alien spouse's rights

[Sinergy 3]

ggeezz, can't stand not getting the last snippy-smart a$$ word in? why can't people just leave her alone. go pick on your dog or something.

and you just cant stand not to let ppl speak if they want to? did i appoint you as my mommy? i dont think so.. therefore if you dont like what im saying, dont read it. easy as that

[nane1104 146]

No, by bringing up your other post I was only trying to answer another poster's question and basically I was even defending you, miss asianbeauty. I am asking myself, who wants to fight here....

[smoke20 0]

ggeezz, can't stand not getting the last snippy-smart a$$ word in? why can't people just leave her alone. go pick on your dog or something.

and you just cant stand not to let ppl speak if they want to? did i appoint you as my mommy? i dont think so.. therefore if you dont like what im saying, dont read it. easy as that

no, i'm not your mommy or daddy. i just don't understand why you fell the need to be judgemental & crappy to everyone. do you feel you're lacking in some way? were you not given enough attention when you were a child? or is it just a personality flaw?........notice i didn't single you or anyone else out in any of my comments?

[JoeMama 0]

Thanks for opening my eyes smoke20. Adding to this topic is giving me a headache. All I am hearing is Richard Gere from "Officer and A Gentleman", saying over and over in my head, "$5 cheap cheap". I've got to go yell at the maid for a while for not using enough starch on my shirts. The butler needs a little slapping around also. Kudos!

[Sinergy 3]

I agree, but I think you are talking to a wall here.

Then...if you chose to go to a superexpensive restaurant vs one of the famous chain-restaurants or you prefer designer purses to ordinary purses, that's a personal reference and if she or they will be able to afford it, we can't and shouldn't judge anyone for that.

Is it materialistic thinking? I think so, money isn't everything, but it is up to everyone themselves to decide where and how they spend their money.

The fact that they haven't met yet is a totally different story and again, that is for them to see how things will be once they meet.

I agree with you partially, I don't think people here are judging her for liking expensive things, she sounds materialistic for the fact that she hasn't even met her fiance yet.. and her concern is how she'll go shopping to "rich" stores and go to "rich" restaurants. Also if you've read that first post, you'll see how upset she got when some of us suggested to meet him first before starting making wedding plans.. she practically told people to shut up! Meeting the person you'll marry first, it's a matter of common sense to me but she was so offended when people said that.

So the lesson to learn here for the OP, is that people wont be rude to her in the States nor anywhere in the world.. UNLESS she is rude to them first, which has already been proven here in this long thread!

I agree 100%...that's basically what I have said (or tried to) in previous posts.

I am adult already I dont need parental guidance, why dont go straight answer?, I got upset because it is like she/he made fun of my question. I just really wanted to talk about visa processing that is why I am here. Why do you have to parent me, dont you see that I am adult? Really just wanted to talk about the process. And, seems like you want to pick on me and remind the other post made several days ago, LOL. And I say how is it your business? you just want to argue?

And i state again, this is a public forum, you are not going to get everyone to love you and give you the answers you WANT. everyone has a difference in opinion. And when you post your life on a public forum, it becomes everyones business. If you posted it, you want it talked about

[smoke20 0]

Thanks for opening my eyes smoke20. Adding to this topic is giving me a headache. All I am hearing is Richard Gere from "Officer and A Gentleman", saying over and over in my head, "$5 cheap cheap". I've got to go yell at the maid for a while for not using enough starch on my shirts. The butler needs a little slapping around also. Kudos!

wow, what a funny guy!! maybe you should take your comedy act on the road. you could use the stage name Richard Cranium.

[JoeMama 0]

Thanks for opening my eyes smoke20. Adding to this topic is giving me a headache. All I am hearing is Richard Gere from "Officer and A Gentleman", saying over and over in my head, "$5 cheap cheap". I've got to go yell at the maid for a while for not using enough starch on my shirts. The butler needs a little slapping around also. Kudos!

wow, what a funny guy!! maybe you should take your comedy act on the road. you could use the stage name Richard Cranium.

