Ex husband threatened to take my green card

[Kadija Chicago 5]

Hello all,

I really need help please!

I applied for 601a my waiver was approved.

we got married in 2012 and I became permanent resident since 2017 we have 2 kids and my marriage was real and we were in love and had a perfect relationship.

things got bad on 2021 and we both agreed on divorce because he was a gambler that spend all his money gambling.

now that I m divorced I m applying for citizenship soon. 
I have a clean records paid my tax every year.

now I m terrified to apply for citizenship because he said he sent letters to uscis a couple time saying that I married him only for green card and the marriage was fraud.

not true because I stayed with this man for over 10 years and helped him financially and emotionally even if he has a very good job and make a lot of money.

any way to make this story short, I don’t know if he really sent the letters to uscis or no?

what can happen to me in my interview if they got letters from him saying I married him for only GC?

i m getting denied for citizenship?

I did not do any thing wrong. Only I got divorced because my kids doesn’t deserve to live with some one like him who gets paid over &150k and spend them all in gambling.

and at the end of the month he want me to pay for rent and other expenses.

any advices on what to do before I apply for my citizenship.

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

You have been a resident for over 5 years, so you should not have an issue. 

 

Try not to worry. He cannot do a thing - and I doubt he will even try-.

 

What was your waiver for? 

Edited March 26, 2023 by Allaboutwaiting

[Crazy Cat 41,806]

Agree.  Applying under the 5 rule.  This won't be an issue.  I find it odd that a petitioner, who was required to provide a LOT of evidence to prove the authenticity of a marriage, would implicate himself in fraud.....😃

@Kadija Chicago, don't worry about him.  Good luck on your citizenship journey.

[Kadija Chicago 5]

9 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

You have been a resident for over 5 years, so you should not have an issue. 

 

Try not to worry. He cannot do a thing - and I doubt he will even try-.

 

What was your waiver for? 

Thank you for your answer!

I tried not to worry but he is threatening almost every day.

he completely lost it, he even showed me the long letter that he wrote on his laptop but as I said before I have no idea if he already send it to the uscis or not?

my waiver was for unlawful presence because I overstated my visa .

I come as fiancé visa k1 and did not marry him because he changed his mind.

I did not go back to my country and stayed here until I applied for the lawful presence waiver and got approved and then went back for interview in the embassy overseas.

[Kadija Chicago 5]

8 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

Agree.  Applying under the 5 rule.  This won't be an issue.  I find it odd that a petitioner, who was required to provide a LOT of evidence to prove the authenticity of a marriage, would implicate himself in fraud.....😃

@Kadija Chicago, don't worry about him.  Good luck on your citizenship journey.

Thank you 🙏 

 

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

7 minutes ago, Kadija Chicago said:

my waiver was for unlawful presence because I overstated my visa .

I come as fiancé visa k1 and did not marry him because he changed his mind.

I did not go back to my country and stayed here until I applied for the lawful presence waiver and got approved and then went back for interview in the embassy overseas.

I am a little confused.

 

You came to the US on a K1 to marry your now ex husband?

Edited March 26, 2023 by Allaboutwaiting

[Boiler 45,442]

2 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

I am a little confused.

 

You came to the US on a K1 to marry your now ex husband?

Nope

 

Found somebody else to marry so had to do Consulate processing 

 

Happens

[JeanneAdil 6,489]

Kadija

 

He would be guilty of immigration fraud if USCIS takes this seriously

get your green card and protect it 

protect yourself 

if u live with him,   verbal and emotional abuse is serious 

u can call 911 and report him /ask for help  to find protective housing for battered women

OR

call 800-799-7233

get help 

get out

get a divorce 

if he sends emails with threats ,  save them 

then block him from contacting u

 

he can't take your green card privaleges or send u back to Moroc

allah yekbel

[Kadija Chicago 5]

13 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

I am a little confused.

 

You came to the US on a K1 to marry your now ex husband?

No,not my ex husband.

I came on k1 visa to marry a deferent guy but things did not work out so I ended up overstaying as you may know if you don’t get married in the 90 days that you have, you have no other option but to leave the country.

I meet my ex husband after that and we got married and he is the petitioner.

That is why I left the country and attend the interview in my country when I got my waiver of 601a approved here at the USA.

and since we were married more than 2 years I got a permanent resident.

hopefully I did explain every thing.

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

3 minutes ago, Kadija Chicago said:

No,not my ex husband.

I came on k1 visa to marry a deferent guy but things did not work out so I ended up overstaying as you may know if you don’t get married in the 90 days that you have, you have no other option but to leave the country.

I meet my ex husband after that and we got married and he is the petitioner.

That is why I left the country and attend the interview in my country when I got my waiver of 601a approved here at the USA.

and since we were married more than 2 years I got a permanent resident.

hopefully I did explain every thing.

Got it! 

[Kadija Chicago 5]

20 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

Kadija

 

He would be guilty of immigration fraud if USCIS takes this seriously

get your green card and protect it 

protect yourself 

if u live with him,   verbal and emotional abuse is serious 

u can call 911 and report him /ask for help  to find protective housing for battered women

OR

call 800-799-7233

get help 

get out

get a divorce 

if he sends emails with threats ,  save them 

then block him from contacting u

 

he can't take your green card privaleges or send u back to Moroc

allah yekbel

Thank you for your reply.

he is been verbally abusing me for a long time and if I say to him it is not my problem you loose your money at the casino he will threaten me to report it at the ice.

I told him he can’t do that because I stayed with you for 10 years and had 2 kids together.

that does prove that the marriage was legit and real.

I already protected my self and my kids by getting a place for us and we are safe now.

 

[Kadija Chicago 5]

54 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

You have been a resident for over 5 years, so you should not have an issue. 

 

Try not to worry. He cannot do a thing - and I doubt he will even try-.

 

What was your waiver for? 

My waiver was for overstaying my visa.

as I replied earlier I came on fiance or k1 visa but did not marry the same guy.

[Timona 4,207]

Having kids, unfortunately, just proves you two had sex. Nothing about bona-fide marriage. 

 

You're good nonetheless. Divorce if you want and file under 5 year rule or work your marriage. Choice is yours

[Crazy Cat 41,806]

2 minutes ago, Kadija Chicago said:

My waiver was for overstaying my visa.

as I replied earlier I came on fiance or k1 visa but did not marry the same guy.

Be aware that USCIS will review your Green Card process as part of applying for citizenship.  

Edited March 26, 2023 by Crazy Cat

[Kadija Chicago 5]

2 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

Be aware that USCIS will review your Green Card process as part of applying for citizenship.  

Do you think I will face any problems?

I was thinking to hire a lawyer but he wanted me to pay $3500 just to file