I gotta say Thanks to you all

[UmmSqueakster 54]

Still rootin for you Dee. My husband is very concerned about your husband's behavior, and his offer to chat with him still stands, if he's so inclined.

[deemabrouk 0]

doodle is right.. I'm only logging on from work.. but I am getting wary of even posting on here.. Apparetly he is "checking up" on me.. and some how saw my myspace page that has been private??? (and no.. as far as i know he has No account on there)

he also is going through my things at home. Which I am not too happy with every phone call he demands to know who it is....... Even IM's// I've stopped opening them.. cause he then HAS to read what and who i am typing too

we are still fighting every night.... but No HUGE blow outs yet

honestly.. i feel so distant from him.. I'd rather not talk to him.. just be in silence.... even hearing him breath seems to annoy me.. i dont even want him to touch my hand

I'm angry, bitter resentful..... he's on my sh*t list now

Edited August 9, 2007 by deemabrouk

[amal 4]

What I Pm'd u the other day stll stands. I'm off today so feel free. I think he's taking things a bit too far. It sounds like its not getting much better. I hope that with some more visits to the Imam it will help him to realize what he is doing is unacceptable. I'm keeping you in my prayers girl.

[deemabrouk 0]

i dont know..... even if he DOES come around... i dont know if I can change.. he says I am like a stone now.. or my blood is ice..... Maybe it is.

[peezey 0]

Those kind of statements from him are totally manipulative and unfair. Just because you have withdrawn from him, doesn't mean you have changed as a person. You are protecting yourself. He's battered your trust in him emotionally, what does he expect?

[morocco4ever 63]

OMG, I am so sorry for what you are going through.

Its true that culture shock can make them act differently, and each man reacts differently, but there is no excuse for this. I am amazed at your strength.

[ya falaha! 0]

I'm amazed at her patience.

[♥JP♥ 5]

I'm amazed at some of these posts.

Dee, you are doing the right thing. Stay strong.

[~Jackie~ 30]

I hope it all works out for you.

Jackie

wish we could have talked to an imam.

[deemabrouk 0]

fighting again.......

now i'm a lesbian... but yet having sex with other men.....

he went through MORE of my old boxes in my closets...... boxes i have checked in 10 years

he found a forgien language book that had lesbian terms.... not for nothing it was 10 years old.. and it had 5 languages in it

[♥JP♥ 5]

fighting again.......

now i'm a lesbian... but yet having sex with other men.....

he went through MORE of my old boxes in my closets...... boxes i have checked in 10 years

he found a forgien language book that had lesbian terms.... not for nothing it was 10 years old.. and it had 5 languages in it

Dee, I think your husband has some serious mental issues. I'm worried for your safety. This is not normal and definitly NOT culture shock.

[peezey 0]

fighting again.......

now i'm a lesbian... but yet having sex with other men.....

he went through MORE of my old boxes in my closets...... boxes i have checked in 10 years

he found a forgien language book that had lesbian terms.... not for nothing it was 10 years old.. and it had 5 languages in it

Dee, do you have anyone that can come get him?

[deemabrouk 0]

havent checked in ten years......... edit...

and nope

[sara535 15]

Yeah, I agree, that is way beyond normal culture shock and adjustment issues. He needs to GET AHOLD OF HIMSELF. and you need to get away.

[peezey 0]

havent checked in ten years......... edit...

and nope

the Imam? Can you call him and ask if someone is available to come get him during the day and take him to the mosque to get away from the house & the computer? He needs to get out of there, and I know you probably don't want to spread your business too far, but it seems your imam is really great and on your side.