To all US girls in the forum please read my story

[AInfante-Saraireh 0]

I think it's good for people to vent, such as my girlfriend Jacque. I think it's also good for someone to post their horrible experience over the green card, and I don't disagree with her. But she is now continuously posting every where and we got the message the first time. Now it's getting on some of our nerves when you are constantly repeating Arab/American marriages don't last and your being used for a card so they can go back and marry someone else and f--ck us! We got the message, JP, so this is why all of us are kind of getting edgy on these posts. Not only that, but she has posted elsewhere on how many american women are overweight and the age difference between themselves and their spouses. What's it too her? Looks like to me, someone is out to search for info and who knows...write a book on it.

How do you know its the same person?

I know it's the same person because you can track people by going to their profiles. Now unique love is the same person and that jkb..whatever and broken heart is new, both just signed up to VJ. Unique love and that jkb are the same person and she just signed up on vj, broken heart just signed up today. So where these women are coming from just to make green card comments, I mean it's good to get a warning like we didn't already know, but we are in it, so now we have to take the risk. Mine is up for his AOS interview. I told him already, you want to leave after the green card, do it. I mean, I've gone in this so far now, stupid to turn back the other way. If he does leave, well then I got used, won't be the first, sure it won't be the last. It's so tricky, you just don't know what to do. Right now I live with my husband and love him. If that ends, well...Im the stupid one, got burned and will never do it again. But what if I truly believe all of this, don't go through the AOS, pull completely out and he returns to Jordan and I find out later, he really did love me and planned a life of lengevity with me. So either way, the arrows are confusing. So most of us here decided to just live with what we commited to and take the grain with the salt. On the other hand, what happened to Jackie really pisses me offfffffffff!

Sorry I was giving her the benefit of the doubt because Broken heart said she was married to an Egyptian and the other was married to a Jordanian.

Either way, no one should be offended. Just ignore it.

LOL, I think they might be two different people or they can be one in the same just posting under other names and diferent marriages/culture. But Unique Love and this other sbjl whatever, is the same person.

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

LOL, I think they might be two different people or they can be one in the same just posting under other names and diferent marriages/culture. But Unique Love and this other sbjl whatever, is the same person.

Hahahaha now that you mention it, it sure does remind me of ....

[♥JP♥ 5]

I think it's good for people to vent, such as my girlfriend Jacque. I think it's also good for someone to post their horrible experience over the green card, and I don't disagree with her. But she is now continuously posting every where and we got the message the first time. Now it's getting on some of our nerves when you are constantly repeating Arab/American marriages don't last and your being used for a card so they can go back and marry someone else and f--ck us! We got the message, JP, so this is why all of us are kind of getting edgy on these posts. Not only that, but she has posted elsewhere on how many american women are overweight and the age difference between themselves and their spouses. What's it too her? Looks like to me, someone is out to search for info and who knows...write a book on it.

How do you know its the same person?

I know it's the same person because you can track people by going to their profiles. Now unique love is the same person and that jkb..whatever and broken heart is new, both just signed up to VJ. Unique love and that jkb are the same person and she just signed up on vj, broken heart just signed up today. So where these women are coming from just to make green card comments, I mean it's good to get a warning like we didn't already know, but we are in it, so now we have to take the risk. Mine is up for his AOS interview. I told him already, you want to leave after the green card, do it. I mean, I've gone in this so far now, stupid to turn back the other way. If he does leave, well then I got used, won't be the first, sure it won't be the last. It's so tricky, you just don't know what to do. Right now I live with my husband and love him. If that ends, well...Im the stupid one, got burned and will never do it again. But what if I truly believe all of this, don't go through the AOS, pull completely out and he returns to Jordan and I find out later, he really did love me and planned a life of lengevity with me. So either way, the arrows are confusing. So most of us here decided to just live with what we commited to and take the grain with the salt. On the other hand, what happened to Jackie really pisses me offfffffffff!

Sorry I was giving her the benefit of the doubt because Broken heart said she was married to an Egyptian and the other was married to a Jordanian.

Either way, no one should be offended. Just ignore it.

LOL, I think they might be two different people or they can be one in the same just posting under other names and diferent marriages/culture. But Unique Love and this other sbjl whatever, is the same person.

All I can say is if you are happy and secure in your marriage then good for you. Only you know yourself best ( I mean everyone).

[MelindaandTarek 0]

where were the girls that should've warned me about my psychotic american ex-husband????

EXACTLY.

back to the whole point of generalizing. I'm not in the mood to bash Arab men, I love one. I've had PLENTY of bad experiences with American guys. There are cheaters, users, liars, deceivers and general a**holes in every country, every culture. There are also plenty of good guys in all those same cultures. sum it up: keep your eyes open, ladies.

well said - i dont believe in generalizing....there are common themes in every culture..however each person is unique...

[Donna A 4]

i believe we have a troll among us.....

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...c=79119&hl=

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

World-renowned theater critic Leonard Pinth-Garnell reviews the brand-new VJ stageshow !

BAD ME/NA PLAYHOUSE

"Stunningly bad!"

"Monumentally ill-advised!"

"Perfectly awful!"

"Couldn't be worse!"

"Exquisitely awful!"

"Astonishingly ill-chosen!"

"Really bit the big one!"

"Unrelentingly bad!"

and....

"There... That wasn't so good now, was it?"

[AInfante-Saraireh 0]

You got it girl. Maybe she should be reported to the Captain.

LOL, WOM!

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

You got it girl. Maybe she should be reported to the Captain.

What ????? And ruin all the fun we're having at its expense ???

Trolls were made for mocking....

[♥JP♥ 5]

Trolls were made for mocking....

LOL that kinda rhymes with "These boots were made for walking..." is it happy hour yet?

[AngelK96 0]

The original post I thought was a woman, but all the other posts sound more manish and broken english.

It was some dang good reading though

[AInfante-Saraireh 0]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...mp;#entry104803

Here's the other post by Unique Love. Now she's a man. LOL

[Marry American 0]

why are all these heartbroken dumped ex spouses posting on an immigration forum? surely there are some yahoo groups or something out there for this kind of venting.

I think we've all heard enough warnings by now...............

I agree Enough already...we get it...we get it...

[AInfante-Saraireh 0]

The original post I thought was a woman, but all the other posts sound more manish and broken english.

It was some dang good reading though

Angel, you're back. What did you have, a girl or a boy? What's his/her name?

[Marry American 0]

Wow, you surely do like to post. I think we all got the message from jackies post, yet you started another one and now another one. You have also posted on the K1 site asking them there is any of them were overweight and how much older they were from their spouses? I don't know what you are trying to achieve here, but I believe all of us our pretty happy with our husbands. Now you did bring up some good points and we have taken them as pointers just incase, but I don't think you need to keep bashing Arab men and making American women look stupid. We are all taking a risk by marrying our loved ones, whether they are Arab, American, Chinese, European, Japanese...etc. Every marriage has a risk. If it's not the green card, it will be love affairs, or financial, or whatever...no marriage is perfect. Let us live our lives and if we get hurt or burned, then it's our problem.

[AInfante-Saraireh 0]

And here's the other one by KBJ or whatever it is, can't remember, darn. She's the one that started this all by posting all the drama to Jackie.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry1060144