I was divorced after he got the green card

[Lona.C. 16]

Hi all girls in the forum ..... this is my life story in some words with my egyption husband

he has told me that he loves me ,he has kissed me million of times ,he has hold me billion of times......etc

at the end of the story i discovered that he has been a skillful actor over 2 years and he has used me to get his green card.

i asked my friends here and they told me that my story has not been the first story and it would not be the last one. My advice for every girl who got married from arabs man or egyption or african or indian or pakistanian or jordanian man is to take care and be careful because they are skillful in tricking girls of thier love

don't make my story yours later

Sorry to hear about the pain. But it 's not the country, nor culture or race not even religion. It's the individual itself.

God has plan for all of us.

KayArt

first sorry to hear about your story , I agrea with kay , that why I think its very wise to realy get to know the man/ woman who you planning to spend the rest of your life with , and I meen not only by talkin on line or the phone , ( i seen posts here where couples try to aply for K1 and havent even met in person , I think thats wrong ) for expl I met my fiance 3 years ago in real for the first time , since then we soend every month traveling eather I go see him or he comes to see me, yeah I would say we do know eachother in every way . spending time in person sheds a whole new light then just on line or phone , hes my soulmate , so again am sorry to hear your storry but people plz keep your ears and eyes open realy get to know the person in spending quality time together before getting married , ( not to say you didnt spend time together , 2 years is quality time, this is mostly for people who rush into thinking theyr ready after the first day of meeting in real I read some horror storries here before with people who rushed into marriage )

[mybackpages 0]

Hi all girls in the forum ..... this is my life story in some words with my egyption husband

he has told me that he loves me ,he has kissed me million of times ,he has hold me billion of times......etc

at the end of the story i discovered that he has been a skillful actor over 2 years and he has used me to get his green card.

i asked my friends here and they told me that my story has not been the first story and it would not be the last one. My advice for every girl who got married from arabs man or egyption or african or indian or pakistanian or jordanian man is to take care and be careful because they are skillful in tricking girls of thier love

don't make my story yours later

Sorry to hear about the pain. But it 's not the country, nor culture or race not even religion. It's the individual itself.

God has plan for all of us.

KayArt

first sorry to hear about your story , I agrea with kay , that why I think its very wise to realy get to know the man/ woman who you planning to spend the rest of your life with , and I meen not only by talkin on line or the phone , ( i seen posts here where couples try to aply for K1 and havent even met in person , I think thats wrong ) for expl I met my fiance 3 years ago in real for the first time , since then we soend every month traveling eather I go see him or he comes to see me, yeah I would say we do know eachother in every way . spending time in person sheds a whole new light then just on line or phone , hes my soulmate , so again am sorry to hear your storry but people plz keep your ears and eyes open realy get to know the person in spending quality time together before getting married , ( not to say you didnt spend time together , 2 years is quality time, this is mostly for people who rush into thinking theyr ready after the first day of meeting in real I read some horror storries here before with people who rushed into marriage )

Well said, there is a LEGIT reason why Consulates consider quick engagements and marriages after meeting to be a red flag.

[Geist 0]

What about Russian men? Korean? Japan? Mexico? What culture is free of skillful liars?

Finns. They've developed, over time a genetic mutation that makes them incapable of lying. This has its disadvantages, as they cannot do white lies either:

"Honey, am I fat?"

"Yes. You should go to the gym more."

[Fandango 1,439]

Steven, I don't think you're being fair here. It's seems you're heckling this poster because of some PC brigade. Obviously if the story is true, there will be some bitterness on the OP's part which will make people say things that they normally wouldn't.

But there's a reason why the ME is considered a 'high fraud' country. Just like others. No it's not the only, but it is one of them. That is not to say every visa involving the ME is fraud....but it's not flagged as 'high fraud' for nothing.

Please stop heckling the OP. It's really not cool. Benefit of the doubt and all that jazz.

Edited July 21, 2007 by LisaD

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Steven, I don't think you're being fair here. It's seems you're heckling this poster because of some PC brigade. Obviously if the story is true, there will be some bitterness on the OP's part which will make people say things that they normally wouldn't.

