alien spouse's rights

[eric_and_teresa 10]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

Edited July 27, 2007 by eric_and_teresa

[asianbeauty 0]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

I was new here, I didnt see any guidelines yet, thats why I asked. About income I got the right answer already, this guy just wanted to make fun of me.

[asianbeauty 0]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

I was new here, I didnt see any guidelines yet, thats why I asked. About income I got the right answer already, this guy just wanted to make fun of me. It is like for me he pointed about my question again because I wanted free money and that because I asked for income too so that's involves money again, and he thinks from my question is that I am a gold digger? That's what I thought.

Why did some people have to repeat my old post anyways? If I was rude to that person in the other room, that was several days ago already, and this forum is about visa processing and not parental guidance. It's like you kept wanting to start this thread by talking about my previous posts that was answered already. What was wrong with my question here on this thread anyway?, did I ever offend anyone with my question?

If I was rude to that person, ok, sorry, but because in my part I felt like she/he was making fun of my question. I never expected answer like that since I was new here when I asked that. and I never expected parental guidance since I thought this is a forum about visa processing only and everybody is adult already.

[Sinergy 3]

ggeezz, can't stand not getting the last snippy-smart a$$ word in? why can't people just leave her alone. go pick on your dog or something.

and you just cant stand not to let ppl speak if they want to? did i appoint you as my mommy? i dont think so.. therefore if you dont like what im saying, dont read it. easy as that

no, i'm not your mommy or daddy. i just don't understand why you fell the need to be judgemental & crappy to everyone. do you feel you're lacking in some way? were you not given enough attention when you were a child? or is it just a personality flaw?........notice i didn't single you or anyone else out in any of my comments?

I was answeing you as you seem to feel you are the ONLY one allowed to continue to comment.

maybe your thriving for attention, not getting enough at home? and you singled me out in THIS last comment you just made. so who is the judemental one now?

and i wasnt being judgemental or crappy to her, i was stating exactly what she wrote in her OP. nothing i said was fabricated.

again if you dont like what i write, ignore it, no one is making you read it.

I say, If you dont like what I ask, dont answer it, ignore it, nobody is making you read it. LOL

[nane1104 146]

[Sinergy 3]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

I was new here, I didnt see any guidelines yet, thats why I asked. About income I got the right answer already, this guy just wanted to make fun of me.

it says GUIDES real big on the site at the top, cant miss them. as a matter of fact when you start an acct you are ADVICED TO READ THE GUIDES. and no matter where you go on this site, the guides tab follows you.

Im outta here, see no point in continueing this discussion with you. And remember, this isnt being rude, its giving adv, if you dont want to be critisized, dont air everything out for ppl to know about you. This is a public forum, your never going to get EVERYONE to agree with you.

GOOD LUCK on your visa journey.

Edited July 27, 2007 by Ionescu

[asianbeauty 0]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

I was new here, I didnt see any guidelines yet, thats why I asked. About income I got the right answer already, this guy just wanted to make fun of me.

it says GUIDES real big on the site at the top, cant miss them. as a matter of fact when you start an acct you are ADVICED TO READ THE GUIDES. and no matter where you go on this site, the guides tab follows you.

I see that guide, yes, but I dont mean that kind of guideline, I was talking about the k1 guidelines.

[Sinergy 3]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

I was new here, I didnt see any guidelines yet, thats why I asked. About income I got the right answer already, this guy just wanted to make fun of me.

it says GUIDES real big on the site at the top, cant miss them. as a matter of fact when you start an acct you are ADVICED TO READ THE GUIDES. and no matter where you go on this site, the guides tab follows you.

I see that guide, yes, but I dont mean that kind of guideline, I was talking about the k1 guidelines.

edited bc this is pointless to talk to some ppl.

Edited July 27, 2007 by Ionescu

[asianbeauty 0]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

I have zero interest on giving your 'parental guidence'. It is a fact that many online relationships go down the drain after meeting in person, so planing a marriage with someone you have never seen nor talk to in person, only by phone.. isn't very smart! But since you already know it all.. there's no use on telling you that. AGAIN, all I'm saying if you're RUDE and arrogant like you were in that first post you made, people will be rude to you too. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out.

