Our visa

[PEbode 14]

My husband and I our working on our relationship and working thru everything will this affects our visa approval 

Edited December 6, 2022 by PEbode

[Boiler 45,442]

Probably

[PEbode 14]

They will have the think all relationships will have some issues being apart for so long due to this covid and backlog 

[Boiler 45,442]

Not that I have noticed.

[Marieke H 2,496]

It depends... Have you already filed for divorce and/or did you withdraw your application like you said you were going to do in your last post?

[Daphne . 1,852]

From your post history, I see that it has been a rocky road for the 2 of you. So I assume that the divorce is off the table?

 

Relationships can be put under a lot of stress with the timelines and being apart, most of us understand and have gone through it. I do think that you (and your spouse) need to be 100% sure that this relationship will work, especially because there are some big implications with immigration in the mix

[PEbode 14]

Yes the divorce is off the table and no I didn't cancel the visa the problem wasn't between us it was his parents 

[PEbode 14]

The love between us has always been there and still is he was having pressure from his parents 

[Kanja 201]

Why would it impact the visa? Is there something already disclosed that you are worried it will come back? Problems with parents are normal. I don’t see it being a major issue unless there is something I am missing. 

[Timona 4,207]

I'll wait at the next busstop. 

[JeanneAdil 6,489]

2 hours ago, PEbode said:

Yes the divorce is off the table and no I didn't cancel the visa the problem wasn't between us it was his parents 

family does not go away

even when he comes to USA,  they are still a big part of him and will be included in his decisions '

especially his mom

 

Make your peace with them 

[PEbode 14]

3 hours ago, Kanja said:

Why would it impact the visa? Is there something already disclosed that you are worried it will come back? Problems with parents are normal. I don’t see it being a major issue unless there is something I am missing. 

No 

[Unlockable 7,314]

I will say that it depends. Yes, problems occur in relationships but it is how the couple handles them that is the key to a successful marriage. If you are having issues and are likely to resolve them, I don't see a problem. However, if it is something that may break you two up, I can see hesitation of issuing a visa.

 

I don't watch the show anymore but I often see and hear updates from couples from 90 Day Fiancé. I just saw a newsfeed that yet another couple is getting a divorce and this time after only 10 months. Now this is personal opinion but for a couple to only be married for 10 months is not worth issuing a visa to. I think that was a complete waste of a visa on them. And it is not just related to immigration. I hear about divorces for the most petty reasons. It almost seems like people are separating because their spouse ordered the wrong comforter on Amazon. (OK, that last sentence was me being cynical but you get my drift.)

 

I also want to add that I have seen on this site where a person withdraws a petition after a break up, then come back later and want to know how to start things over because they have now gotten back together. To me that is too much volatility for a relationship to be going through an immigration process.

 

@PEbode, I think the biggest issue is to assess how much of an impact your husband's family will play in your marriage. I have seen it go both ways. If you are willing to work through things with your husband then I don't see a problem. But if here are deal breakers and big issues you need to work on, an officer that is aware of this may harp on it. 

 

Hope it works out for you.

[Shamondy 7]

On 12/6/2022 at 2:41 PM, PEbode said:

Yes the divorce is off the table and no I didn't cancel the visa the problem wasn't between us it was his parents 

Have you spent any time with his parents?