Let Sleeping Dogs Rant

[TBoneTX 45,776]

23 minutes ago, Neonred said:

Well, I would say don’t act too needy.  Play it cool.  She will get back to you on her own time.  She is a woman.  She needs to digest your relationship with your ex.

Si, man.  We will "stew" the JC, si man -- ignore her till she writes back, unless it goes longer than a week, si man.

23 minutes ago, Neonred said:

stick to you like last week's dirty underwear

We have current experience with this, si man, having forgotten part of the laundry man.  Or not, si or no man.

24 minutes ago, Neonred said:

Find yourself an ugly, probably overweight, woman

Why, bleccch man?

25 minutes ago, Neonred said:

(that I didn’t follow)

Let us hear it for all rubias, whee man!

[TBoneTX 45,776]

Any additional thoughts will be received and considered, receive and consider we man.

[Ontarkie 14,345]

38 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

Or it may be a difference in life experience, that too man.  The JC's own parents went through a horrible divorce, she indicated man.  However, she also mentioned that her great-aunt & -uncle had a marriage made in heaven, so she has a model for that, too, si man.

Gracias, very sincerely, si D ma'am.

Oh I bet, more should be like you two it only benefits the children.  

 

Definitely let her stew a bit. Sometimes that is what is needed.

[TBoneTX 45,776]

22 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

more should be like you two it only benefits the children. 

It sure paid off a few months ago when Mini-B. finally let some of his tensions out, si D ma'am.

22 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

Definitely let her stew a bit. Sometimes that is what is needed.

Or, we can send her a brief, cheery message as though nothing is wrong, see man:  "Evenin', JC, si ma'am!  Two Guys din-din was _____, ingest Two Guys man.  We're going to watch Monday Night Football and see how much popcorn we can eat, si man."

 

Or not, no man.

[TBoneTX 45,776]

10 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

Or, we can send her a brief, cheery message as though nothing is wrong, see man

We just did this, si man.

[yuna628 9,690]

TB if there is one thing I've learned about some women, especially knowing what my husband's friend has gone through, take note of red flags. I feel that JC's reaction is a bit of an odd one, it speaks of immaturity, un-needed drama, and jealousy. They may not be the person for you. 

 

 

911 again yesterday...another fall and more injuries, god I am sick of this. Starting to know the EMTs by name by now. Hospital kicked him out again, and left him in a concerning state. Getting the nurses to come is an absolute pain. Tomorrow is the anniversary of first meeting my husband over 20 years ago now. What a blessing that man is.

Edited December 31, 2024 by yuna628

[Ontarkie 14,345]

16 minutes ago, yuna628 said:

TB if there is one thing I've learned about some women, especially knowing what my husband's friend has gone through, take note of red flags. I feel that JC's reaction is a bit of an odd one, it speaks of immaturity, un-needed drama, and jealousy. They may not be the person for you. 

 

 

911 again yesterday...another fall and more injuries, god I am sick of this. Starting to know the EMTs by name by now. Hospital kicked him out again, and left him in a concerning state. Getting the nurses to come is an absolute pain. Tomorrow is the anniversary of first meeting my husband over 20 years ago now. What a blessing that man is.

1. I completely agree

 

2. I'm so sorry. 

 

3. Happy anniversary 

[TBoneTX 45,776]

1 hour ago, yuna628 said:

TB if there is one thing I've learned about some women, especially knowing what my husband's friend has gone through, take note of red flags. I feel that JC's reaction is a bit of an odd one, it speaks of immaturity, un-needed drama, and jealousy. They may not be the person for you. 

We'll see, si Y ma'am.  We think that it's a matter of life experience, think we man.  However, if she can't get past that after discussion, then you're right, si and sigh Y ma'am.  The key question is whether the JC is both willing and able to discuss it, unclear at present man.

1 hour ago, yuna628 said:

Many11 again yesterday...another fall and more injuries, god I am sick of this. Starting to know the EMTs by name by now. Hospital kicked him out again, and left him in a concerning state. Getting the nurses to come is an absolute pain.

Emergency number precised, and so sorry, si and sigh Y ma'am.

1 hour ago, yuna628 said:

Tomorrow is the anniversary of first meeting my husband over Many years ago now. What a blessing that man is.

Wow -- Many years, si Y ma'am.  In fact, yesterday (Tues., Manycember Many'th) was the Manyth (2x2x2x2 +2+1th) anniversary of our first e-mail to the future Mrs. T-B., coincidence man.

 

Back to football with Mini-B., watch Two Guys man.

