pls help how to bring my under age son

[boy81999 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

[Boiler 45,940]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

You need to see a lawyer.

Sounds like you have major misrepesentation issues.

[boy81999 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

You need to see a lawyer.

Sounds like you have major misrepesentation issues.

I can't afford a lawyer coz I know my husband doesn't support me with the expenses. Any other option to do?

I'm very helpless.

[Boiler 45,940]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

You need to see a lawyer.

Sounds like you have major misrepesentation issues.

Try your local Catholic Charities, they should have free legal immigration advice.

I can't afford a lawyer coz I know my husband doesn't support me with the expenses. Any other option to do?

I'm very helpless.

[boy81999 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

You need to see a lawyer.

Sounds like you have major misrepesentation issues.

Try your local Catholic Charities, they should have free legal immigration advice.

I can't afford a lawyer coz I know my husband doesn't support me with the expenses. Any other option to do?

I'm very helpless.

thank you so much BOILER...Any other suggestion or have similar situation please share I would appreaciate. GOD SPEED.

[miles 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

Hi boy81999 ! I have a plan of getting my daughter too, but her case is different from yours. I am desparate Mother missing my children and I understand your feeling. I suggest you to call the US embassy in Manila and Inquire. you can easily talk to the operator and they will connect you to an adviser. Your case is complicated. Goodluck!

[Jasman0717 9]

If the boy's Father won't allow him to come what is the point of this?

[boy81999 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

Hi boy81999 ! I have a plan of getting my daughter too, but her case is different from yours. I am desparate Mother missing my children and I understand your feeling. I suggest you to call the US embassy in Manila and Inquire. you can easily talk to the operator and they will connect you to an adviser. Your case is complicated. Goodluck!

THANK YOU MILES...ITS HARD TO STRUGGLE EVERYDAY MISSING OUR KIDS THINKING WHAT THEY GONNA EAT AND IF SOMEBODY TAKE CARE OF THEM WHILE WE ARE AWAY. WELL, MY SON REALLY WANTS TO BE HERE WITH ME BUT HIS FATHER DOESN'T ALLOW HIM BEFORE. BUT NOW THAT HIS FATHER REALIZED THAT WE ARE IN THE GOOD HANDS HE PERMITTED ME TO GET MY SON. AT FIRST, EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY HIS SIDE AND MY SIDE IS HESITANT ABOUT MY NEWLIFE HERE. WE HAVE A BIG ARGUMENT ABOUT BRINGING MY SECOND CHILD BEFORE WE GOT HERE. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT MY KIDS...I DONT CARE ABOUT WEALTH AND EVERYTHING AS LONG AS I AM WITH MY KIDS. BUT ALL OF MY FRIENDS HERE IN AMERICA ADVISE ME NOT TO GO HOME YET JUST TO BE WITH MY SON COZ I HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND AND NEW FAMILY. I AM REALLY UPSET AND DESPERATE TOO HOW TO SOLVE MY PROBLEM ABOUT MY SON IF I COULD PETITION HIM NEXT YEAR OR IN THE FUTURE. WE'RE PLANNING TO HAVE A FAMILY VACATION NEXT YEAR IN THE PHILLIPPINES BUT NOW I'M SCARED TO MEET MY SON AND LEAVE HIM AGAIN.

[RandyandRina 2]

I think even if you have neglected to put your son on the petition, he is still entitled for a petition by your husband as a step-father. If I am not mistaken, the biological father has to provide a letter allowing his son to leave. I found this website from the US Embassy in Manila for (1) Registering Derivatives and (2) Following to Join Family Members.

(1) Registering Derivatives

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3232.html

(2) Following to Join Family Members

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3226.html

Hope this helps.

Edited November 4, 2007 by RandyandRina

[miles 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

Hi boy81999 ! I have a plan of getting my daughter too, but her case is different from yours. I am desparate Mother missing my children and I understand your feeling. I suggest you to call the US embassy in Manila and Inquire. you can easily talk to the operator and they will connect you to an adviser. Your case is complicated. Goodluck!

