Nervous...

[JJWashington 0]

So well said.....

[disbelief 0]

So well said.....

I agree, very well said! I would like to add as well that I have personally ran into this same situation and have been closed out of several of my brother's lives, and that was for an American that they didn't approve of... he and I ended up breaking up after 7 years and I survived, even with no family support because I decided a long time ago that my life is MINE to live as I choose and I have never gone back on that, it's only normal for parents and family and friends to want to give their opinion it's what YOU do with their opinion that really matters in the end... it's most important to find yourself and decide what is best for you and your future. You've gone through so much at this point. I read everyone's posts and feel all of your pain - even though our journey will just begin in September, I am amazed and excited and disgusted at some of the things that I hear, I've even found myself in tears by some of the things that I've read here because it has to be miserable to be making such changes and feel like no one cares... then come the kind words of the VJer's (that's usually where I cry). You have to think that your lives together can be a beacon in the night for those to follow, let everyday be a beautiful unexplored journey involving you and the man that you love! Remember the reasons that you fell in love with him. Just take the criticism (no matter how constructive or unconstructive that it is) and learn from it. You only need to know that you love him and he loves you and if it is meant to be, it will be. I personally don't think that anyone here would have gone this far and not at some point felt the same way if they were in the same situation. I am terribly concerned about alot of things, where Kole is concerned, from how will he adjust to how will it be to live with someone again to what foods will he like or dislike to how will we raise our children... the smallest things make me realize that we are making life changing decisions. But, I digress...if it's the best thing for your sanity to part ways with the ones who push themselves away from you, I agree with someone who posted before in saying that you should let THEM be the reason. God will bless you and your future husband in great ways! And remember, anything worth having is worth working for! I wish you luck and I will keep you and your loved ones in my prayers! Sorry this was so long-winded... I felt compelled to give my 2 cents and some...lol!

[boo boo 1]

I am hoping that all went well w/ Ombeni's travels and I hope that everything has been going great. Please update us when you have the opportunity....have a blessed day

[LovinLiberia 0]

yes, I have been curious, also!

[JJWashington 0]

I have been curious as well. Please update us!!!