Hard pillows?

[ATCSUSNRET 60]

I apologize if this seems silly, but my finacee is finally here and I cannot find a very firm/hard pillow like she had in Vietnam.  I have bought 3 different "firm" pillows since her arrival 3 weeks ago and they are all too soft.  Her pillow at home was unbelievably hard in my opinion, and I cannot find anything over here comparable to date.  Anyone else run into this?  I'm thinking some sort of Yoga bolster, etc.  

 

Seth

[Rocio0010 5,579]

30 minutes ago, ATCSUSNRET said:

I apologize if this seems silly, but my finacee is finally here and I cannot find a very firm/hard pillow like she had in Vietnam.  I have bought 3 different "firm" pillows since her arrival 3 weeks ago and they are all too soft.  Her pillow at home was unbelievably hard in my opinion, and I cannot find anything over here comparable to date.  Anyone else run into this?  I'm thinking some sort of Yoga bolster, etc.  

 

Seth

Have you checked Mattress Firm?

[ATCSUSNRET 60]

Yes, we went by one yesterday.  

[etrangais 947]

Try Costco

they have some firm pillows

[Redro 4,611]

1 hour ago, ATCSUSNRET said:

I apologize if this seems silly, but my finacee is finally here and I cannot find a very firm/hard pillow like she had in Vietnam.  I have bought 3 different "firm" pillows since her arrival 3 weeks ago and they are all too soft.  Her pillow at home was unbelievably hard in my opinion, and I cannot find anything over here comparable to date.  Anyone else run into this?  I'm thinking some sort of Yoga bolster, etc.  

 

Seth

I would go online and see about buying her preferred brand of pillow from a Vietnamese retailer. I buy some South African home goods from a South African online store and some Korean home goods from Korean online stores… 

[Verrou 1,962]

Buy from the home country. Thats what I did 😂 I have similar issue but for “bolster” and not pillow. And turned out I got the wrong one, my friend who sell this kind of thing back home told me to go to craft store and bought filler, I did it, stuff inside and perfecto 

Edited March 11 by Verrou

[Phuoc Le 0]

You can try latex pillows. They are firm, but not stone hard like the old pillows in Vietnam.

[gregcrs2 1,778]

A bag of cement would be pretty hard.  Just kidding.

[J.M. 230]

I gave up on finding a pillow that suits me and made my own by cutting/folding/rolling up a memory foam mattress pad and stuffing it inside a zippered pillowcase.  It's definitely a lot firmer than "firm" pillows, and you can make it whatever size and firmness you want.  I don't mean cut it up into blocks.  Cut it the width you want it and then fold/roll it into shape.  The zippered case will hold the shape, then you can put it inside a regular pillowcase.

[jackiegringa 419]

Look for cervical memory foam pillows, there are different shapes but they are a big slab of hard foam in most cases.

[millefleur 5,046]

13 hours ago, ATCSUSNRET said:

Her pillow at home was unbelievably hard in my opinion, and I cannot find anything over here comparable to date.

What is it made out of? That might be the key to finding it. In Russia I discovered buckwheat pillows (interior is stuffed with buckwheat hulls) and I was able to get them here once I searched that. 

[Family 3,988]

According to Alibaba , a rattan pillow is manufactured in Vietnam . I cannot imagine anything harder..

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/Healthy-Handwoven-Rattan-Pillow-Weaving-Pillow_11000010656969.html

[Joyoussinger 1,425]

4 hours ago, millefleur said:

What is it made out of? That might be the key to finding it. In Russia I discovered buckwheat pillows (interior is stuffed with buckwheat hulls) and I was able to get them here once I searched that. 

We have pillows filled with organic buckwheat hulls, and they are wonderful! 

[mam521 2,062]

I was going to suggest a buckwheat pillow.  My friend swears by hers.  

[ATCSUSNRET 60]

1 hour ago, mam521 said:

I was going to suggest a buckwheat pillow.  My friend swears by hers.  

I have one coming today via amazon.  If that don't cut it Ill try cutting up a memory foam topper I have like mentioned above.