Anyone Moved From the US to the UK...then Back again?

[Cry_Tuff 0]

Call me paranoid...lol..but...Pete and I are weighing our options at this point. I just went to take the test this past week for the sheriff's dispatcher....and a hard one at that...next process in 2 weeks is a board interview for those that passed (which I think I did fine on)...and then a polygraph test (lie detector), then an in depth background check...including credit, work history, referrals, etc...oh..and also an IN HOME INTERVIEW. This whole process will take about 2-3 months before I even know if I will be hired or not.

Now, we HAVE NOT received our NOA2 as yet...and I know they will be wanting pay stubs (some of you may remember I lost my job May 1st....perfect timing ) My parents have agreed to be cosponsors to bring Pete over....(I'm 31, divorced, and have 2 young children from my previous marriage fyi).... I've enrolled back into college as of July 9th, and will have my associates degree in Criminal Justice in 2 years. I've applied and checked back to like 20 different places, with no leads as yet for a job. So, you can imagine the stress level at this point with me not having a job as yet. I know the kids dad will sign off on papers if we do move out of the country.

SO, we were talking about how if the visa happens to get denied...I was wanting to know if anyone knows the process of going to live in the UK from the US...and then after we get everything established....going thru the process to move back to the US. Basically, what does it entail..or could you refer me to a link? Any help would be greatful.

As I said...we are just weighing options...nothing is definite.

Edited July 22, 2007 by ♥C and P♥

[paulinespens 3]

Hi

As long as you two have told the truth I can't see any reason why your visa is gonna be denied as long as you both have been 100% honest. We are from a low risk country anyways. Once you get your NOA2 the ball starts rolling.

Your both gonna be fine

If you wanted to move to UK its easier to do that then move to America and lot quicker. Pete would be able to file in the states for you.

[Cry_Tuff 0]

Hi

As long as you two have told the truth I can't see any reason why your visa is gonna be denied as long as you both have been 100% honest. We are from a low risk country anyways. Once you get your NOA2 the ball starts rolling.

Your both gonna be fine

If you wanted to move to UK its easier to do that then move to America and lot quicker. Pete would be able to file in the states for you.

We have been more than truthful for the K1...lol. (I sent around 90 pages of nothing but the truth in with my petition ) ...Which is why it is probably taking them so long...haha

What has me worried the most is me not having a job..and unfortunately, I did have to rely on government assistance for right now to help get me by, especially with 2 young children....their father doesn't do anything for child support. I had been working at the bank for just about 5 years...and was let go. I'm trying to pick up the pieces...and applying for work...at this point..I don't care where..as long as I'm getting a pay stub. I hate being on assistance...and I know it's there for people that really need it...but I'm a very independent person, and I hate being on it. I just want to get a job and get off of it. IF I can land that sheriff's dispatcher job, I will be set, cause it's with the government, and full government benefits...but...as I said..that can take up to 2-3 months to decide...and what is worrying us is if I (1) don't get this job and (2) if I can't get a job period (3) if I don't have enough income/pay stubs to prove by the time the interview hits

Oh, and we were talking about me and the kids moving to the UK until we can get Pete documented to go back to the US with us...just didn't know that process..

[paulinespens 3]

Im sure you gonna hear soon about your K1. Have a look at my time line and compare it to mine. You should be hearing any time now.

As long as you have someone willing to sponsor Pete Im sure you mentioned you did then yeah your gonna be fine. Yourself not having a job isn't going to be a problem.

I know I worry about stuff to with the visa application. I got the medical coming up is that gonna be ok. When is my interview gonna be its all non stop.

You be back on your feet soon I can see it. You have come this far. Your NOA2 is gonna be there soon then you be getting ready for Petes medical and his interview etc.

Just keep going. Pete is gonna be with you this year.

If visa ever was to be denied there is a site that can tell you about the progress to come and move here.

http://www.americanexpats.co.uk/

Good luck.

[PaulineA 1]

Call me paranoid...lol..but...Pete and I are weighing our options at this point. I just went to take the test this past week for the sheriff's dispatcher....and a hard one at that...next process in 2 weeks is a board interview for those that passed (which I think I did fine on)...and then a polygraph test (lie detector), then an in depth background check...including credit, work history, referrals, etc...oh..and also an IN HOME INTERVIEW. This whole process will take about 2-3 months before I even know if I will be hired or not.

Now, we HAVE NOT received our NOA2 as yet...and I know they will be wanting pay stubs (some of you may remember I lost my job May 1st....perfect timing ) My parents have agreed to be cosponsors to bring Pete over....(I'm 31, divorced, and have 2 young children from my previous marriage fyi).... I've enrolled back into college as of July 9th, and will have my associates degree in Criminal Justice in 2 years. I've applied and checked back to like 20 different places, with no leads as yet for a job. So, you can imagine the stress level at this point with me not having a job as yet. I know the kids dad will sign off on papers if we do move out of the country.

SO, we were talking about how if the visa happens to get denied...I was wanting to know if anyone knows the process of going to live in the UK from the US...and then after we get everything established....going thru the process to move back to the US. Basically, what does it entail..or could you refer me to a link? Any help would be greatful.

As I said...we are just weighing options...nothing is definite.

I wouldn't worry as long as he has a co sponsor that can meet the income requirements you will be fine.