THANK YOU MILES...ITS HARD TO STRUGGLE EVERYDAY MISSING OUR KIDS THINKING WHAT THEY GONNA EAT AND IF SOMEBODY TAKE CARE OF THEM WHILE WE ARE AWAY. WELL, MY SON REALLY WANTS TO BE HERE WITH ME BUT HIS FATHER DOESN'T ALLOW HIM BEFORE. BUT NOW THAT HIS FATHER REALIZED THAT WE ARE IN THE GOOD HANDS HE PERMITTED ME TO GET MY SON. AT FIRST, EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY HIS SIDE AND MY SIDE IS HESITANT ABOUT MY NEWLIFE HERE. WE HAVE A BIG ARGUMENT ABOUT BRINGING MY SECOND CHILD BEFORE WE GOT HERE. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT MY KIDS...I DONT CARE ABOUT WEALTH AND EVERYTHING AS LONG AS I AM WITH MY KIDS. BUT ALL OF MY FRIENDS HERE IN AMERICA ADVISE ME NOT TO GO HOME YET JUST TO BE WITH MY SON COZ I HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND AND NEW FAMILY. I AM REALLY UPSET AND DESPERATE TOO HOW TO SOLVE MY PROBLEM ABOUT MY SON IF I COULD PETITION HIM NEXT YEAR OR IN THE FUTURE. WE'RE PLANNING TO HAVE A FAMILY VACATION NEXT YEAR IN THE PHILLIPPINES BUT NOW I'M SCARED TO MEET MY SON AND LEAVE HIM AGAIN.

Yes ,we are on the same boat....the same feeling...everytime I am eating yummy foods here..I remember them...and thinking too of what thier eating too... if they are just with me now I will be more happy and will be satisfied in life here in U.S. my family also advise me the same as yours..be patient on waiting and everything will be just Ok ...but still...I am missing them...the more I see and talk to them at Yahoo chat ..the more I am feeling guilty for them..but sometimes I just think that I am here now and my success will be their success too...so we can't do anything than just to pray for our success and pray for our childs health. I really want to hug them and kiss them. I am planning to visit them for a while this christmas but afraid of leaving them soon...all just the same with you...

[boy81999 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

Hi boy81999 ! I have a plan of getting my daughter too, but her case is different from yours. I am desparate Mother missing my children and I understand your feeling. I suggest you to call the US embassy in Manila and Inquire. you can easily talk to the operator and they will connect you to an adviser. Your case is complicated. Goodluck!

THANK YOU MILES...ITS HARD TO STRUGGLE EVERYDAY MISSING OUR KIDS THINKING WHAT THEY GONNA EAT AND IF SOMEBODY TAKE CARE OF THEM WHILE WE ARE AWAY. WELL, MY SON REALLY WANTS TO BE HERE WITH ME BUT HIS FATHER DOESN'T ALLOW HIM BEFORE. BUT NOW THAT HIS FATHER REALIZED THAT WE ARE IN THE GOOD HANDS HE PERMITTED ME TO GET MY SON. AT FIRST, EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY HIS SIDE AND MY SIDE IS HESITANT ABOUT MY NEWLIFE HERE. WE HAVE A BIG ARGUMENT ABOUT BRINGING MY SECOND CHILD BEFORE WE GOT HERE. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT MY KIDS...I DONT CARE ABOUT WEALTH AND EVERYTHING AS LONG AS I AM WITH MY KIDS. BUT ALL OF MY FRIENDS HERE IN AMERICA ADVISE ME NOT TO GO HOME YET JUST TO BE WITH MY SON COZ I HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND AND NEW FAMILY. I AM REALLY UPSET AND DESPERATE TOO HOW TO SOLVE MY PROBLEM ABOUT MY SON IF I COULD PETITION HIM NEXT YEAR OR IN THE FUTURE. WE'RE PLANNING TO HAVE A FAMILY VACATION NEXT YEAR IN THE PHILLIPPINES BUT NOW I'M SCARED TO MEET MY SON AND LEAVE HIM AGAIN.

Yes ,we are on the same boat....the same feeling...everytime I am eating yummy foods here..I remember them...and thinking too of what thier eating too... if they are just with me now I will be more happy and will be satisfied in life here in U.S. my family also advise me the same as yours..be patient on waiting and everything will be just Ok ...but still...I am missing them...the more I see and talk to them at Yahoo chat ..the more I am feeling guilty for them..but sometimes I just think that I am here now and my success will be their success too...so we can't do anything than just to pray for our success and pray for our childs health. I really want to hug them and kiss them. I am planning to visit them for a while this christmas but afraid of leaving them soon...all just the same with you...

yes..miles your right i think we are in the same feelings right now....i read your post about your kid too.....we talk my son everyday thru yahoo cam to cam but still its hard not to touch him and kiss him everynight...sometimes i just let my yahoo on... the whole day and his cam the whole night cos of the time difference we have....i see him sleeping the whole night but still its not enough....my husband promise me to do his best to get my son but for now... i need to be patient and relax....until now i can't beleive that i leave him in the philippines... until now i have questions in my mind

that how bad i am being a mother to him coz i feel guilty too....crying secretly.... .but its too late.....i just hope and pray we can survive the trials ...your right this is for there own good too......its sad though ....but this is the reality that we need to be strong for now......hopefully our pain would end and true happiness would come in our heart soon...

for me your problem is not big as mine....

