Complex issue involving deportation and bigamy

[SalishSea 17,834]

10 hours ago, Nutcracker said:

I am very well settled in the UK with a great career so certainly not someone to use marriage to get US immigration.

And yet your history says otherwise.

 

I can't see you getting a visa to the US given your track record.  

[Boiler 45,525]

Well a waiver would be needed if recommended and they are neither quick or a given.

[SalishSea 17,834]

36 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Well a waiver would be needed if recommended and they are neither quick or a given.

Hasn't his 10 years passed at this point?

 

[Boiler 45,525]

26 minutes ago, SalishSea said:

Hasn't his 10 years passed at this point?

 

That would be for an overstay beyond 1 year, there was a 5 year ban for the deportation and as I did not get an answer I assumed other issues.

 

I find the UK situation particularly interesting, probably not relevant for a Tourist Visa

Edited Monday at 12:50 AM by Boiler

[Nutcracker 0]

@discoverusa

I reported it to the UK immigration and they were very upset that I did not invite them to the wedding.

 

@SteveInBostonI130

I don’t think you are reading my posts carefully. I DO NOT WANT TO IMMIGRATE TO US. I work for one of largest tech companies in a senior position and other than getting paid more than I need, I get a chance to self actualise myself. All I want is to be able to visit my wife when she is in distress and help her as much as I can. 

 

 

@SalishSea

History is a good predictor for people who are static and do not improve. I exert myself everyday to improve morally, cognitively and spiritually. I was very young when I went to the US and made mistakes but I think I paid a price much higher than my follies. At this point in my life and career, US cannot give me anything other than a chance to help someone whom I love and care for. 

 

 

Guys thanks for your replies - Even though many of these were not relevant to the immigration issue I appreciate your desire to help a complete stranger. 

[Boiler 45,525]

If you want visit the US you apply for a B Visa, go to the interview and find out.

 

No one here has a say in that.

[appleblossom 2,546]

27 minutes ago, Nutcracker said:

I don’t think you are reading my posts carefully. I DO NOT WANT TO IMMIGRATE TO US. 

 

Your first post in this thread says 'my question is if I can apply for a non-immigrant visa to go see her at least or in the best case scenario get an immigrant visa based on our valid marriage'. So you raised the question about an immigrant visa, people are only responding to the info you've given. 

[SteveInBostonI130 3,454]

3 hours ago, Nutcracker said:

@SteveInBostonI130

I don’t think you are reading my posts carefully. I DO NOT WANT TO IMMIGRATE TO US. I work for one of largest tech companies in a senior position and other than getting paid more than I need, I get a chance to self actualise myself. All I want is to be able to visit my wife when she is in distress and help her as much as I can. 

 

 

There are a lot of red flags in your case. 

 

1)  Why is your profile country Burkina Faso when you stated you married your second wife in your home country (India)?

2)  You refer to your first wife as "my wife" when you moved on from that relationship, married someone else, had children, set up a life in the UK, and gained UK citizenship.  In most cases people would refer to the person as "my first wife" rather than a more familial "my wife".  

3)  What happened to your first wife in the years since she was going to divorce you?  Did she re-marry?  Did she have a family with someone else? It seems you only kept up your relationship with your first wife until your attempts at immigration through her failed.  And now when you see a possible chance you can immigrate through her, you are all about her being "my wife".

4)  Your first wife didn't want a long distance relationship, didn't want to move to be with you, and wanted to divorce you.  You had zero cares for this as exemplified by not following up with her on the divorce process, not inquiring about the divorce papers for you to sign, and not wondering why you didn't get a divorce certificate.  You didn't even confirm with her your marriage/divorce status when you met your second wife and wanted to marry her.  You just went and did it.  But now you are a caring husband to your first wife and want to "help her as much as I can"? 

5)  As another VJ member stated, your original post declared that you preferred to pursue an immigration visa.  Your above post about helping your wife as much as you can seems to be a manufactured justification for trying to get a visa for someone you really do not know anymore.

6)  What does your current family think about this?  Your children?  Do they not need your help and support?  Do you not share custody?

 

[discoverusa 268]

5 hours ago, Nutcracker said:

@discoverusa

I reported it to the UK immigration and they were very upset that I did not invite them to the wedding.

 

@SteveInBostonI130

I don’t think you are reading my posts carefully. I DO NOT WANT TO IMMIGRATE TO US. I work for one of largest tech companies in a senior position and other than getting paid more than I need, I get a chance to self actualise myself. All I want is to be able to visit my wife when she is in distress and help her as much as I can. 

 

 

@SalishSea

History is a good predictor for people who are static and do not improve. I exert myself everyday to improve morally, cognitively and spiritually. I was very young when I went to the US and made mistakes but I think I paid a price much higher than my follies. At this point in my life and career, US cannot give me anything other than a chance to help someone whom I love and care for. 

 

 

Guys thanks for your replies - Even though many of these were not relevant to the immigration issue I appreciate your desire to help a complete stranger. 

Your sarcastic answer tells me you represented your second wife as your first and only wife. Good luck with whatever you are trying to accomplish.