[Converse34 1]

I am a USC and spent 6 years in the UK (mostly studying). The job market can be very tough, the cost of living is higher, and salaries much lower. I have been back in the US for almost 2 years now and even though it means my fiance and I have to be a part, I don't regret it for one second. After I received my Masters, I went on about 20 job interviews all over the UK - I got one lousy job and I lasted 5 months, I couldnt take it any longer. I came back to the US to look for work and I had to fantastic offers in 2 days - earning double what I do in the UK.

I would never move back to the UK unless I was on an expat package and was transfered internally. It is just too expensive otherwise and your quality of life is much better in the US.

If you do end up having job issues, consider other locations within the US (I am from NJ but moved to Chicago for this job - I knew no one out here) before considering moving to the UK. IMHO of course.

Cheryl

[Cry_Tuff 0]

Thanks you everyone for responding. I know my parents..who will be cosponsoring Pete to come over, make plenty..and have plenty of assets to cover the 2 years required here...til he gets a job. (not that we will be using their money..just needs to look good on paper)

It just truely worries me about me loosing my job right after we filed...it's like that couldn't of happened at a worse time...knowing I have to meet a certain income requirement. I just wonder how they will look now at me having to resort to going on government assistance to make ends meet...As I said..I don't want to stay on it..and make a living off of it...like some people do..It's just til I am able to secure employment. I've went back to college..so I am trying..I just hope it's enough for USCIS.

[homesick_american 1]

I am a USC and spent 6 years in the UK (mostly studying). The job market can be very tough, the cost of living is higher, and salaries much lower. I have been back in the US for almost 2 years now and even though it means my fiance and I have to be a part, I don't regret it for one second. After I received my Masters, I went on about 20 job interviews all over the UK - I got one lousy job and I lasted 5 months, I couldnt take it any longer. I came back to the US to look for work and I had to fantastic offers in 2 days - earning double what I do in the UK.

I would never move back to the UK unless I was on an expat package and was transfered internally. It is just too expensive otherwise and your quality of life is much better in the US.

If you do end up having job issues, consider other locations within the US (I am from NJ but moved to Chicago for this job - I knew no one out here) before considering moving to the UK. IMHO of course.

Cheryl

Yup...I wouldn't bother with living in the UK for the reasons Cheryl discussed. She's 100% right.

[paulinespens 3]

Far as I know any money you get is for you and your children and not Pete.

The support forms just mean that your parents are reponsible for Pete and not your money.

As long as it all looks good on paper you won't have any probs.

Get married soon as Pete comes then in 90 days after the AOS gets done Peter can get to work.

[rebeccajo 14]

Let's assume the visa will be approved and not go down the 'denial' part.

Let's talk about AOS. As you said, you hate to rely on assistance. And you're worried about 'how things look'.

We live in a depressed area of the country. I've been trying to find a better job for over a year now. And so are sooooooooo many other people around me. Everytime I have a good shot at something, there are at least half a dozen other qualified candidates. It's really tough to land a plum job.

In other words - don't put all your faith in the job at the Sheriff's department. Hunt, hunt, hunt. Since you are out of work, you should be devoting yourself daily to finding another job. Job hunting should be your job.

Good luck to you. I was a divorced mom too. I know it's tough. Just don't put all your eggs in one basket and keep plugging along.

[Cry_Tuff 0]

Thanks for that RebeccaJo ....Believe me...I'm still applying and looking for work, and going to college, and being a mother..lol Even if it's a part time job right now...I don't care..I need something, and I'm willing to work..that's the thing. I have a few places even tomorrow I want to stop at after classes.

Btw...My mother's side of the family is from WVA....Mostly down in Ripley, Spencer, Parkersburg, Charleston areas. My great grandfather (bless his heart) will be 98 or 99 years old this year and still lives up on the ridge in outside of Ripley, and that's where most of our family's land is. I've taken Pete "down home" this past January....lol He thinks it's beautiful there. I said I'd love to move there..with the exception of having to drive to find work...yep, I know all about that...lol

[kins 0]

I've moved back and forth a few times.

UK to US just before we got married in 1999. Had no kids and had plenty of disposable income. No idea what it cost because I didn't care at the time. Took me about two weeks to find myself a job once we settled in Seattle.

US to UK a year later. Still no kids and managed to move back for less than $2000. Lived with my mother-in-law for the next year to save money. Worked freelance from home so didn't have to worry about finding jobs.

UK to US last month. Now have three kids and had to apply for another green card. Removal costs around $15,000, not counting fees for green card, and other expenses. Would never have done it if my husband hadn't already found himself a job out here. Just too scary...

It costs a lot to move with kids... I think I would stay home and try to find more jobs and till then take the assistance - that's what it's there for...

[The_dip_sticks 0]

I know that every case is different but ....we have been watiting for over a year. My husband was born and raised in London so I cant really comment.

[rebeccajo 14]

Thanks for that RebeccaJo ....Believe me...I'm still applying and looking for work, and going to college, and being a mother..lol Even if it's a part time job right now...I don't care..I need something, and I'm willing to work..that's the thing. I have a few places even tomorrow I want to stop at after classes.

Btw...My mother's side of the family is from WVA....Mostly down in Ripley, Spencer, Parkersburg, Charleston areas. My great grandfather (bless his heart) will be 98 or 99 years old this year and still lives up on the ridge in outside of Ripley, and that's where most of our family's land is. I've taken Pete "down home" this past January....lol He thinks it's beautiful there. I said I'd love to move there..with the exception of having to drive to find work...yep, I know all about that...lol

*smile*

Your great-grandfather lives less than an hours drive from me.