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Hi Y'all

 

This might sound like the most bizarre petition for children of permanent resident. As some of you have followed and reply to several of my post, I want to let you know that my stepdaughter is finally in the USA, and, as many of you expect otherwise, It's been an absolute hell since she was on her way to the USA. 

For starters, she snapshot the part of the affidavit of support and sent it to us, like a "reminder" that we are financially responsible for her. She actually thinks that she will be getting a monthly salary from us just because the affidavit of support. 

She's been completely nasty towards her mother, even to the point that she attempted to hit her more than once. Constantly threatening us the she will make our lives miserable, etc. 

Now, the latest, Apparently the father of the baby arrived in the USA, we exactly don't know how since he's not from, and never being in the USA and she's planning to leave and be with him. She's expecting to receive a "salary" from us, as "stated" by the I-864.

 

Any guidance, Please? just as I was writing, I was about to call the police on her, throwing stuff, and getting into my wife's face.

Desperately,

 

PRGuy

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10 minutes ago, PRGuy said:

Hi Y'all

 

This might sound like the most bizarre petition for children of permanent resident. As some of you have followed and reply to several of my post, I want to let you know that my stepdaughter is finally in the USA, and, as many of you expect otherwise, It's been an absolute hell since she was on her way to the USA. 

For starters, she snapshot the part of the affidavit of support and sent it to us, like a "reminder" that we are financially responsible for her. She actually thinks that she will be getting a monthly salary from us just because the affidavit of support. 

She's been completely nasty towards her mother, even to the point that she attempted to hit her more than once. Constantly threatening us the she will make our lives miserable, etc. 

Now, the latest, Apparently the father of the baby arrived in the USA, we exactly don't know how since he's not from, and never being in the USA and she's planning to leave and be with him. She's expecting to receive a "salary" from us, as "stated" by the I-864.

 

Any guidance, Please? just as I was writing, I was about to call the police on her, throwing stuff, and getting into my wife's face.

Desperately,

 

PRGuy

Good luck 

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~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from Bringing Family of PR- as similar topics are discussed here.~~

 

 

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Please do call the Police when she is being abusive, faking or attempting to hit her mother, throwing things and destroying your belongings are grounds to have the police called.

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And her mother never saw the redflags of her own child's behavior? Where are they from? 

 

Seems baby daddy is pulling strings. He already arrived for his own petition. 

Immigration journey is not: fast, for the faint at heart, easy, cheap, for the impatient nor right away. If more than 50% of this applies to you, best get off the bus.

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1 hour ago, Lil bear said:

Good luck 

Ditto

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24 minutes ago, Timona said:

And her mother never saw the redflags of her own child's behavior? Where are they from? 

 

Seems baby daddy is pulling strings. He already arrived for his own petition. 

Russia, she's 23, baby daddy just showed up a bit ago, taking both daughter and baby with him.

She would NEVER expect her to act this way. Even after her interview, and visa approval, we told her that if she wishes to stay back in her country, she could do so because of the baby and baby daddy situation, she was NEVER forced to come over,

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2 minutes ago, PRGuy said:

Russia, she's 23, baby daddy just showed up a bit ago, taking both daughter and baby with him.

 

No doubt for the best.

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Cut her off. Move on. 

She'll be back once she's been used and dumped after baby daddy gets his GC.

Immigration journey is not: fast, for the faint at heart, easy, cheap, for the impatient nor right away. If more than 50% of this applies to you, best get off the bus.

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6 minutes ago, Timona said:

Cut her off. Move on. 

She'll be back once she's been used and dumped after baby daddy gets his GC.

How though? He probably came on tourist visa, she's not a citizen for at least 5.5-6 years. Do you think they're gonna last this long? I doubt it the way it's going.

 

Sorry to hear what you're going through @PRguy. Is your spouse on your side at least? Would you guys be willing to cut ties with your stepdaughter? I'd deal with her through legal communication only if I was treated so poorly...

 

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18 minutes ago, OldUser said:

How though? He probably came on tourist visa, she's not a citizen for at least 5.5-6 years. Do you think they're gonna last this long? I doubt it the way it's going.

 

Sorry to hear what you're going through @PRguy. Is your spouse on your side at least? Would you guys be willing to cut ties with your stepdaughter? I'd deal with her through legal communication only if I was treated so poorly...

 

PRs can sponsor spouses

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44 minutes ago, PRGuy said:

Russia, she's 23, baby daddy just showed up a bit ago, taking both daughter and baby with him.

She would NEVER expect her to act this way. Even after her interview, and visa approval, we told her that if she wishes to stay back in her country, she could do so because of the baby and baby daddy situation, she was NEVER forced to come over,

Obviously someone didn't have an accurate grasp on her character prior to her coming over...

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PRs can sponsor spouses

How is she going to sponsor with no income though?

I would think neither @PRGuy nor his wife would sign up to be co-sponsors after realizing what they got themselves into with stepdaughter...

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How is she going to sponsor with no income though?

Get a job or joint sponsor.

 

Perhaps the plan was to use the money she expects to get from her Mother?

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Last I checked, GC could file concurrently. As for income, do like any USC who doesn't meet financial obligation: joint sponsor or get a job. I'm sure baby daddy can get JS or she will get a job. My money is on the latter as she seems to love baby daddy to death. 

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