U-Visa Fraud/Scam question

[JeanneAdil 6,489]

2 minutes ago, nmanc33 said:

Originally she came in on a J-1, but when we got married and her overstaying, she was on an ESTA. From what I understand, she may not be able to get an ESTA again if she leaves. Is the correct?

We have been in contact with one, he just said we need to wait the 1 year.

Absolutely! Completely different states now.

Careful of the wording of waiting time on internet sites 

some say none and some say  up to 180 

and this can be 

1. to file divorce papers

2. to be legally separated

3.  or wait time after papers are signed by judge to final divorce

[Crazy Cat 41,810]

22 minutes ago, nmanc33 said:

We have been in contact with one,

Who is "we"? I thought everything was fine in the marriage prior to her leaving....or have you consulted the attorney after she left?

Edited June 4 by Crazy Cat

[KMG 125]

2 hours ago, Timona said:

Didn't you already post this? 

 

I read the same script within the last month

Seems like a very similar case to one I read also...

[PASTJOURNEY18 9]

4 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Nothing you have mentioned suggests a U, a lot suggests VAWA.

 

Yes she gets EAD as part of the VAWA application. She may of course be working without authorisation.

This has confused me also - it does lead more towards VAWA, but what I have (concrete evidence) is U-visa. Unless she was part of a crime that I NEVER knew of.

3 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

Careful of the wording of waiting time on internet sites 

some say none and some say  up to 180 

and this can be 

1. to file divorce papers

2. to be legally separated

3.  or wait time after papers are signed by judge to final divorce

Regarding divorce? Unfortunately in our state we have to be separated and not in the same dwelling for 1 year.

2 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

Who is "we"? 

I meant me. Habit of saying we for 3 years now.

2 minutes ago, flyaroundglobe said:

I'm so sorry to hear about this terrible situation.

 

Here's what you can do:

1. Consult a Lawyer: This is a complex situation involving potential fraud and immigration concerns. A lawyer specializing in family law and immigration can advise you on the best course of action.

2. Limit Communication: Don't try to reason with your ex. Keep communication minimal and only through your lawyer.

3. Document Everything: Gather any evidence you have - financial records, recordings (if legal in your area), and statements from friends who suspect her plan.

4. Focus on Healing: This has been a betrayal, and it's important to focus on your well-being. Consider therapy to help process the situation.

Regarding the U-Visa: U-Visas are for victims of crimes. It's best to let the authorities handle the investigation.

1. We have an good divorce attorney, but he's not familiar with immigration aspect of things. I reached out to a VAWA/U-Visa focused attorney and they advised for me to send tip forms - nothing else can be done.

2. After I realized how she was manipulating me gas lighting me after the abandonment, all contact is done.

3. Have it all. I paid for her entire lifestyle here, all the bills, etc. Have texts admitting she was emotionally cheating on me, how I should still "apply for her waiver if I loved her" (then she said, but don't anymore BUT if you love me you would have even if we get divorced) - my friends are ready to submit anything from their side. They saw how dirty she did me.

4. Hardest part, but I'm trying.

 

Regarding the U-VISA, I would have been notified obviously by now if I did anything wrong right? It's been months since she left...

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2 minutes ago, KMG said:

Seems like a very similar case to one I read also...

By any chance on another forum? I did write about it elsewhere over 2months ago on another site.

[Boiler 45,445]

What concrete evidence do you have for a U?

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Just now, nmanc33 said:

By any chance on another forum? I did write about it elsewhere over 2months ago on another site.

Not it wasn't another one. Your case is a terrible reminder that there are people out there scamming the system.

[PASTJOURNEY18 9]

1 minute ago, Boiler said:

What concrete evidence do you have for a U?

VM from immigration attorney.

Just now, KMG said:

Not it wasn't another one. Your case is a terrible reminder that there are people out there scamming the system.

If you find it, please let me know! That would be unbelievable if this is a thing right now.

[Crazy Cat 41,810]

4 minutes ago, nmanc33 said:

nothing else can be done.

I think that says it all.  I think you should try to let go, move on to seek happiness for yourself. 

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1 minute ago, Crazy Cat said:

I think that says it all.  I think you should try to let go, move on to seek happiness for yourself. 

That has been the hardest part honestly. The feeling of being abandoned, then blamed for everything, questioning everything is surreal.

[Boiler 45,445]

The only Immigration Lawyer who would know what she filed would be her one and I do not see them telling you.

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2 minutes ago, Boiler said:

The only Immigration Lawyer who would know what she filed would be her one and I do not see them telling you.

I own the telephone number, they called and left a voicemail stating it...

[KMG 125]

19 minutes ago, nmanc33 said:

VM from immigration attorney.

If you find it, please let me know! That would be unbelievable if this is a thing right now.

I am part of a couple of FB groups for spouse visas and the number of divorces from VERY SPECIFIC countries is astounding.

[appleblossom 2,438]

3 minutes ago, nmanc33 said:

I own the telephone number, they called and left a voicemail stating it...

 

You have no way of knowing if that was a genuine call though (could have been fake just to wind you up - would she really have given your number out to her attorney??). And even if it was real, you don't know if the case actually went ahead. That may have been from an attorney that then declined to take her case once he found out she wasn't eligible for a U visa. 

 

But whatever the situation is, as said above there's nothing you can do about it. She's on her own now and it sounds like she's not in a great place immigration wise, but you can't worry about that. Focus on you.