A Question!!

[Marruecos 4]

1 minute ago, Mike E said:

Utah County will not report your marriage to Morocco. However,  with few exceptions, marriages are a matter of public record in the U.S. 

Yes, even in my situation that it's illegal to be gay in Morocco, they can understand why I keep it private ?

[Mike E 11,739]

2 minutes ago, beloved_dingo said:

Not sure what the issue is here, 

OP and you are confused about what a meeting, and/or you think I am a pre-internet fossil.

[Mike E 11,739]

4 minutes ago, Marruecos said:

Yes, even in my situation that it's illegal to be gay in Morocco, they can understand why I keep it private ?

I am sure there are employees of Utah County who understand. However they are bound by the laws passed by the people of Utah, a sovereign republic. 

[Redro 4,611]

29 minutes ago, Marruecos said:

Yes and I said we will meet more, what I care about now is my safety during the process not meeting, because meeting we will meet more

Yes and that's what we are working for, we will meet more, but what I care about is, if I get married to her via Utah ( zoom ), does that will be dangerous for me in Morocco during the process ?

You have been communicating with your partner for 4 years and not faced any danger?  so if things continue in the same way- mostly online communication and meeting together in person in Morocco in the same manner you were together for a month… I think you can gauge your safety level? 
Do you think it is safe? 

[Marruecos 4]

1 minute ago, Redro said:

You have been communicating with your partner for 4 years and not faced any danger?  so if things continue in the same way- mostly online communication and meeting together in person in Morocco in the same manner you were together for a month… I think you can gauge your safety level? 
Do you think it is safe? 

Yes it is, we denied our relationship to my family they think she is my friend, but we were safe, I'm just worried about my process ( K1 or CR1 ) if it will be safe or not, i don't want Moroccan people who help with documents to see any information about her, I want things to be private, and just between me and US consulate 

[Redro 4,611]

14 minutes ago, Marruecos said:

Yes it is, we denied our relationship to my family they think she is my friend, but we were safe, I'm just worried about my process ( K1 or CR1 ) if it will be safe or not, i don't want Moroccan people who help with documents to see any information about her, I want things to be private, and just between me and US consulate 

That is what will happen. You cannot control who sees your documents at the embassy. some people at the Moroccan consulate will be Moroccan nationals but they are supposed to follow the rules of USA not Morocco.

If you read reviews of Morocco you will see sometimes the officials there can be very mean about relationships they think are strange (like big age gaps). 
This is why many are saying- make sure you meet in person many times and your relationship is strong. Not having family approval will make sense for your situation but ... if possible try to build a relationship with your partner’s family and friends in the US. 

Edited June 27, 2023 by Redro

[Marruecos 4]

2 minutes ago, Redro said:

That is what will happen. You cannot control who sees your documents at the embassy. some people at the Moroccan consulate will be Moroccan nationals but they are supposed to follow the rules of USA not Morocco.

If you read reviews of Morocco you will see sometimes the officials there can be very mean about relationships they think are strange (like big age gaps). 
This is why many are saying- make sure you meet in person many times and your relationship is strong. Not having family approval will make sense for your situation but ... if possible try to build a relationship with your partner’s family and friends in the US. 

Yes I have a good relationship with her family/ and friends, they know about our relationship, and we will meet more than once for sure, I'm just worried about the part of seeing my documents by Moroccan people

[Redro 4,611]

10 minutes ago, Marruecos said:

Yes I have a good relationship with her family/ and friends, they know about our relationship, and we will meet more than once for sure, I'm just worried about the part of seeing my documents by Moroccan people

Workers at the embassy will see your documents but they are not allowed to talk about your situation to anyone outside the embassy. This is a worry that you will have to manage as there is nothing you can do can stop embassy workers from seeing your documents. 

Edited June 27, 2023 by Redro

[Marruecos 4]

1 minute ago, Redro said:

Workers at the embassy will see your documents but they are not allowed to talk about your situation to anyone outside the embassy. This is a worry that you will have to manage as there is nothing you can do can stop embassy workers from seeing your documents. 

Thank you for this seriously

[Boiler 45,427]

This seems an easier situation than normal unless I am missing something.

[Redro 4,611]

41 minutes ago, Boiler said:

This seems an easier situation than normal unless I am missing something.

Homophobia. 
Homosexuality is illegal in Morocco. 

[Boiler 45,427]

1 minute ago, Redro said:

Homophobia. 
Homosexuality is illegal in Morocco. 

I am not suggesting they walk around wearing Pride T Shirts. I know there are issues with non married CIS couples but not heard of it here.