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Debate | If a Man Dates a Trans-Woman is he Gay?

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On 4/29/2023 at 9:03 AM, Boiler said:

 

Fascinating topic of our time, let the debate begin!

They’re bisexual (although some people believe bisexual people are transphobic) … or pansexual. How is that not an option? 

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19 hours ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

Gender is not really complex. You are born either a man or a woman, except in very very rare cases.

I can live with a formal implementation of a 3rd Gender state issued ID where any alphabet soup  sub category can be self reported  at some agreed on age appropriate marker. ..18? 

 


 

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18 minutes ago, Family said:

I can live with a formal implementation of a 3rd Gender state issued ID where any alphabet soup  sub category can be self reported  at some agreed on age appropriate marker. ..18? 

 


 

So you would have to change your DL every time you change your pronouns?

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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33 minutes ago, Boiler said:
53 minutes ago, Family said:

I can live with a formal implementation of a 3rd Gender state issued ID where any alphabet soup  sub category can be self reported  at some agreed on age appropriate marker. ..18? 

 


 

So you would have to change your DL every time you change your pronouns?

No reason to micromanage/ mandate changes ..

though I am hoping a new pronoun could also be chosen by the claimants to reflect the 3rd gender. …

The current “ pronoun preference “ feels” to me  like gender / cultural misappropriation of the male / female. 
 

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41 minutes ago, Boiler said:

So you would have to change your DL every time you change your pronouns?

In such case a time frame should be defined: you cannot change pronouns unless 50 years have passed since your last change. 

 

In general, it shouldn't be a matter of whim. BTW, years ago I had a dream I could choose every morning when I woke up, if I wanted to be a man or woman. In the process, my whole appearance would change automatically depending on my choice. And that was way before it was mainstream, because I'm streets ahead. 

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There are 3 genders:  masculine, feminine, and neuter.

There are 3 sexes:  male sex, female sex, and insex.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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On 4/30/2023 at 5:41 AM, redmist said:

. I personally have never fallen in love with someones genitalia

I wish I could say that, but there was this one girl I dated a year or two after high school...

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I went bald but I kept my comb.  I just couldn't part with it.

My name is not Richard Edward but my friends still call me DickEd

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I fired myself from cleaning the house. I didn't like my attitude and I got caught drinking on the job.

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If you suck at playing the trumpet, that may be why.

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The real question is this. If a man does something in the middle of the woods and no woman is there to see it. Is he still wrong?

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