Can I try vawa?

[Redbunny45 2]

Just now, Daphne . said:

But you are not even in the US yet? Why would you want to move if your spouse is mistreating you? 

I am in the us we got married in the us but didn’t live together 

[Lemonslice 4,838]

If you were not physically together, and only arguing by text, it might be harder to find evidence of abuse.  I am not saying it is impossible, but it seems you were not even together.  Wanting to end a relationship is usually not abuse.  You might benefit from discussing the details of your relationship with a lawyer, or a support organization for abused immigrant.  Details will be very important. Generalities you wrote here do not seem to be sufficient. 

[Daphne . 1,853]

Just now, Redbunny45 said:

I am in the us we got married in the us but didn’t live together 

Why weren’t you living together? There must be more to this story.. 

[Redbunny45 2]

1 minute ago, Daphne . said:

But you are not even in the US yet? Why would you want to move if your spouse is mistreating you? 

I am in the us we got married in the us

[SalishSea 17,827]

1 minute ago, Redbunny45 said:

I am in the us we got married in the us but didn’t live together 

So you have no basis for adjusting status.  You have a sham marriage and you are heading in the direction of an overstay and subsequent bar.

[Redbunny45 2]

Just now, Daphne . said:

Why weren’t you living together? There must be more to this story.. 

the marriage was so short the spouse change their mind saying I have no potential 

[Redbunny45 2]

3 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

So you have no basis for adjusting status.  You have a sham marriage and you are heading in the direction of an overstay and subsequent bar.

No it was a real marriage 

[Daphne . 1,853]

2 minutes ago, Redbunny45 said:

the marriage was so short the spouse change their mind saying I have no potential 

Was this “marriage” set up so you could move to the US? How did your spouse not know if you had potential before you got married? How long did you know this person before you got married?

[Redbunny45 2]

1 minute ago, Redbunny45 said:

No it was a real marriage 

The spouse didn’t file anything at all for me 

[Daphne . 1,853]

1 minute ago, Redbunny45 said:

No it was a real marriage 

A legal marriage is not the same as a bonafide marriage.. 

[Redbunny45 2]

1 minute ago, Daphne . said:

Was this “marriage” set up so you could move to the US? How did your spouse not know if you had potential before you got married? How long did you know this person before you got married?

I was already in the us when I met my spouse. We knew each other a few months. Love happens quickly. 

[Pinkrlion 2,716]

6 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

If you were not physically together, and only arguing by text, it might be harder to find evidence of abuse.  I am not saying it is impossible, but it seems you were not even together.  Wanting to end a relationship is usually not abuse.  You might benefit from discussing the details of your relationship with a lawyer, or a support organization for abused immigrant.  Details will be very important. Generalities you wrote here do not seem to be sufficient. 

It does not matter her generalities are specific for vAWA. You have to live with abuser after marriage. They will know when she entered US married and divorced. If she lies about anything, they can prove it and send her to removal proceedings. 

[Lemonslice 4,838]

1 minute ago, Pinkrlion said:

It does not matter her generalities are specific for vAWA. You have to live with abuser after marriage. They will know when she entered US married and divorced. If she lies about anything, they can prove it and send her to removal proceedings. 

I could not find enough details about cohabitation in what was written, might have existed, or not.  That is why I said details are missing, details will be important.  At first glance, I do not see a VAWA situation at all.  But were they not living in marital union because she was locked up in a dungeon, or because the USC changed their mind the evening of the wedding - that, I do not know... 

[Daphne . 1,853]

2 minutes ago, Redbunny45 said:

I was already in the us when I met my spouse. We knew each other a few months. Love happens quickly. 

Yes, love can happen quickly but there seems to be something off about your situation.. I assume you were in the US on a non-immigrant visa? What is the reason that you never lived together? 

[Redbunny45 2]

1 minute ago, Daphne . said:

Yes, love can happen quickly but there seems to be something off about your situation.. I assume you were in the US on a non-immigrant visa? What is the reason that you never lived together? 

Yes I was it expired. Hmmm you ask a lot of questions. I said above the spouse doubted me. The spouse divorced me quickly.