But there's a reason why the ME is considered a 'high fraud' country. Just like others. No it's not the only, but it is one of them. That is not to say every visa involving the ME is fraud....but it's not flagged as 'high fraud' for nothing.

Please stop heckling the OP. It's really not cool. Benefit of the doubt and all that jazz.

She just joined right before she posted this. How many times have we been hoodwinked by trolls who've posted tragic stories like this before?

What about Russian men? Korean? Japan? Mexico? What culture is free of skillful liars?

Finns. They've developed, over time a genetic mutation that makes them incapable of lying. This has its disadvantages, as they cannot do white lies either:

"Honey, am I fat?"

"Yes. You should go to the gym more."

LOL

[Mags 112]

Please keep this thread on topic.

[Fandango 1,439]

Steven, I don't think you're being fair here. It's seems you're heckling this poster because of some PC brigade. Obviously if the story is true, there will be some bitterness on the OP's part which will make people say things that they normally wouldn't.

But there's a reason why the ME is considered a 'high fraud' country. Just like others. No it's not the only, but it is one of them. That is not to say every visa involving the ME is fraud....but it's not flagged as 'high fraud' for nothing.

Please stop heckling the OP. It's really not cool. Benefit of the doubt and all that jazz.

She just joined right before she posted this. How many times have we been hoodwinked by trolls who've posted tragic stories like this before?

How exactly have YOU been 'hoodwinked'? What consequence have you suffered which now prevents you from showing compassion on the off chance you're wrong?

Honestly, Steven, I never thought I'd see the day where you would turn bitter and refuse to extend even the most basic of courtesies to someone who just might really need some.

OP, I'm really sorry for your situation.

[Mags 112]

Please continue the current line of discussion here:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry1063106

Otherwise, please stay on topic!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Steven, I don't think you're being fair here. It's seems you're heckling this poster because of some PC brigade. Obviously if the story is true, there will be some bitterness on the OP's part which will make people say things that they normally wouldn't.

But there's a reason why the ME is considered a 'high fraud' country. Just like others. No it's not the only, but it is one of them. That is not to say every visa involving the ME is fraud....but it's not flagged as 'high fraud' for nothing.

Please stop heckling the OP. It's really not cool. Benefit of the doubt and all that jazz.

She just joined right before she posted this. How many times have we been hoodwinked by trolls who've posted tragic stories like this before?

How exactly have YOU been 'hoodwinked'? What consequence have you suffered which now prevents you from showing compassion on the off chance you're wrong?

Honestly, Steven, I never thought I'd see the day where you would turn bitter and refuse to extend even the most basic of courtesies to someone who just might really need some.

OP, I'm really sorry for your situation.

Bad choice of words on my part. Sorry.

I'm sorry for anyone's heartbreak...never would want to wish it upon anyone. As I've stated before, had it been a man who posted similar advice about women from specific countries being skillful liars, I think you'd see it differently.

[Lona.C. 16]

Hi all girls in the forum ..... this is my life story in some words with my egyption husband

he has told me that he loves me ,he has kissed me million of times ,he has hold me billion of times......etc

at the end of the story i discovered that he has been a skillful actor over 2 years and he has used me to get his green card.

i asked my friends here and they told me that my story has not been the first story and it would not be the last one. My advice for every girl who got married from arabs man or egyption or african or indian or pakistanian or jordanian man is to take care and be careful because they are skillful in tricking girls of thier love

don't make my story yours later

Sorry to hear about the pain. But it 's not the country, nor culture or race not even religion. It's the individual itself.

God has plan for all of us.

