Falsely accused of fraud by my Jealous Ex in a bid to “Destroy my chances of coming to the US” (in her words) I need Advice!!!

[JeanneAdil 6,489]

13 minutes ago, Gary Rich said:

Jeanne would it also be good to be pro-active and file a police report just in case anything becomes more  of a problem that's taking place ?

 Because i would want to have it documented of all actions that she doing ( saving all the emails she sent ) 

2 countries ???   hard to file a police report

 

just ignore and change your email ID

she can't harass u if she can not contact u

 

you broke up with her so really break it off completely

[JeanneAdil 6,489]

2 hours ago, Zkd said:

I dated this American lady for a while and I caught her cheating and broke up with her. After some months I met my wife, also an American and we git it off and got married. I have been approved for CR1 at uscis and awaiting NVC now. The thing is that my ex has been on my case ever since she found out I got married. She has been trying her best to get me back regardless of my marriage, she has sent several mails over months apologizing to try to get my back and I have religiously refused her at ever turn. She sent me a message some days ago after some months of silence begging that I forgive her and she cried everyday and feels empty and I responded that I have moved on with my life and I love my wife. She figured out she’s been rejected and I’ve truly moved on and she swears in another mail that I am dangerous and I’m a threat to her and her family, She took to insulting my wife and I calling me a scammer and my wife a ho.  Next thing she tags me to a mail to the fraud unit of the justice department reporting me to them and accusing me for fraud. Citing that I defrauded her. Mind you while we were dating, I never for once asked this lady for money. She voluntarily bought gifts like on my birthday and when she visited . She occasionally offered money which I accepted. But I dated her and we broke up because she was cheating and she is looking for a way to ensure I don’t make it home to my family. What steps do I take to prove my innocence to the justice department/ I have all the receipts to prove my innocence and she dosent have one single evidence against me and my lovely wife. 

your misunderstanding (at this point) is that you have rights in the US with US government entity /  u don't

ICE would care if the USC was scammed but not if u are harassed

i will be surprised if your actions don't trigger u to do a ds 5535

they will wonder "how many Americans did u have to talk in search of a green card?"   that's harsh but u have shown them u tried with 2

 

If u are lucky enough to get to the US as an LPR,  then u can complain to local police and take out a restraining order /  but now  -nothing 

[Chancy 6,241]

*** Moved from IR1/CR1 Progress Reports to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits, where similar topics are discussed ***

 

[Pinkrlion 2,715]

5 hours ago, Gary Rich said:

Jeanne would it also be good to be pro-active and file a police report just in case anything becomes more  of a problem that's taking place ?

 Because i would want to have it documented of all actions that she doing ( saving all the emails she sent ) 

A police report for what. What he has mentioned is a relationship issue. She has not made any physical attempts of harm.  They wouldn’t entertain it. 

[Gary Rich 261]

6 minutes ago, Pinkrlion said:

A police report for what. What he has mentioned is a relationship issue. She has not made any physical attempts of harm.  They wouldn’t entertain it. 

Well i look at it differently, in what we call here in the states is an harassments problem and btw.. here in the states one can go to the police dept..

 but being that it's 2 different countries.. it wont not make a difference.. but carry on ( btw one can report a relationship harassment problem here for documentation )they give it a case number 

Edited January 30, 2023 by Gary Rich

[TBoneTX 45,259]

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