of two weddings is silly.

[G&A 1]

Tell me about it. Planning a wedding on each coast with a Chinese mother and a Jewish mother-in-law is a world of interesting in itself.

My sister had the same problem. What they ended up doing was 2 receptions... a big Portugese one the night of the wedding and then a big Chinese banquet the week after. They could not get married in her (now ex) husband's church though as she's not Catholic so they did the ceremony at a Unitarian church.

I, on the other hand, had none of that. Got married on a visit, no witnesses, nothing. I didn't even dress up.

I'm quite tempted to tell both of them that we're eloping on a sunny island somewhere in the Caribbean. The hassle of two weddings is silly.

I hear ya! My whole family is driving me nuts!!!!!

[Jashley820 0]

Tell me about it. Planning a wedding on each coast with a Chinese mother and a Jewish mother-in-law is a world of interesting in itself.

My sister had the same problem. What they ended up doing was 2 receptions... a big Portugese one the night of the wedding and then a big Chinese banquet the week after. They could not get married in her (now ex) husband's church though as she's not Catholic so they did the ceremony at a Unitarian church.

I, on the other hand, had none of that. Got married on a visit, no witnesses, nothing. I didn't even dress up.

I'm quite tempted to tell both of them that we're eloping on a sunny island somewhere in the Caribbean. The hassle of two weddings is silly.

If I learned anything from my experience- it would be don't give in to others' wishes!! Make sure you follow your heart and do what makes you & your FH happy first! If your family loves you (which they do!) they will support your decisions!