KayArt

first sorry to hear about your story , I agrea with kay , that why I think its very wise to realy get to know the man/ woman who you planning to spend the rest of your life with , and I meen not only by talkin on line or the phone , ( i seen posts here where couples try to aply for K1 and havent even met in person , I think thats wrong ) for expl I met my fiance 3 years ago in real for the first time , since then we soend every month traveling eather I go see him or he comes to see me, yeah I would say we do know eachother in every way . spending time in person sheds a whole new light then just on line or phone , hes my soulmate , so again am sorry to hear your storry but people plz keep your ears and eyes open realy get to know the person in spending quality time together before getting married , ( not to say you didnt spend time together , 2 years is quality time, this is mostly for people who rush into thinking theyr ready after the first day of meeting in real I read some horror storries here before with people who rushed into marriage )

Well said, there is a LEGIT reason why Consulates consider quick engagements and marriages after meeting to be a red flag.

exactly my point , being with or finding your soulmate, shouldnt be like walkin in a candy store and trying to deside wich chocolate you like most

[Ladylethal 12]

What is funny is that now, all of us foreigners are not even entitled to have a failed relationship, as it automatically makes us liars, cheaters, green card seekers, etc.

ANY marriage can end after 2 years, let's not all assume that anyone who ends a relationship is 'cus the foreigner was a bad person. That's prejudice.

[Lona.C. 16]

What is funny is that now, all of us foreigners are not even entitled to have a failed relationship, as it automatically makes us liars, cheaters, green card seekers, etc.

ANY marriage can end after 2 years, let's not all assume that anyone who ends a relationship is 'cus the foreigner was a bad person. That's prejudice.

hmmmm well i thought this journey is cose we all are involved with a foreigner ,

like i said it doesnt mather if your black white green blue yellow red , geez be orange or purple for all I care we all got the same blod,

the point iS chit happens and we all have to be aware how we take the next step in our future ,

its you walk putting the left foot infront the right , not left infront the left I remember when I was lil girl Mummy tought me if you walk left foot infront of your left you trip and land on your nose was great advise she tought me ,I meen get to know the person for at least 2-3 years ( in real,) if you intend to marry , thats all I say Lona

[Urge To Race 2]

To the OP, I am sorry for your heart break. You will heal soon, and hope things are getting better for you.

Thermophile,

Nice thought, and she can be distrustful of Egyptians, and Arabs as whole too (culture over nationality, just like your

friend and the south americans). That I can understand, not agree with , but understand. But then she rails against Africans, indians, and pakistanis. Hmm, seems more is going on here. Now we have a mix of different cultures, not even closely related. Africans and indians, they are very different from each other and both are different from the arab culture, so then why not Russians, Kosovans, and Bulgarians?

A women in the position of the OP might even be distrustful of all men, men from the culture that burned her, but picking a select list of nationalities is interesting, maybe close geographically in a sense, but the peoples from those nations are very different. That is where I, Fancypants and others will start to question the post.

Men and women from any cultural, etc. can do the same thing. Men or women from western europe, eastern europe are not free of this sort of stuff. The OP says she is warning based on her experience. An experience with an Egyptian does not qualify one to warn against an indian or pakistani. Unless she has had other failed relationships to base that experience on. Hurt or not, the wide brush used may be indicative of a bias that does not help anyone, the OP included.

leave the poor woman alone. Yes duping an American for a green card happens involving both men and women from pretty much any country, including the Philippines. She married an Egyptian so is especially distrustful of Arab men. A friend of mine married an exchange student from Brazil who walked out on her after their second anniversary, now she hates all South Americans. There is nothing that can erase that kind of hurt quickly, especially your childish taunts. So, tell the OP you're sorry for her pain or just shut up.

Edited July 21, 2007 by Urge To Race

[sakurasama 0]

I think even the most careful person can be fooled. Two years is a small price to pay for a greencard if you really want or need to leave your homeland. If you knew your eighty year old husband was going to die in two years and leave you a million dollars, you could probably kanoodle him for two years if your were really hungry for money. If you hated your boss but there was a big promotion two years down the pipe, you could smile and pander for that time. People do stuff like this all the time for a lot smaller payoffs. So people who think they can't be fooled are fooling themselves.

The OP is right to be sad and hurt and a warning never hurt anyone.

[Nancy2015 2]

I'm so sorry it happened to you

I think even the most careful person can be fooled. Two years is a small price to pay for a greencard if you really want or need to leave your homeland.

I can't imagine doing that. I can't believe someone has enough patience to put up with a person they don't love for 2 years (and fake being in love all this time!!!). I wouldn't be able to tolerate someone I didn't love for 2 weeks, let alone 2 years But I guess, everything is possible