Hi

[Dashinka 24,466]

8 hours ago, Boiler said:

She is visiting the US?

It sounds like the girlfriend is the USC and potential future petitioner.

[SalishSea 17,791]

9 hours ago, Pyke said:

Thank you and she is my girlfriend and we plan on getting married when she comes in December which will be 3 months of we talking and first time of we seeing each other 

Not a smart plan for a high-fraud consulate.   They will take it for what it obviously is- a green card marriage.

[TexasRafael 134]

Please understand that the the very experienced people here giving you advice, they are doing it based on their vast years of experience, and they honestly want the best for you and your experience in whatever VISA you eventually apply for.  It may not be what you want to hear but believe me that their advice is money in the bank for a successful VISA Journey.  Their advice is invaluable.     

[Marieke H 2,495]

Maybe the two of you should get to know each other first, before even thinking about engagement or marriage.

[Daphne . 1,852]

A lot of red flags here. High fraud country, getting engaged on first visit, very short relationship.
 

Any other red flags? Big age gap? Does your girlfriend have a good (stable) job? 

[Pyke 1]

1 minute ago, Daphne . said:

A lot of red flags here. High fraud country, getting engaged on first visit, very short relationship.
 

Any other red flags? Big age gap? Does your girlfriend have a good (stable) job? 

Yes she has and I think we can get engaged and not marry 

[Daphne . 1,852]

Just now, Pyke said:

Yes she has and I think we can get engaged and not marry 

Yes to the stable job or yes to the age gap? That’s an important one too, that’s why I asked. 
 

Getting engaged on a first visit is very soon as well. 

[Pyke 1]

2 minutes ago, Daphne . said:

Yes to the stable job or yes to the age gap? That’s an important one too, that’s why I asked. 
 

Getting engaged on a first visit is very soon as well. 

Okay thanks