Can I re-marry my ex-wife?

[Okegiftgift 0]

I obtained my US passport through marriage, but my wife, in the aftermath of the COVID-19 pandemic, decided to end our six-year marriage. Despite all efforts to salvage it, she filed for divorce, leaving me with the shared debts, which I have since managed to handle. It has been two years since our divorce, and I find myself feeling lonely, realizing that I cannot be without a partner. I am 40 years old and have three children from a previous marriage.

During a recent visit to drop off my kids after spending a few days with me, I noticed a positive change in my ex-wife. She appeared younger and more desirable, having overcome the addictions that contributed to our divorce. Now, I am contemplating remarrying her and exploring the possibility of filing for a green card for her to join me in the USA with our children.

Our original marriage, through which I obtained US citizenship, was genuine, spanning seven years with shared experiences. Despite the serious issues that led to our separation, I am seeking advice on the possibility of remarriage and the feasibility of filing a green card for my ex-wife. Your guidance on this decision would be greatly appreciated."

Edited March 9 by Okegiftgift

[powerpuff 6,697]

This is very confusing. So you have two ex-wives: your first ex-wife is who you share children with then your second ex-wife is who you obtained your US Citizenship through?

 

33 minutes ago, Okegiftgift said:

During a recent visit to drop off my kids after spending a few days with me, I noticed a positive change in my ex-wife. She appeared younger and more desirable, having overcome the addictions that contributed to our divorce. Now, I am contemplating remarrying her and exploring the possibility of filing for a green card for her to join me in the USA with our children.

Do you not live in the US? You mention dropping them off at hers and then saying you want her to join you in the US. Are you both living abroad? 

[jackiegringa 419]

It's hard to follow your story because you said you became a citizen through marriage but now wants to file for a green card for your ex-wife.

 

So you married wife A, both of you not US citizens. Divorced wife A, married wife B, she was a US citizen and got you your citizenship. Now you are thinking of remarrying wife A, is that it?

 

Besides extra scrutiny to clarify you didn't just married your wife B for citizenship purposes I don't see why not. Be prepared to prove your marriage to the US citizen was genuine and that you're not just trying to get citizenship for your non US wife. If you knew your non US wife before obtaining citizenship that will be another hurdle to prove you didn't marry just to get yourself and your first partner a US passport.

[JeanneAdil 6,492]

remarry and file I 130 for wife and one for each of your children 

embassy interview will have questions about "why the divorce?"  she needs to answer honestly

 

Do u currently live in USA?

 

married 7 years to USC and then divorced should not interfer with the remainder of your life

 

But there are countries that practice "leaving family behind and marrying USC and then divorcing to bring former wife/gf to US so knowing the country and what the embassy has seen in the past is important

[Okegiftgift 0]

My first wife, originally from India, and I had three children together. Unfortunately, due to her struggles with addiction, we ended up getting divorced. Subsequently, I moved to the USA, where I eventually fell in love with my second wife (referred to as 'Wife B'). However, after seven years, she expressed her desire to divorce, citing a lack of interest in our relationship. It has been two years since our divorce.

Recently, I traveled to India to visit my children. During this time, they spent some valuable moments with me. When I dropped them off for their return to the US, I observed a significant positive change in my first wife. Considering this transformation, I am contemplating the idea of re-marrying her and potentially filing for a green card for her.

I want to highlight that I have all the necessary evidence to substantiate the genuineness of my marriage to Wife B, who played a crucial role in helping me obtain a US passport. This verification was completed before pursuing a green card. I am seeking guidance on the feasibility of re-marrying my first wife and the process of filing for her green card, given the circumstances. Any advice on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

 

My wife A she is now a student in Canada doing her Masters with our children.  I have already filed form i-130 for my first daughter who is about to turn 13 years old I am still waiting for the approval of i-130 is been 7 months now.

Edited March 9 by Okegiftgift

[appleblossom 2,482]

36 minutes ago, Okegiftgift said:

Considering this transformation, I am contemplating the idea of re-marrying her and potentially filing for a green card for her.

