Husband threatening with deportation

[Sparkey 17]

On 3/27/2023 at 1:21 PM, mindthegap said:

Exactly. By making difficult/preventing removal of conditions it can ultimately lead to deportation.... so it IS possible for an angry spouse to really screw someones journey up if so inclined. 

 

This is just not true, unfortunately. I speak from experience. 

 

Same, but it's still ongoing and kinda sick of it now. 

It can be made extremely difficult by an aggrieved spouse.

 

Please do so. Put yourself and your safety first.

 

Again, this is just not true. He can't directly do anything immediately  but he can do things which WILL affect it, as the OP is still in the conditional stage. 

 

 

Well, you can file your I-751to remove conditions by yourself, so you don't need him to do so. The waiver is just a box ticked saying you are divorced. 

However, if he says the right things to USCIS, then yeah, it can still cause a whole load of issues down the line and affect your I-751.

I'm the prime example here - my sociopathic malignant narcissist ex- spouse  intentionally and deliberately said exactly the right (or entirely wrong, depending on which side you are on and your intent) completely untruthful thing to USCIS, and they issued a denial based on that, and consequently i'm now in my 8th year of removing conditions, and it kinda sucks, y'know?

Goes without saying you need to leave, but you also need to gather any and all documents you have of a shared life together. Anything. That includes police reports, photos, bills. Copy them and save them. Divert your own mail so he cannot access it too. 

Protect yourself first and foremost.

 

 

 

 

Wow...8th year of trying to remove conditions? Do you just keep re-filing?