Hmmm....thanks for the good advice. Kool!

[smoke20 0]

Thanks for opening my eyes smoke20. Adding to this topic is giving me a headache. All I am hearing is Richard Gere from "Officer and A Gentleman", saying over and over in my head, "$5 cheap cheap". I've got to go yell at the maid for a while for not using enough starch on my shirts. The butler needs a little slapping around also. Kudos!

wow, what a funny guy!! maybe you should take your comedy act on the road. you could use the stage name Richard Cranium.

Hmmm....thanks for the good advice. Kool!

aahh whats wrong joe. you don't want to sling muck, jabs & insults w/ someone equipped to do so?

thanks for playing i'm going to the gym...see you later.

Edited July 27, 2007 by smoke20

[Sinergy 3]

ggeezz, can't stand not getting the last snippy-smart a$$ word in? why can't people just leave her alone. go pick on your dog or something.

and you just cant stand not to let ppl speak if they want to? did i appoint you as my mommy? i dont think so.. therefore if you dont like what im saying, dont read it. easy as that

no, i'm not your mommy or daddy. i just don't understand why you fell the need to be judgemental & crappy to everyone. do you feel you're lacking in some way? were you not given enough attention when you were a child? or is it just a personality flaw?........notice i didn't single you or anyone else out in any of my comments?

I was answeing you as you seem to feel you are the ONLY one allowed to continue to comment.

maybe your thriving for attention, not getting enough at home? and you singled me out in THIS last comment you just made. so who is the judemental one now?

and i wasnt being judgemental or crappy to her, i was stating exactly what she wrote in her OP. nothing i said was fabricated.

again if you dont like what i write, ignore it, no one is making you read it.

[nane1104 146]

Thanks for opening my eyes smoke20. Adding to this topic is giving me a headache. All I am hearing is Richard Gere from "Officer and A Gentleman", saying over and over in my head, "$5 cheap cheap". I've got to go yell at the maid for a while for not using enough starch on my shirts. The butler needs a little slapping around also. Kudos!

wow, what a funny guy!! maybe you should take your comedy act on the road. you could use the stage name Richard Cranium.

Hmmm....thanks for the good advice. Kool!

aahh whats wrong joe. you don't want to sling muck, jabs & insults w/ someone equipped to do so?

thanks for playing i'm going to the gym...see you later.

[Sinergy 3]

and now that smoke is gone,

since he so nicely took it off topic to take personal jabs at certain ppl on the thread

[JoeMama 0]

Thanks for opening my eyes smoke20. Adding to this topic is giving me a headache. All I am hearing is Richard Gere from "Officer and A Gentleman", saying over and over in my head, "$5 cheap cheap". I've got to go yell at the maid for a while for not using enough starch on my shirts. The butler needs a little slapping around also. Kudos!

wow, what a funny guy!! maybe you should take your comedy act on the road. you could use the stage name Richard Cranium.

Hmmm....thanks for the good advice. Kool!

aahh whats wrong joe. you don't want to sling muck, jabs & insults w/ someone equipped to do so?

thanks for playing i'm going to the gym...see you later.

I have no problem with it. The only reason why you feel compelled to defend the OP is because your SO is Filipino also. Would you be so protective if the OP were of another ethnic background? Call me a racist if you wish. I know it's sitting on the tip of your tongue ready to call all of us one you do not like or agree with.

[smoke20 0]

and now that smoke is gone,

since he so nicely took it off topic to take personal jabs at certain ppl on the thread

thought i check again before i left. i'm just sticking up for the OP. jabbing at the folks jabbing at her. and you don't have to like it.

[nane1104 146]

oh gosh...I guess we are NOT going back to the topic..lol

I am sure the OP is appreciating that you come to her rescue...

[Sinergy 3]

and now that smoke is gone,

since he so nicely took it off topic to take personal jabs at certain ppl on the thread

thought i check again before i left. i'm just sticking up for the OP. jabbing at the folks jabbing at her. and you don't have to like it.

Good for you, again you dont have to read what i write, so BACK TO TOPIC or you cant read?