 

 

What does your ex-wife think? Maybe it's just the phrasing, but it sounds as though you've decided this unilaterally! Whatever you (both) decide, I'd suggest you take your time to re-discover each other and see if you are compatible or not, people can change a lot in 7 years. Even though you've been married before and have children together, you should date for a while first and see what happens - both for yourselves, but also so that it doesn't look suspicious in USCIS's eyes.

 

You say your ex has just moved to Canada on a study permit, did she ever try and get a F1 to study in the US??

Edited March 9 by appleblossom

[Timona 4,207]

1. Did you mention the kids from Wife A in your application when you applied for a GC and subsequently all through to your citizenship application?

2. I don't understand your second post. Does wife B also have kids with you or it's just wife A?

[Okegiftgift 0]

My ex-wife has never applied for a USA visa to date. In my USCIS application, I included information about all three children, and at one point, they even requested evidence of child support.

My second wife, referred to as Wife B, has not borne any children for me due to a completed battle with cancer, rendering her unable to conceive.

Currently, I am contemplating observing a two-year period before considering remarriage. Perhaps during this time, I may encourage her to apply for a visit visa to the USA or consider applying for a fiancée visa before formalizing our marriage. I find myself in a state of confusion.

Despite uncertainties, I am torn between letting her go and seeking another relationship, or embracing the idea of rekindling our love. She is just 36 years old and expresses a willingness to remarry.

My eldest daughter has suggested, 'Daddy, why not consider returning to Mom; she has changed for the better now!' I am grappling with these decisions and would appreciate any guidance or advice in this matter.

 

More also, I am now working with the US government as a cybersecurity expert. 

 

Edited March 9 by Okegiftgift

[Ontarkie 14,218]

~~Moved to What Visa Do I Need, form AOS from Work, Student and Tourist Visas - as the OP is exploring how to bring his ex-wife to the US if they remarry.~~

[SalishSea 17,819]

7 hours ago, Okegiftgift said:

My ex-wife has never applied for a USA visa to date. In my USCIS application, I included information about all three children, and at one point, they even requested evidence of child support.

My second wife, referred to as Wife B, has not borne any children for me due to a completed battle with cancer, rendering her unable to conceive.

Currently, I am contemplating observing a two-year period before considering remarriage. Perhaps during this time, I may encourage her to apply for a visit visa to the USA or consider applying for a fiancée visa before formalizing our marriage. I find myself in a state of confusion.

Despite uncertainties, I am torn between letting her go and seeking another relationship, or embracing the idea of rekindling our love. She is just 36 years old and expresses a willingness to remarry.

My eldest daughter has suggested, 'Daddy, why not consider returning to Mom; she has changed for the better now!' I am grappling with these decisions and would appreciate any guidance or advice in this matter.

 

More also, I am now working with the US government as a cybersecurity expert. 

 

Maybe it's a cultural thing, but this is a very strange situation.

 

Doubtful she would get a B visa though.

[Okegiftgift 0]

I'm intrigued by the potential reasons why she will be rejected if she decides to apply for a B2 visa . As a seasoned world traveler, she has explored numerous countries, including Canada, the UK, Germany, Japan, China, etc. Additionally, her prestigious role as a medical director and a net worth exceeding $5 million enhance her credentials. Interestingly, her interest in coming to the US appears to be primarily linked to the idea of remarriage rather than a general inclination. She mentioned that she doesn't have a favorable view of the United States and that, aside from the marriage idea, she wouldn't consider coming here. When I asked her why, she simply said, "I just do not like the country." Lol.

Edited March 10 by Okegiftgift

[carmel34 3,622]

3 hours ago, Okegiftgift said:

She mentioned that she doesn't have a favorable view of the United States and that, aside from the marriage idea, she wouldn't consider coming here. When I asked her why, she simply said, "I just do not like the country." Lol.

Are you willing to relocate to the country where she lives?  That would make more sense given her dislike of the USA.

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2 hours ago, carmel34 said:

Are you willing to relocate to the country where she lives?  That would make more sense given her dislike of the USA.

That would seem to be the obvious solution.

[Okegiftgift 0]

I cannot quit my job and depend on a woman. Besides, I do not know what she is up to. Additionally, I need to process USA passports for my kids, and the application is ongoing.

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8 minutes ago, Okegiftgift said:

I cannot quit my job and depend on a woman. 

You said she has $5m?