divorce

[girl 37 7]

Not that it's any of my business, but where did she say she was ready to toss her marriage in the trash? I read the whole thread last night & don't recall reading that.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Shon, I'm disappointed in you. I stood up for you in your first run in here (rightfully so) and have always shown myself to you to be fair and a non-flamer if you recall our past conversations. I provide sources for my information beyond my own experiences and I typically don't argue minutia. This is an important error you made and it's unfair of you to not take the correction or provide proof for your point beyond the fact that you made 2 errors in doing this before.

Wow, I'm amazed by the fact that:

1. Shon's posts are taken personal, which in turn

2. Calls for a need to confront her and in front of everyone, its justification being

3. An accusation of misleading info. given, quickly followed by

4. Demanding an explanation and ordering her to correct it.

Incredible!

dmartmar,

thats because, they are hateful!!!!

to be fair and a non-flamer

that is the biggest joke- I have ever heard. non flamer where did you get that crock of poo from? all you and your clan do is flame. " non flamer " he sayes.

People can make so called errors. This board is not supposed to be tried and true legal advise support.

people ask advise from others to get a perspective of their situation or there ideas on something. some people can vent or disclose their whole personal life. people can take others experiances learn from it or toss it over their shoulder like a grain of salt. how dare me say anything then I am called a troll or being accused of Ranting.

Somehow, "name calling" seems unnecessary if what you say is true about this board ~ people sharing their personal experiences. If someone else has either not had an experience like yours, or questions if you were clear on how you reported it, why would you automatically assume that you are right and he/she is wrong? In this instance that was clearly not the case. You were wrong. If you made an error, why not simply admit it? We are all human here, as you said.

By the way, I'm VERY female and I amke no bones about it:) If after more than a year of posts here you couldn't ascertain that I am not a male, and that is hardly a subtle fact, by the way, then it's no wonder people are driven to question some of your conclusions, don't you think?

[babybunny 2]

Shon, I'm disappointed in you. I stood up for you in your first run in here (rightfully so) and have always shown myself to you to be fair and a non-flamer if you recall our past conversations. I provide sources for my information beyond my own experiences and I typically don't argue minutia. This is an important error you made and it's unfair of you to not take the correction or provide proof for your point beyond the fact that you made 2 errors in doing this before.

Wow, I'm amazed by the fact that:

1. Shon's posts are taken personal, which in turn

2. Calls for a need to confront her and in front of everyone, its justification being

3. An accusation of misleading info. given, quickly followed by

4. Demanding an explanation and ordering her to correct it.

Incredible!

dmartmar,

thats because, they are hateful!!!!

to be fair and a non-flamer

that is the biggest joke- I have ever heard. non flamer where did you get that crock of poo from? all you and your clan do is flame. " non flamer " he sayes.

People can make so called errors. This board is not supposed to be tried and true legal advise support.

people ask advise from others to get a perspective of their situation or there ideas on something. some people can vent or disclose their whole personal life. people can take others experiances learn from it or toss it over their shoulder like a grain of salt. how dare me say anything then I am called a troll or being accused of Ranting.

Somehow, "name calling" seems unnecessary if what you say is true about this board ~ people sharing their personal experiences. If someone else has either not had an experience like yours, or questions if you were clear on how you reported it, why would you automatically assume that you are right and he/she is wrong? In this instance that was clearly not the case. You were wrong. If you made an error, why not simply admit it? We are all human here, as you said.

By the way, I'm VERY female and I amke no bones about it:) If after more than a year of posts here you couldn't ascertain that I am not a male, and that is hardly a subtle fact, by the way, then it's no wonder people are driven to question some of your conclusions, don't you think?

listion sir, I dont have disclose nothing about my case to YOU. its for me to know and you to day dream about it. I dont have to admit SHyitt to you either! you are not my husband and I dont have to answer to you! I certainly know that after a year you still wont Fccccking leave me alone! you are obsessed!

Not that it's any of my business, but where did she say she was ready to toss her marriage in the trash? I read the whole thread last night & don't recall reading that.

if its not none of your business why are you asking about her post for? DUH.

go back and read all six of her chop F####k dayum threads! I have no respect

for anyone that slam their spouse like she has been doing. NONE! Su Gente!

[Marilyn. 340]

this is all I am going to say... nowhere does Michelle "slam" her husband.... she is a nice person that doesn't have a mean thing to say about anyone...

marriage can be tough and it has its ups and downs....

now this thread needs to go back on topic

[gimygirl 0]

you guys really need to get a room!

[digitalsy 1]

Hey,

Thanks everyone for your responses. I haven't had time to come and reply. I still actually haven't even read them all - I skimmed most of them though. Thanks for all your PMs, and the kind words. I will be getting back to each one of you who sent me a PM.

Someone did write that I seem to be coping fine. You know what, for the longest time I didn't want this to happen. I tried fighting it until my wife just didn't want to fight anymore - she wanted to leave. So as broken as I felt, I realized I couldn't force someone to stay if they didn't want to so I just accepted it and have come to terms with it. We still love each other immensely, and the fact we're both very stubborn makes it even harder because we second guess ourselves and go back on our decision...sigh.

Anyway, being without her and her son is going to suck - I am going to be all alone, and it's going to be even worse for her because she'll have to start all over again and leave everything we've built up (she'll be moving back to the Midwest, UGH). I wish we could do it some other way, but apparently there is no other way.

I'm at work right now, gotta go. Thanks everyone for your support - I have a feeling in the next few months you'll be seeing alot more of me.

[pax 0]

I'm sorry to hear this, Digi. I can't imagine how hard it's going to be for you and your wife, but you both sound like classy, sensible individuals, and I hope for the best for you both.

*hug*

[almaty 19]

i agree with pax..sorry digger...

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

I'm very sorry to hear it's ending this way.

I wish you all the best, and that you find the happiness you deserve.

-MK

[MichelleandCraig 1]

Awww Digi...was just scopin' around tonight before supper and saw this... So sorry to hear that! Just wanted to add my 'sorry this happened' for what it's worth and wish you all the best in the coming days...hope you're doing alright, and look forward to seeing you around. Take care, Michelle

[littlepoem 0]

I just wanted to stop by and say I am very sorry to hear the news. Wishing you all the best for the future digi

[ceriserose 1]

Hey Julian,

I'm really sorry that it didn't work out...I know you were going through a lot after you moved here. I'm glad it's amicable and that you at least have the job to keep you going.

We're both working hard and not here a lot anymore (my job keeps my busy busy), but feel free to PM either myself or ILIKEALLCAPS (or yahoo...we're around but might be invisible on it).

Take care!