Filed ROC, Separated; Waiver? [split topic]

[Fer Schvarztman 217]

Hi everyone!, I want to provide update on my situation. Throughout the time apart we continued in contact, to make story short we decided that after being together for 11 years we have a huge history that goes far beyond any difficulty we may face as a married couple. So we are giving our love a second chance, ❤❤

Sometimes time outs help to get things together, when that significant other is not there, you realize that the day to day arguments mean nothing compared to what the other person means to you. 

If you get in a crisis with your spouse, give it a chance and make sure divorce is really what you want because we realized it was not what we really wanted and I thought counseling was not going to be an option because he said no when I proposed that back then but he said he wants to do whatever it takes to heal.

Thank you everyone! After all we are not going to divorce 

[OldUser 6,662]

17 minutes ago, Fer Schvarztman said:

Hi everyone!, I want to provide update on my situation. Throughout the time apart we continued in contact, to make story short we decided that after being together for 11 years we have a huge history that goes far beyond any difficulty we may face as a married couple. So we are giving our love a second chance, ❤❤

Sometimes time outs help to get things together, when that significant other is not there, you realize that the day to day arguments mean nothing compared to what the other person means to you. 

If you get in a crisis with your spouse, give it a chance and make sure divorce is really what you want because we realized it was not what we really wanted and I thought counseling was not going to be an option because he said no when I proposed that back then but he said he wants to do whatever it takes to heal.

Thank you everyone! After all we are not going to divorce 

Amazing news, wishing you the best guys! 

 

Immigration wise, make sure to be honest with USCIS about living arrengements etc. They'd understand if a couple had a rough patch, but won't accept hiding facts or misleading information on forms / during interview.

[Fer Schvarztman 217]

2 hours ago, OldUser said:

Amazing news, wishing you the best guys! 

 

Immigration wise, make sure to be honest with USCIS about living arrengements etc. They'd understand if a couple had a rough patch, but won't accept hiding facts or misleading information on forms / during interview.

We will take proof of counseling and write a letter, we are not sure if add that on the N400 application or if take it to the interview.

[OldUser 6,662]

3 minutes ago, Fer Schvarztman said:

We will take proof of counseling and write a letter, we are not sure if add that on the N400 application or if take it to the interview.

I'm not sure if you're going to be eligible for N-400 under 3 year rule. You lived separately for some time, and it requires living in marital union from start of marriage until oath. Some officers interpret this very strictly and deny N-400.

The safest would be to file under 5 year rule. At that time, hopefully I-751 would be approved and N-400 won't require proving marriage most likely.