Edited December 31, 2024 by TBoneTX

[TBoneTX 45,776]

Thrilling Monday-on-Tuesday report, see man:

 

We and Mini-B. slept in, zzz Two Guys man.

We again actually awoke before the alarm, but not as long before, si and no man.

 

Lunch for Mini-B. was 2 corn dogs, ingest usually for breakfast wee man.

Lunch for us was a turkey-&-cheese sandwich, ingest we man.

 

We ran errands, use up expiring coupons man.

Returned and tried to siesta, utter failure man.

 

Dished/de-dished the warsher, domestic we man.

 

Din-din was 2 nuked Hungry Man boneless-chicken din-dins, ingest Two Guys man.

Monday Night Football was then watched, watch Two Guys man.

Many (2+2) bowls of Costco popcorn were consumed, ingest Two Guys man.

 

Miu highly active all day, active miu man.

Radio silence from the JC before and after cheery message, sigh man.

The LR has obviously lost interest in us, too, sigh man.

 

More year-end errands on Tuesday, errand we man.

Then put up with the incessant fireworks all night long, hate them man.

And that was/is our thrilling Monday, report we man.

[Ontarkie 14,345]

Just remember that these ones are just in the way of that perfect one out there for you. You have to clear them away to find her. 

[TBoneTX 45,776]

48 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

Just remember that these ones are just in the way of that perfect one out there for you. You have to clear them away to find her. 

Gracias, D ma'am, but it's been a forest without trees for quite a while, si and sigh man.

[Neonred 3,600]

4 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

Just remember that these ones are just in the way of that perfect one out there for you. You have to clear them away to find her. 

Just sitting here putting together a mental list of the perfect woman for @TBoneTX.

 

Must be a rubia

Must love cats and popcorn

Must be able to consume a God awful diet of tuna glop and Costco quick foods

Must stay up late and like to sleep in

Must search for and gather all relevant food coupons 

Must love kids

Must be able to tolerate the presence of the ex

Should enjoy searching for GS and ES items.

 

Where is she hiding?

 

 

Edited December 31, 2024 by Neonred

[Ontarkie 14,345]

7 hours ago, Neonred said:

Just sitting here putting together a mental list of the perfect woman for @TBoneTX.

 

Must be a rubia

Must love cats and popcorn

Must be able to consume a God awful diet of tuna glop and Costco quick foods

Must stay up late and like to sleep in

Must search for and gather all relevant food coupons 

Must love kids

Must be able to tolerate the presence of the ex

Should enjoy searching for GS and ES items.

 

Where is she hiding?

 

 

I know of one that meets most of those. Don't think she would eat tuna glop. She loves popcorn and cats, but also has a dog. 

Only problem is she is still fighting for a divorce and struggling to keep her head above water. She is way too trusting and will not go get a new lawyer she keeps the legal aid one who is dragging her feet. It's been more than 2 yrs of this, if she would get a lawyer on her own it would have been done already. 

[TBoneTX 45,776]

7 hours ago, Neonred said:

Just sitting here putting together a mental list of the perfect woman for @TBoneTX.

 

Must be a rubia

Must love cats and popcorn

Must be able to consume a God awful diet of tuna glop and Costco quick foods

Must stay up late and like to sleep in

Must search for and gather all relevant food coupons 

Must love kids

Must be able to tolerate the presence of the ex

Should enjoy searching for GS and ES items.

Where is she hiding?

Actually very good, si man.  We would alter only the first item:  Optimally should be a rubia, si man.

"Where she is hiding" renders all of the above moot, sigh man.

 

We are a bit glum today amid the thought that we might not even get closure with the JC, sigh man.

Of course, we'll wait a few days, si man.  If no contact, will express our thoughts kindly and try to forget, sigh man.

[TBoneTX 45,776]

33 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

I know of one that meets most of those.

Bad withholding Ontarklar!  Bad, BAD withholding WITHHOLDING Ontarklar!

34 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

Don't think she would eat tuna glop.

She doesn't need to eat it, no D ma'am -- just tolerate our eating it or simply prepare it for us, si man.

35 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

but also has a dog

Almost a disqualification, almost certainly man.

35 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

she is still fighting for a divorce and struggling to keep her head above water. She is way too trusting

Gotta hook them while they're fresh and desperate, only way man.

36 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

if she would get a lawyer on her own it would have been done already

Well, find her one, si D ma'am!

Bad legally reluctant Ontarklar!  Bad, BAD legally reluctant LEGALLY RELUCTANT Ontarklar!

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We shall finally take our shower (at half-past 1 p.m.) and run errands, distraction man.