New here and sad

[Scandi 4,166]

It appears you have been living together for a few years, two at least. That means you should have a massive pile of evidence by now. Many of us came on a K-1 visa and had not lived together more than a few weeks when we sent in our AOS, so we didn't have much evidence at all even at the time of the interview. Not any kids either, and we were approved just fine.

You guys have it much easier, you have had years to collect evidence, many of us didn't have that privilege. 

[Ontarkie 14,214]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. 

Take a deep breath, you got this. 

Post  the letter with personal information blacked out. We can help you gather all what they need. 

 

They want to see things like bank account with both your names on it, DL from both of you if you both drive with the same address, mail even junk mail can help. The use of debit cards that each of you have to the joint account. You can even send them the bills for IVF and doctors. Taxes as you have been married for awhile you should have done taxes as married. Once you show the letter everyone on here can give you a better idea of what they want and can gear replies to your case specifically. 

[Lemonslice 4,831]

8 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

I'm so very sorry for your loss. 

Take a deep breath, you got this. 

Post  the letter with personal information blacked out. We can help you gather all what they need. 

 

They want to see things like bank account with both your names on it, DL from both of you if you both drive with the same address, mail even junk mail can help. The use of debit cards that each of you have to the joint account. You can even send them the bills for IVF and doctors. Taxes as you have been married for awhile you should have done taxes as married. Once you show the letter everyone on here can give you a better idea of what they want and can gear replies to your case specifically. 

You can also add each other as beneficiaries on insurance and financial accounts.  

Wills, living wills.

 

[hlascari 0]

On 2/7/2023 at 9:04 AM, Boiler said:

Reading between the lines

 

Your husband came to the US on a F1 student visa 13 years ago and has now graduated, used up OPT etc

 

You married and filed to adjust his status but supplied very little supporting documentation.

 

Have you been interviewed?

 

Most people certainly on here do not have children together.

 

I would suggest a competent lawyer, not a difficult case but appears you need help putting your case together.

We have a lawyer. We have not had an interview bc had they given us an actual interview they would have seen that our marriage is an actual marriage of love 

[hlascari 0]

On 2/7/2023 at 6:37 AM, powerpuff said:

They’re not looking for a traditional wedding. They’re looking for joint bank accounts, joint credit cards, joint leases/utilities, joint tax returns, joint health insurance, joint car titles/car insurance, etc.

I gave them all of the above 

[Boiler 45,442]

4 minutes ago, hlascari said:

We have a lawyer. We have not had an interview bc had they given us an actual interview they would have seen that our marriage is an actual marriage of love 

What did the Lawyer say, how is the Lawyer addressing the issue.

[Crazy Cat 41,806]

5 minutes ago, hlascari said:

I gave them all of the above 

So, they issued a NOID before the interview?  If so, there is extremely strange.

Edited February 8, 2023 by Crazy Cat

[Dashinka 24,478]

1 hour ago, hlascari said:

We have a lawyer. We have not had an interview bc had they given us an actual interview they would have seen that our marriage is an actual marriage of love 

You mentioned moving recently.  Did you get an interview notice?  Did you update your address with USCIS?

[Ontarkie 14,214]

Do you know for certain that the lawyer sent everything you gave them? If the NOID came to you post it here so members can help. If you don't have it and the lawyer just told you some song and dance get the letter. You need to know exactly what they want.

[powerpuff 6,677]

Can’t really comment or give advice without any context and details of the case.

[Dashinka 24,478]

9 minutes ago, powerpuff said:

Can’t really comment or give advice without any context and details of the case.

Absolutely.

 

To the OP, no one here is judging the legitimacy of your marriage, but we need help in order to help you deal with your current immigration issue. 

[powerpuff 6,677]

~~ Duplicate thread removed. Please do not start multiple threads pertaining to same or similar topics (NOID) and keep all related questions here. It also helps everyone to know the all the details to give more accurate advice ~~
 

2 hours ago, hlascari said:

I recently received a NOID, we gathered all that we could and sent it in (basically we sent everything we had except for Xrated pictures), and now we got an online update that says, "On March 10, 2023, we began reviewing your Form I-130, Petition for Alien Relative, Receipt Number #######. We mailed you a notice informing you of the action we intend to take on your case. Please follow the instructions in the notice and submit any requested materials. If you do not receive your notice by March 24, 2023, contact the USCIS Contact Center at www.uscis.gov/contactcenter. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address. I am so impatient and just want to know what this means. It does not state that it was denied or approved online. So, I am wondering what it could say in the letter. Has anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

 

[hlascari 0]

1 minute ago, powerpuff said:

~~ Duplicate thread removed. Please do not start multiple threads pertaining to same or similar topics (NOID) and keep all related questions here. It also helps everyone to know the all the details to give more accurate advice ~~
 

 

This is actually not a duplicate post and is about what I recently got on 3/10/23 after sending more information after receiving a NOID on 1/31/2023... But whatever

[powerpuff 6,677]

Just now, hlascari said:

This is actually not a duplicate post and is about what I recently got on 3/10/23 after sending more information after receiving a NOID on 1/31/2023... But whatever

It has to do with the same topic (NOID). We ask members to keep follow up and updates in the same thread. Thank you.

[hlascari 0]

2 minutes ago, powerpuff said:

It has to do with the same topic (NOID). We ask members to keep follow up and updates in the same thread. Thank you.

I am not going to argue with you. It is not about the same topic, it is about a new notice that was received AFTER the NOID...