Proofs of relationship

[iwannaplay54 985]

25 minutes ago, Peonia23 said:

So especially denial at the consulate from what all of you is telling me? 

Yes

[iwannaplay54 985]

22 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

It's DHS in your case, not USCIS. And no, it's not on them to prove that. It's on you. They simply don't have the time to dig into each case.

DOS*

[Dashinka 24,480]

2 minutes ago, Peonia23 said:

I hear of the “too married” but from what I understood it’s because of engagement parties, traditional/religious ceremonies. For uscis is a wedding anyway even if it’s just religious. It doesn’t matter if it has no legal effects. So you’re too married for uscis to use k1 visa. 

It can also be by referring to each other as husband and wife.  If the CO sees that in texts/chats it will give them a reason to question the K1 relationship.

[Peonia23 5]

Just now, iwannaplay54 said:

Yes

Okay thank you.

So if that comes I’ll be prepared to have a valid explanation if they ask me and maybe include in the proofs of ongoing relationship proofs of my point. 

[Peonia23 5]

Just now, Dashinka said:

It can also be by referring to each other as husband and wife.  If the CO sees that in texts/chats it will give them a reason to question the K1 relationship.

Well we’re not talking to each other with the name of husband or wife. Never done it once. 
All of the text submitted clearly show an intention to marry and of an already married couple. 

[iwannaplay54 985]

Just now, Peonia23 said:

Well we’re not talking to each other with the name of husband or wife. Never done it once. 
All of the text submitted clearly show an intention to marry and of an already married couple. 

Not necessary to convince us.  Seen it all here.  Best of luck!

[Dashinka 24,480]

4 minutes ago, Peonia23 said:

Well we’re not talking to each other with the name of husband or wife. Never done it once. 
All of the text submitted clearly show an intention to marry and of an already married couple. 

So let us know how everything turns out.

[Peonia23 5]

1 minute ago, Dashinka said:

So let us know how everything turns out.

I will, I trust everything is gonna be okay with God’s help😘

[iwannaplay54 985]

22 minutes ago, Peonia23 said:

Well we’re not talking to each other with the name of husband or wife. Never done it once. 
All of the text submitted clearly show an intention to marry and of an already married couple. 

If you say “never done it once” to an IO who is looking for an inconstancy while he/she is staring at a chat log with what appears to be you using his last name that is going to get you grilled.  They love that.  He/she will count the number of times on that page and debunk your “never done it” and have fun doing it while firing questions about it to you.  
Interviews with things like seem to be something they live for.  They look like they have fun doing it.  I’ve personally attended (3) embassy interviews with my wife.   They are paid to do one thing, screen you out, not approve you.  You want to know what to do now?  Prep for that.  The correct answer is it looks like yeah we dunnit then hope they accept it because if the grilling starts it’s spray and pray rapid fire questions.  Once you get defensive they melt you down.  
You know every time we’ve been in an embassy waiting for interview at least one person leaves in tears.  It’s not a flippant joke and IF it comes up your answers need to be in the context that the person across the counter’s entire reward system is based on how many he/she weeds out, not approves.  
God helps those who help themselves and “faith without works is dead”.  You did not help yourselves sending that stuff in. 
It was a term of endearment and no more.  That is the truth and that should be your position no matter what asked. 

Edited February 10, 2023 by iwannaplay54

[Rocio0010 5,579]

38 minutes ago, Peonia23 said:

A name it’s just a name. 

Then why are you so worried?

[Peonia23 5]

7 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

Then why are you so worried?

Because I didn’t know you could get denied for that or not. 
 

[Rocio0010 5,579]

3 minutes ago, Peonia23 said:

Because I didn’t know you could get denied for that or not. 
 

Depends on the officer, so no point in worrying. You're still far from the interview.

[Peonia23 5]

Just now, Rocio0010 said:

Depends on the officer, so no point in worrying. You're still far from the interview.

Can it be denied on the NOA2 too or not for this reason? 
 

I’ll make sure to always tell the truth of why he calls me like that. We use it as a term of endearment. I’ll be 100% transparent with them. I got nothing to hide and I did nothing illegal for the K1. 

[Rocio0010 5,579]

Just now, Peonia23 said:

NOA2

They can deny it at any point, or wait until the interview. And they might not even deny it. 

I wouldn't go to the Embassy and start yelling WE ARE NOT MARRIED!!!! As soon as I come in. I would wait until I am asked, and offer an explanation there and then.

49 minutes ago, iwannaplay54 said:

DOS*

Thank you! I always get them mixed up

[Peonia23 5]

1 minute ago, Rocio0010 said:

They can deny it at any point, or wait until the interview. And they might not even deny it. 

I wouldn't go to the Embassy and start yelling WE ARE NOT MARRIED!!!! As soon as I come in. I would wait until I am asked, and offer an explanation there and then.

Okay, sorry but I’m so anxious. 
I’ve been waiting for 13 months now and everything it’s starting make me nervous. I’ll wait and see.