I did not go to my wedding yesterday

[Cassie 8]

The second wedding is back on

You're fiance has only been here two weeks?

You've got about 75 or so more days to make up your mind. I'd suggest you take them.

Oh sure, it will not be soon. The Abouna who was marrying us, said for sure we have to have more counseling,but he knows of the 90 day requirement. So, once we get back home more counseling and then the wedding.

If he left the USA, how is he going to re-enter?

Or did I miss part of the story (and he didn't actually leave the country)?

TracyTN,

No, he did not leave the counrty. He left the area in which the OP was living.

Thanks for clarifying - I was confused!! (Doesn't take much, LOL)

If it makes you feel better, I was confused about that point too!

[~Jackie~ 30]

Wishing you the best.

Jackie

[L_n_O 3]

good luck

[*JG* 2]

It's normal and a natural reaction to the nerves. I hope it all works out for you.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Indeed, a tough situation - I am sure you both will be able to figure out what is best. Counseling is always a good thing - and I'm sure your wedding will be lovely.

Sending good vibes to both of you, L.

[Fandango 1,439]

It's normal and a natural reaction to the nerves. I hope it all works out for you.

I think this is beyond the scope of normal and natural.

OP, I wish you well & hope you and your fiance get to the bottom of things so that you can enjoy a happy and long marriage......

[Saddle Bronc 124]

JODO, I'll pray that you will get to the bottom of things by COB Thursday, to make a Friday wedding possible.

(obviously, my interest here is due to the gross fee-jackup after next Monday).

[Toshtishtash 1]

Good luck

It's normal and a natural reaction to the nerves. I hope it all works out for you.

Sorry to go off topic...

BUT

Jomo's girl, your husband looks AMAZINGLY like an English TV presenter... Andy Peters I think his name is...

Anyway, sorry! Carry on!

Edited July 25, 2007 by toshtishtash

[Nanusia & Lukaszek 0]

It's normal and a natural reaction to the nerves. I hope it all works out for you.

I don't think its normal or natural to react that way. Everyone has some nerves the day of, but to take off, means there was something major that stopped you. I sincerely wish you the best and that you can work on what it was that didnt make you show up on the first round... before you guys plan shot #2.

Take your time, screw the increase on 7/30, and work on your relationship.

Good luck

[Mr and Mrs Bird 0]

Good idea to do some counseling together. Wishing you both the best and much happiness together.

Isn't it a little bit early in a relationship to already have problems and need counseling

[Mags 112]

Jomo's girl, your husband looks AMAZINGLY like an English TV presenter... Andy Peters I think his name is...

Hey, you're right, there is definitely a resemblance. Andi Peters does producing now, I think; he's quite a big wig at the BBC.

Anyhoo, Jodo, good luck with everything!

Edited July 25, 2007 by mags

[Nagishkaw 510]

Good idea to do some counseling together. Wishing you both the best and much happiness together.

Isn't it a little bit early in a relationship to already have problems and need counseling

No, because you do not know her story or situation. Either way, that is your opinion and I will not speak for the OP here out of respect for her and her SO.

[Saddle Bronc 124]

Good idea to do some counseling together. Wishing you both the best and much happiness together.

Isn't it a little bit early in a relationship to already have problems and need counseling

No, many clergy give pre-marital counselling to ensure that the couple is ready for marriage.

[trueimage 0]

JODO has her reasons and only she knows her situation. It's not for anyone to judge. I wanna believe that this site is for support, but I keep forgetting the reality of it. I personally wish JODO happiness and peace in her decisions and ask God to bless her life in every aspect.

[Leney 0]

Good idea to do some counseling together. Wishing you both the best and much happiness together.

Isn't it a little bit early in a relationship to already have problems and need counseling

No, many clergy give pre-marital counselling to ensure that the couple is ready for marriage.

Yes, and I think it's a great idea. Our Lutheran pastor insists upon at least 4 (1-2 hour long) meetings with him prior to the marriage, not only to make sure you're really in love, ready for marriage, believe in God and the sanctity of marrying in a house of God, but to sort the ceremony exactly how you wish. He was wonderful, and having that experience before our wedding, and needing to answer all his questions together made us realise exactly how ready we were (versus both our prior relationship mistakes).