Case returned back to USCIS

[JeanneAdil 6,579]

35 minutes ago, Cathi said:

Well keeping it a secret isn't cool, either. It has misrepresentation written all over it. Lying by omission is still lying and USCIS is very good at finding even the smallest things. I went to my husband's interview at the consulate so the CO decided to ask me a few questions, one of them being: "Why does your ex husband still have mail delivered to your home?" The only thing that was still delivered to my home with me ex's name on it, was the cable bill. My ex worked for Comcast at the time and he received free cable and internet because of it, so he just never took his name off of the account. I never even thought twice about it and had forgotten, but USCIS certainly knew. The CO understood my explanation and it never caused any issues. USCIS can find out anything with a little research.

Either way, it's still not normal to "allow" your wife to have a child with someone else. It wouldn't be difficult at all for USCIS to find out about it. Medical records, healthcare records, child's birth certificate ect..USCIS and the State Dept has access to everything.
 

They do have all info on the USC without going to FBI

just google  your own name and see what pops up 

Site called Verify wlll bring up names ,  family  former marriages,  criminal records,,  social media sites , education  and job history

But it would not have shown a baby that wasn't yet born

 

But for the foreigner its   a little hard to just google all this so  wishing,  again,  he would name the embassy

i am thinking its a country that supplies bogus  documents 

[African Zealot 1,455]

I’d say fuhggedaboudit! I met a young man on this same VJ from my original country whose spouse had a child which wasn’t his after they got married. Nine years and two petitions later, he’s still stuck in my country. Both petitions were denied.

 

I wouldn’t approve your petition if I was a consular officer, and I’m a pretty lenient guy.

 

Good luck regardless!

[Timona 4,208]

AZ is the most lenient towards Africans and mostly W.Africans. So, if he finally lowers his defense of you or won't defend you, then surely, your goose is cooked. 

Edited July 24, 2023 by Timona

[Redro 4,611]

11 minutes ago, Timona said:

AZ is the most lenient towards Africans and mostly W.Africans. So, if he finally lowers his defense of you or won't defend you, then surely, your goose is cooked. 

If @African Zealot no longer believes in love… what hope do the rest of us have?

  @Doc B this really is a job for the USC… I am a major proponent of the beneficiary taking control of their immigration journey but your journey is over before it begins If your wife isn’t researching how best to get you to the US

Edited July 24, 2023 by Redro

[JeanneAdil 6,579]

50 minutes ago, Redro said:

If @African Zealot no longer believes in love… what hope do the rest of us have?

  @Doc B this really is a job for the USC… I am a major proponent of the beneficiary taking control of their immigration journey but your journey is over before it begins If your wife isn’t researching how best to get you to the US

That's what i say

talk to her

see if she is willing to spend lots of time with u and pay the cost to overcome and wait the timeframe

many  a USC gives up 

its not cheap to go the distance to prove a NOID /NOIR

and may not be sensible  as there may be a long list of issues in this case

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

18 hours ago, Doc B said:

Thank you for the response, it’s in deed a bonafide marriage, genuine marriage, and I love my wife dearly. I find no way to settle the issue of her wanting a child and me not seeing my self in that position, to be honest medically I am not fit to have one. My question is how do I defend and help myself in this case. 

I understand the child isn't biologically yours but if your wife is raising the child and you wish to live with her, won't you raise the child as well? How is that so different from having a child (genetics aside)?

Not to mention, the problem here is that she had a child "the old fashioned way" which really puts your relationship in a weird light. If the only problem is that you can't have a child then why not use a sperm donor and do IUI or IVF?

It'd be really hard to convince USCIS that this is a bona fide marriage. USCIS (belonging to the Department of Homeland Security), however has nothing to do with issuing passports (Department of State does that).

Edited July 24, 2023 by EM_Vandaveer

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

16 hours ago, Doc B said:

Anyway I need a legal advice I believe we live in a free world and we can decide what’s ever works best for us. I & my wife know our case is real, genuine and no fraud. I let her get pregnant because I can’t get her pregnant, proven medically, I and my spouse agree to make this happen. I believe we have all right to decide whatever we want over our relationship. Legally is there any law that’s stop us from getting married at first visit? Having child out of marriage while married? If there’s any please let me know 

No. Nor there is an absolute right to have your spouse immigrate. Legally...

[Family 4,064]

18 hours ago, Doc B said:

we live in a free world

You live in Home Country…so does the Consular Office who interviewed you..

 

 he knows a lot about your culture, religion, social groups, family values  and he flagged your case for fraud BEFORE you even told him   your wife was 9 months pregnant..

 

it..does your wife use Facebook or other social media? If she posted about pregnancy , it’s likely they knew already.

 

Can you defend this case..NO. ..for all the reasons others have pointed out. But you are stuck..because unless you overcome fraud findings you will never get any visa to the US