K1 Fiance Visa My Wife disappeared and is unresponsive. Found out from sister that she is having an affair with her co worker and intended just to stay with me until she she saved some money and then move out in an apartment with him. Also charged $10K me

[Nazim and Debbie 14]

Hello guys. What can I do about this? Is it possible for her to residency to be revoked and for her to return to Brazil?

K1 Fiance Visa - Married January 2022.

My Wife disappeared and is unresponsive. Found out from her sister that she is having an affair with her co worker and intended just to stay with me until she she saved some money and then move out in an apartment with him. Her sister sent me pictures showing this. She was trying to hide this from me. She was using my credit card to afford them while this was occurring. Including uber to get them both to work and back since he lost his license.

So her plan was to return, and save money until start of next year.

She also charged $10K medical bill on my credit card for eye surgery in the weeks prior and to this occurring.

Additionally she has been abusive to my 4 year old to 5 year old son where I had to separate them. I have this on video. Unfortunately don't have more because she started going around turning off the videos in my house.

[Ontarkie 14,304]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from K1 P&P- As similar thread are discussed here.~~

 

 

 

[Ontarkie 14,304]

Have you filed for AOS and has she received her GC yet? If it is still in the works, pull the affidavit of support now.

 

As for the abuse to your child file a police report with proof of it. Protect yourself and your son. 

[Boiler 45,727]

Seems like it is 22 months since her arrival and for most cases they would have filed to adjust an been approved by now, especially as so many interviews are waived.

 

Pull the I 864 if the case is outstanding, otherwise this is matter for a Divorce Lawyer not an Immigration Lawyer.

[Amunah 62]

I do not like this at all. 

[Boiler 45,727]

5 minutes ago, Amunah said:

I do not like this at all. 

[Amunah 62]

[Nazim and Debbie 14]

32 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

Have you filed for AOS and has she received her GC yet? If it is still in the works, pull the affidavit of support now.

 

As for the abuse to your child file a police report with proof of it. Protect yourself and your son. 

I don't recall this process. I think she does have her greencard but not sure

[Ontarkie 14,304]

8 minutes ago, Nazim and Debbie said:

I don't recall this process. I think she does have her greencard but not sure

Do you not remember filling out more paperwork after you two were married? 

 

If she does have the GC not much you can do.

File a report for the abuse of your child and get a good attorney to start the divorce process. One that will stick her with at least half of the debt she created too. 

Edited November 3, 2023 by Ontarkie

[Boiler 45,727]

She is working so I assume she got her EAD and SSN, and normally someone would mention to their spouse, look what came today my GC! But maybe not in this case.

[Nazim and Debbie 14]

9 minutes ago, Boiler said:

She is working so I assume she got her EAD and SSN, and normally someone would mention to their spouse, look what came today my GC! But maybe not in this case.

Yes she has her social security card and started working

Edited November 3, 2023 by Nazim and Debbie

[SalishSea 17,969]

18 minutes ago, Boiler said:

She is working so I assume she got her EAD and SSN, and normally someone would mention to their spouse, look what came today my GC! But maybe not in this case.

Not only that, but he would have had to sign the I-864.  I don't understand how someone could not recall this process.

[igoyougoduke 1,662]

2 hours ago, Nazim and Debbie said:

Hello guys. What can I do about this? Is it possible for her to residency to be revoked and for her to return to Brazil?

K1 Fiance Visa - Married January 2022.

My Wife disappeared and is unresponsive. Found out from her sister that she is having an affair with her co worker and intended just to stay with me until she she saved some money and then move out in an apartment with him. Her sister sent me pictures showing this. She was trying to hide this from me. She was using my credit card to afford them while this was occurring. Including uber to get them both to work and back since he lost his license.

So her plan was to return, and save money until start of next year.

She also charged $10K medical bill on my credit card for eye surgery in the weeks prior and to this occurring.

Additionally she has been abusive to my 4 year old to 5 year old son where I had to separate them. I have this on video. Unfortunately don't have more because she started going around turning off the videos in my house.

First step:

1) File for divorce

2)Cancel all credit cards

3) Cut all contact.

4) Find a new girl friend 

5) Document all contacts and all messages/ pictures/videos . They are your evidence.

6) if she already has green card, there is not much you can do. it is what it is and move on. They are lots of single women waiting for you on the other side

 

Number 3 is most important.

 

[TBoneTX 45,580]

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[Liam2021 583]

12 hours ago, Nazim and Debbie said:

I don't recall this process. I think she does have her greencard but not sure

You're get her here with K1 and you not sure if she have a green card? Anyway, cut off all credit card, bank account, file for divorce and moved on.