Blue Box Reproduction

[Nagishkaw 510]

a cold shower is better than drugs, sister.

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I know...I just talk loud...I think I do have an Advil addiction though

[Bootylicious!! 2]

I guess an advil addiction is better than some other kind of addiction. My dad told Javi when he asked if he could marry me, he was more mature at 18 than my other one was at 26. He was right too.

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He certainly sounds like it. I take it there's an age difference between you two? I am 8 years older than Adolfo.

[Toshtishtash 1]

15 years between me and mine

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Tasha, are you older?

[Bootylicious!! 2]

I'm 7 years older than Javi. He's 22 and I'm 29. I don't notice it most of the time. We have the same taste in music, clothes, and such. There have been a few times when he's been a little too jealous for me. I think a lot of that has to do with his age. At least I hope he'll grow out of it. Otherwise, it's alright.

[Toshtishtash 1]

No, i'm 25 and he's 40

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It's the same with me and Adolfo. I don't notice the age difference that much. It definately is more of a concern for me than him. He doesn't notice it at all. It was my biggest drawback at first. I don't think we look or act like there's an age difference. It's just the fact that I knew. I'm over it now though. obviously. lol

[Bootylicious!! 2]

It's the same with me and Adolfo. I don't notice the age difference that much. It definately is more of a concern for me than him. He doesn't notice it at all. It was my biggest drawback at first. I don't think we look or act like there's an age difference. It's just the fact that I knew. I'm over it now though. obviously. lol

Sometimes I think about it. When I think about us having kids and getting older. I don't think we look like there is an age difference either. It was harder when we first started dating because he was 17 and I was 24. The older we've gotten the less attention I've paid to it. I just wonder how it's going to be when I'm 60 and he's only 53. Or 70 and he's 63. I don't know why I think it will make a difference then.

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I think it's going to be ok. I don't think the age difference will be a big deal later. I think it's much more noticable at young ages. You say he's mature, so I don't think it will ever be an issue. Are you planning children soon? We haven't talked much about children. We both have kids already and mine are almost grown. Starting over is scarey for me. I also think I'm getting to old to be having babies.

[Bootylicious!! 2]

We've been planning children. I was pregnant about 4 months after we got married and miscarried. We haven't had any luck since then. We've been to a fertility clinic and they said I have some kind of hormonal imbalance that prevents me from ovulating. Not sure when or why that happened since obviously I used to ovulate. We ran out of money on that front so we're waiting to save up some money to go back. We're hoping to go back by the first of the year. I know I'm just 29 but I feel like I'm getting too old to have kids too. I always said if I didn't have kids by the time I was 28 I wasn't having any. I didn't know it would be so hard though.

[Toshtishtash 1]

I don't think ages is an issue at all.

I haven't decided if I want kids or not yet either... Chris has 2 grown up children and doesn't particularly want anymore... I think if it happened though he would be happy ... I don't think my biological clock has started ticking yet! But who knows...

Sorry to hear of your problems bootylicious

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You are not too old. In fact, I think I would have been better mother if I had waited. Are they giving you ovulation meds?

[Nagishkaw 510]

Girl, you dont need no more babies in your life ! A woman reaches a certain age, she just needs to be herself, enjoy her husband, cos you already have done raised your kids. Now should be your time. Babies, sheesh!