USCF Currently pregnant getting abused emotionally, verbally, financially from husband - arrived 4 months ago

[AMK2021 29]

Thank you everyone! I feel much better. 

[Lemonslice 4,798]

Stay safe, especially if you are unsure how he'll react to the separation.  Take care.

 

https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/

[Cathi 5,742]

He has a 10 year GC, there's nothing you can do to have it taken away or send him home. The only way the I864 will be enforced is if he becomes a public charge, which I don't see happening with a young man his age. You can't report him for fraud, you sent in a lot of evidence to prove the contrary. You CAN report his employer for paying him under the table, neither of them are paying taxes on his income and that's illegal.

If I were you I would get as far away from him as humanly possible, make sure you and your baby are safe, file for divorce and never look back.

You can do this, you're a strong, intelligent woman, you have a lot going for you. I wish you the best. Have a safe delivery and congratulations on your little bundle of joy. Please keep us updated.

[Pinkrlion 2,711]

20 hours ago, AMK2021 said:

I am definitely looking into it... what typically happens is the man registers only 1 wife to the authorities but marries alot "religiously" unregistered. That would be great tho if that could be found out. 

If you find he was married to someone else. You can file for annulment vs divorce and provide USCIS the information which will revoke his GC. 

[AMK2021 29]

14 hours ago, Cathi said:

He has a 10 year GC, there's nothing you can do to have it taken away or send him home. The only way the I864 will be enforced is if he becomes a public charge, which I don't see happening with a young man his age. You can't report him for fraud, you sent in a lot of evidence to prove the contrary. You CAN report his employer for paying him under the table, neither of them are paying taxes on his income and that's illegal.

If I were you I would get as far away from him as humanly possible, make sure you and your baby are safe, file for divorce and never look back.

You can do this, you're a strong, intelligent woman, you have a lot going for you. I wish you the best. Have a safe delivery and congratulations on your little bundle of joy. Please keep us updated.

Thank you, I will definitely do it to protect my baby!! Waited and tried so hard for this person for 3 years just to see how horribly it came to end... I will keep you updated. Hopefully there is good news in just few months that this is all over. I am hoping after filing and final papers signed he just disappears. 

Edited October 8 by AMK2021
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[AMK2021 29]

3 hours ago, Pinkrlion said:

If you find he was married to someone else. You can file for annulment vs divorce and provide USCIS the information which will revoke his GC. 

Thank you Pinkrilion, I am looking into it. 

[Cathi 5,742]

9 hours ago, AMK2021 said:

 I am hoping after filing and final papers signed he just disappears. 

Me, too!! 

[TBoneTX 45,031]

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