I gotta say Thanks to you all

[♥JP♥ 5]

She wants a reward huh? Some people are so dillusional.

[mybackpages 0]

I've seen more than my share of crazy muslim converts who are at best an embarrasment. This "friend" ...i'vve met many like her....shame on her. Dee- everything is going to feel so personal and so raw for a while.... No one knows what happens berween a husband and wife enough to understand completely why things happen, and no one can throw judgment around. Surround yourself with people who car supportive and comforting, not those who want to get in your business.

[peezey 0]

Dee, that woman is not your friend. She is blaming you? If a good muslim man is the kind your husband is, your friend can have him.

And by the way, why was your MARRIED HUSBAND talking to a woman friend? What kind of good muslim is that? And what kind of muslim is she that she accepts that kind of mixed-gender friendship with the husband of her friend? The two of them are demented and deserve each other.

[deemabrouk 0]

I've seen more than my share of crazy muslim converts who are at best an embarrasment. This "friend" ...i'vve met many like her....shame on her. Dee- everything is going to feel so personal and so raw for a while.... No one knows what happens berween a husband and wife enough to understand completely why things happen, and no one can throw judgment around. Surround yourself with people who car supportive and comforting, not those who want to get in your business.

well shes a "born" muslim from Egypt... she has known him for years... I've known her for 3/4 years I just I am shock that one of my "gurls" had took the mans side to an abusive thing........

this sucks

[maggieNomar 0]

Dee, that woman is not your friend. She is blaming you? If a good muslim man is the kind your husband is, your friend can have him.

And by the way, why was your MARRIED HUSBAND talking to a woman friend? What kind of good muslim is that? And what kind of muslim is she that she accepts that kind of mixed-gender friendship with the husband of her friend? The two of them are demented and deserve each other.

Indeed!!

I'm glad you had the strength and presence of mind to get out while the getting was good, and to protect your kids. And you still found the time to keep us informed about you. Wow, What a wild ride you have had. I am so sorry that this has turned out so badly for you. I wish you the best and happier future ahead.

PS: You are going to cancel AOS aren't you?? I would imagine it's not the priority, but I sure hope he's not getting a green card out of this.

[tnh9479 1]

Dee,

I am glad you made a decision for yourself and your boys this morning. Sometimes I think the "trying" to make a decision is worse than actually dealing with the situation afterwards.

I wonder sometimes why people revel in making others lives bad. I truly cannot believe this so-called-friend was behaving as she did. She is the one who has to answer to Allah.

Twila

[MHandMB 0]

Dee, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I know that things have been really tough for you for a while, but I think you'll eventually find peace and happiness once this is behind you.

I know everything is raw, but if you're absolutely sure that everything is over, I'd check into getting AOS canceled as quickly as possible. There may be a chance that you can withdraw your affidavit of support so that he doesn't have financial recourse against you if he does decide he wants to try to stay here.

I'm so sorry to hear how things have turned out, but I wish you all the best, and love and happiness in the future.

[deemabrouk 0]

Dee, that woman is not your friend. She is blaming you? If a good muslim man is the kind your husband is, your friend can have him.

And by the way, why was your MARRIED HUSBAND talking to a woman friend? What kind of good muslim is that? And what kind of muslim is she that she accepts that kind of mixed-gender friendship with the husband of her friend? The two of them are demented and deserve each other.

Indeed!!

I'm glad you had the strength and presence of mind to get out while the getting was good, and to protect your kids. And you still found the time to keep us informed about you. Wow, What a wild ride you have had. I am so sorry that this has turned out so badly for you. I wish you the best and happier future ahead.

PS: You are going to cancel AOS aren't you?? I would imagine it's not the priority, but I sure hope he's not getting a green card out of this.

well now I am sitting in my families house... not sure what to do with myself... I left in my pajama's.. thats all i have with me..

And I went to the bank and cancelled the checks for AOS/ EAD... I'll give him the $ back OR apply it to a airplane ticket..

I'll worry about actually contacting them in a few days.......

[♥JP♥ 5]

Dee, that woman is not your friend. She is blaming you? If a good muslim man is the kind your husband is, your friend can have him.

And by the way, why was your MARRIED HUSBAND talking to a woman friend? What kind of good muslim is that? And what kind of muslim is she that she accepts that kind of mixed-gender friendship with the husband of her friend? The two of them are demented and deserve each other.

Indeed!!

I'm glad you had the strength and presence of mind to get out while the getting was good, and to protect your kids. And you still found the time to keep us informed about you. Wow, What a wild ride you have had. I am so sorry that this has turned out so badly for you. I wish you the best and happier future ahead.

PS: You are going to cancel AOS aren't you?? I would imagine it's not the priority, but I sure hope he's not getting a green card out of this.

well now I am sitting in my families house... not sure what to do with myself... I left in my pajama's.. thats all i have with me..

And I went to the bank and cancelled the checks for AOS/ EAD... I'll give him the $ back OR apply it to a airplane ticket..

I'll worry about actually contacting them in a few days.......

Good for you. But you know what? You need to kick HIM out and go back to your home. Its your place not his and you have the kids. Maybe your so called friend that led to the demise of your relationship should take him in. She didn't seem to have a problem getting involved to this point. Don't worry about where he is gonna go either, let him cope and deal with it.

[mybackpages 0]

I've seen more than my share of crazy muslim converts who are at best an embarrasment. This "friend" ...i'vve met many like her....shame on her. Dee- everything is going to feel so personal and so raw for a while.... No one knows what happens berween a husband and wife enough to understand completely why things happen, and no one can throw judgment around. Surround yourself with people who car supportive and comforting, not those who want to get in your business.

well shes a "born" muslim from Egypt... she has known him for years... I've known her for 3/4 years I just I am shock that one of my "gurls" had took the mans side to an abusive thing........

this sucks

still shameful

yes it sucks

[brnidokiegurl 0]

So sorry, seems his mind and heart were not strong to look thur this persons input and see what a good life he had, hopefully you can get the ticket soon and return to your house and he to his family

[JODO 2]

Dee I really applaud you for making the best decision for not only yourself but also your kids. I really did not want to say so before now, but girl your husband is a whack job. Oh and I know you left your house to protect yourself and your kids, but hell no that is your house and HE NEEDS TO LEAVE! You can call the Egyptian embassy, or something,but he needs to go. You have kids and they do not need to be uprooted like this even though it is family thank God, but you need to keep it as normal as possible for them. Nevertheless, your so-called friend, she never was and it is good the wool has been pulled from your eyes.

I wish you all the best

[~~~water~~~ 0]

Thats great you could cancel the checks. Im so sorry for what you are going through. He seems to have extreme issues and you don't need that.

[♥JP♥ 5]

Dee, out of curiousity, how do you think his family will react to this? Did you have a good relationship with them?

[deemabrouk 0]

Dee, out of curiousity, how do you think his family will react to this? Did you have a good relationship with them?

my arabic is NOT good enough to relay all of this .. plus he made me erase all of their #'s out of my phone during one of our last fights