Another unsolicited advice I'll give you is, if you don't want to pass as ignorant asking about obvious things, I suggest you do some more reading before asking. You write good english, I bet you can read and understand the guides, the forms and all the material available here in VJ. People have pointed out that question you made about your fiance's income because it was extremely easy for you to read the guides, the forms or whatever to find your response, and when you asked you made it seem like you wanted them to do the math for you, when it was something so simple you could do yourself.

And then we wonder why do Americans have all these misconceptions about girls that come from third world countries (I, myself, coming from one of those countries) and I guess this thread shows exactly why!

I was new here, I didnt see any guidelines yet, thats why I asked. About income I got the right answer already, this guy just wanted to make fun of me.

it says GUIDES real big on the site at the top, cant miss them. as a matter of fact when you start an acct you are ADVICED TO READ THE GUIDES. and no matter where you go on this site, the guides tab follows you.

I see that guide tab here yes, but I dont mean that kind of guide. I was talking about the k1 guidelines that was pasted here when I asked the question.

[JoeMama 0]

ggeezz, can't stand not getting the last snippy-smart a$$ word in? why can't people just leave her alone. go pick on your dog or something.

and you just cant stand not to let ppl speak if they want to? did i appoint you as my mommy? i dont think so.. therefore if you dont like what im saying, dont read it. easy as that

no, i'm not your mommy or daddy. i just don't understand why you fell the need to be judgemental & crappy to everyone. do you feel you're lacking in some way? were you not given enough attention when you were a child? or is it just a personality flaw?........notice i didn't single you or anyone else out in any of my comments?

I was answeing you as you seem to feel you are the ONLY one allowed to continue to comment.

maybe your thriving for attention, not getting enough at home? and you singled me out in THIS last comment you just made. so who is the judemental one now?

and i wasnt being judgemental or crappy to her, i was stating exactly what she wrote in her OP. nothing i said was fabricated.

again if you dont like what i write, ignore it, no one is making you read it.

I say, If you dont like what I ask, dont answer it, ignore it, nobody is making you read it. LOL

Oh ok, I was just confused for a moment about what you quoted and then mentioned joemama...

ahem coz I think this thread got so long coz of his thinking: A chance at "free" money? Sure why the hell not. I see she posted another thread in the K1 forum asking about qualifying income. Does 1+1 actually equal 2?. What a nice response, huh?

Sure. That is probably when I had become "pangit" and started having a set of coconut nuts. Correct? And then you went on to tell me how I am ashamed of being Filipino and I hated pinay's. Correct? My, how we forget so conveniently

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Make it stop!

...where are the peace keepers today?

[Sinergy 3]

Make it stop!

...where are the peace keepers today?

They are out having tea

[trueimage 0]

Good grief! Is this STILL dragging on???????????????

[asianbeauty 0]

ggeezz, can't stand not getting the last snippy-smart a$$ word in? why can't people just leave her alone. go pick on your dog or something.

and you just cant stand not to let ppl speak if they want to? did i appoint you as my mommy? i dont think so.. therefore if you dont like what im saying, dont read it. easy as that

no, i'm not your mommy or daddy. i just don't understand why you fell the need to be judgemental & crappy to everyone. do you feel you're lacking in some way? were you not given enough attention when you were a child? or is it just a personality flaw?........notice i didn't single you or anyone else out in any of my comments?

I was answeing you as you seem to feel you are the ONLY one allowed to continue to comment.

maybe your thriving for attention, not getting enough at home? and you singled me out in THIS last comment you just made. so who is the judemental one now?

and i wasnt being judgemental or crappy to her, i was stating exactly what she wrote in her OP. nothing i said was fabricated.

again if you dont like what i write, ignore it, no one is making you read it.

I say, If you dont like what I ask, dont answer it, ignore it, nobody is making you read it. LOL

Oh ok, I was just confused for a moment about what you quoted and then mentioned joemama...

ahem coz I think this thread got so long coz of his thinking: A chance at "free" money? Sure why the hell not. I see she posted another thread in the K1 forum asking about qualifying income. Does 1+1 actually equal 2?. What a nice response, huh?

Sure. That is probably when I had become "pangit" and started having a set of coconut nuts. Correct? And then you went on to tell me how I am ashamed of being Filipino and I hated pinay's. Correct? My, how we forget so conveniently

you responded nicely so I got to response nicely too. Youre a real man!

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Jab with the regulars, Joe, but there's no need to pick on a newbie who's never even stepped off the plane yet...

Most people are bullies until you pull their card then they start running crying wolf... Cowards!!!