[miles 0]

Hello everyone I'm an avid fan of VJ. Please enlighten me. I'm here in the u.s for cr1 visa with my kid. I'm married with an american. My problem is how can I bring my eldest son here in the u.s he's only 8 and he was not included in the petition of my husband coz we only declared in u.s.c.i.s manila that I only have 1 kid coz before, the father of my son doesn't allow me to bring him here. But now it's killing me everyday seeing my other kid enjoy all the furtune in life wherein my other angel doesn't have. I missed my son so much. I can't live without him. And everytime we talk on the phone he's begging me to get him cos he missed me so much too. Its alright for my husband to bring my other kid here but the problem is we deny him already in his petition. Its a long story why we deny him. I thought I can deal my day to day living without my son in my side, being a mom its hard for me and its killing me so much.

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

Hi boy81999 ! I have a plan of getting my daughter too, but her case is different from yours. I am desparate Mother missing my children and I understand your feeling. I suggest you to call the US embassy in Manila and Inquire. you can easily talk to the operator and they will connect you to an adviser. Your case is complicated. Goodluck!

THANK YOU MILES...ITS HARD TO STRUGGLE EVERYDAY MISSING OUR KIDS THINKING WHAT THEY GONNA EAT AND IF SOMEBODY TAKE CARE OF THEM WHILE WE ARE AWAY. WELL, MY SON REALLY WANTS TO BE HERE WITH ME BUT HIS FATHER DOESN'T ALLOW HIM BEFORE. BUT NOW THAT HIS FATHER REALIZED THAT WE ARE IN THE GOOD HANDS HE PERMITTED ME TO GET MY SON. AT FIRST, EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY HIS SIDE AND MY SIDE IS HESITANT ABOUT MY NEWLIFE HERE. WE HAVE A BIG ARGUMENT ABOUT BRINGING MY SECOND CHILD BEFORE WE GOT HERE. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT MY KIDS...I DONT CARE ABOUT WEALTH AND EVERYTHING AS LONG AS I AM WITH MY KIDS. BUT ALL OF MY FRIENDS HERE IN AMERICA ADVISE ME NOT TO GO HOME YET JUST TO BE WITH MY SON COZ I HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND AND NEW FAMILY. I AM REALLY UPSET AND DESPERATE TOO HOW TO SOLVE MY PROBLEM ABOUT MY SON IF I COULD PETITION HIM NEXT YEAR OR IN THE FUTURE. WE'RE PLANNING TO HAVE A FAMILY VACATION NEXT YEAR IN THE PHILLIPPINES BUT NOW I'M SCARED TO MEET MY SON AND LEAVE HIM AGAIN.

Yes ,we are on the same boat....the same feeling...everytime I am eating yummy foods here..I remember them...and thinking too of what thier eating too... if they are just with me now I will be more happy and will be satisfied in life here in U.S. my family also advise me the same as yours..be patient on waiting and everything will be just Ok ...but still...I am missing them...the more I see and talk to them at Yahoo chat ..the more I am feeling guilty for them..but sometimes I just think that I am here now and my success will be their success too...so we can't do anything than just to pray for our success and pray for our childs health. I really want to hug them and kiss them. I am planning to visit them for a while this christmas but afraid of leaving them soon...all just the same with you...

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yes..miles your right i think we are in the same feelings right now....i read your post about your kid too.....we talk my son everyday thru yahoo cam to cam but still its hard not to touch him and kiss him everynight...sometimes i just let my yahoo on... the whole day and his cam the whole night cos of the time difference we have....i see him sleeping the whole night but still its not enough....my husband promise me to do his best to get my son but for now... i need to be patient and relax....until now i can't beleive that i leave him in the philippines... until now i have questions in my mind

that how bad i am being a mother to him coz i feel guilty too....crying secretly.... .but its too late.....i just hope and pray we can survive the trials ...your right this is for there own good too......its sad though ....but this is the reality that we need to be strong for now......hopefully our pain would end and true happiness would come in our heart soon...

for me your problem is not big as mine....

WWWWWaaaaaaaaaaa Oh please God make us strong !!!