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I did not go to my wedding yesterday

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###### happens, but that does not mean that you can't get through it or work it out. Looks like you had a moment of panick which is understandable because getting married is freaking crazy!!! And yes Loke saw me write that LOL

But the truth of the matter is that marriage is a deep commitment and although divorce is an option, it really f#cking sucks to get divorced so... if you are worried or you have a doubt, then take the necessary time that you need to be sure and if he is a good man, then he will allow you that time. Both of you have to be in the same place to be able to say "I do"

I see that you have planned wedding number two... does this mean that you are going back to Egypt?

Either way, I hope you all the best and remember to do what is right by you and if he is in love with you, then he will want you to be in a good place the day you marry him because he likely does not want to start a life out wondering if you married him under the wrong conditions of your heart...

Keep keeping it real with him... he deserves it and so do you.

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JODO   2

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The second wedding is back on :thumbs::dance:

You're fiance has only been here two weeks?

You've got about 75 or so more days to make up your mind. I'd suggest you take them.

Oh sure, it will not be soon. The Abouna who was marrying us, said for sure we have to have more counseling,but he knows of the 90 day requirement. So, once we get back home more counseling and then the wedding.

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I regretted my first marriage (actually a really crappy civil ceremony and youthful error) the moment I walked into the room, and wished I would have run away at that moment, instead I let them (ex husband's) family control me for 3 miserable months until I finally was pushed to the breaking point. I knew I had made a mistake, but was too controlled to speak up, it resulted in a lot of heartache and #######. People felt I didn't give it a fair chance, but when you have an insane mother-in-law throwing books around the house just because you said want to get an apartment of your own instead of living with the in laws for 3 years (and that is the nicest story I can tell you :P), you start to wonder what sort of nightmare you walked into :P

If you have truly decided this is not what you want, that is okay, but you have to tell him. It's better to have decided not to go through with it than to end up going through a messy divorce. While it was last minute, and poor timing, at least you had the balls not to make the mistake.

This is exactly what happened to me. I was 17 and I couldn't wait for the wedding to be over, if that isn't a sign, I don't know what is! I only wish I had the courage to put the breaks on the situation before it happened. However, I wouldve never met my current fiance if I never married the first guy.

Good luck JODO.

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TracyTN   237

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The second wedding is back on :thumbs::dance:

You're fiance has only been here two weeks?

You've got about 75 or so more days to make up your mind. I'd suggest you take them.

Oh sure, it will not be soon. The Abouna who was marrying us, said for sure we have to have more counseling,but he knows of the 90 day requirement. So, once we get back home more counseling and then the wedding.

If he left the USA, how is he going to re-enter?

Or did I miss part of the story (and he didn't actually leave the country)?

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homesick_american   1

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Without seeming mean, I think you had better talk to your fiance and pretty pronto...

He came over from his country and gave up his life there to be with you.

You at least owe him some explanation!

Yup...that's similar to what happened to me and the more time that goes by, the less likely my husband and I are to reconcile because he is being a COWARD. That sort of behavior is extremely damaging and hurtful to your fiance. You owe it to him to figure out what the hell's going on and either fix it quickly. Interpret 'fix' any way you like.

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The second wedding is back on :thumbs::dance:

You're fiance has only been here two weeks?

You've got about 75 or so more days to make up your mind. I'd suggest you take them.

Oh sure, it will not be soon. The Abouna who was marrying us, said for sure we have to have more counseling,but he knows of the 90 day requirement. So, once we get back home more counseling and then the wedding.

If he left the USA, how is he going to re-enter?

Or did I miss part of the story (and he didn't actually leave the country)?

TracyTN,

No, he did not leave the counrty. He left the area in which the OP was living.

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

It gets harder the more you know. Because the more you find out, the uglier everything seems.

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TracyTN   237

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The second wedding is back on :thumbs::dance:

You're fiance has only been here two weeks?

You've got about 75 or so more days to make up your mind. I'd suggest you take them.

Oh sure, it will not be soon. The Abouna who was marrying us, said for sure we have to have more counseling,but he knows of the 90 day requirement. So, once we get back home more counseling and then the wedding.

If he left the USA, how is he going to re-enter?

Or did I miss part of the story (and he didn't actually leave the country)?

TracyTN,

No, he did not leave the counrty. He left the area in which the OP was living.

Thanks for clarifying - I was confused!! (Doesn't take much, LOL)

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