Third party letter for the second AOS interview (merged)

[Family 3,988]

7 minutes ago, Yu1988 said:

Thank you so much. What you said is so true. I need to control my anxiety, although it is very hard to do.

We live together, love each other, and share everything together. At the first AOS interview, the officer asked me questions first and the ask my spouse the same questions through interpreter. It's almost like ask us questions separately since my spouse doesn't understand English. We did fine. Then the officer asked all those questions in the I485, including the party member question. The answer is No. We are in a real marriage and were well prepared for the first interview. The fact we still need a second interview makes me wondered what the interviewing officer wants and how well prepared is enough. It makes me struggle on every detail and causes more anxiety. 

You will be absolutely fine and if you chose to Worry..so be it ! You will ace that too! Lol.

 

Sending you my favorite monk for moments of peace and my favorite warrior for when the Battle with The Bureaucrats  Day Comes ( tap into the inner Ghenghis Khan). 

 

And link to old story of others in your same situation 

 

 

The Hu -Wolf Totem + Mongol Empire ᴴᴰ (Mongolian Throat Singing)

 

[Yu1988 3]

3 hours ago, Family said:

You will be absolutely fine and if you chose to Worry..so be it ! You will ace that too! Lol.

 

Sending you my favorite monk for moments of peace and my favorite warrior for when the Battle with The Bureaucrats  Day Comes ( tap into the inner Ghenghis Khan). 

 

And link to old story of others in your same situation 

 

 

Thank you so much! I love the monk mindfulness video and just subscribed his channel.

 

[Yu1988 3]

I prepared a set of evidence of a bona fide marital relationship. But now I hesitate if I should mail these unsolicited documents to USCIS field office prior to the interview. Any thoughts?

[Yu1988 3]

Below is the list of documents I have so far. Please give your comments. And what are the advantage/disadvantage of mail them prior to the interview?

 

-    An affidavit by a U.S. citizen friend, attesting to our relationship and marriage.
-    A letter of support by my spouse’s therapist.  
-    Copy of our 2021 tax return transcript showing married filing jointly.
-    Copies of Bank of America credit card and joint checking account statements.
-    Copy of our other credit cards showing same card number.
-    Copy of current bond holdings showing joint ownership.
-    Copy of IRA account beneficiary summary.
-    Copy of health insurance membership information and bills showing a joint policy. 
-    Copy of home and auto insurance statements showing a joint policy.
-    Copy of gas and electric statements showing both our names.
-    Copy of water Company statements showing both our names.
-    Copy of mobile phone company statements showing both our names.
-    Copy of our Costco cards on a joint account.
-    Copy of photos and air tickets for vacations we had before we got married.
-    Copy of photos of us, and with family and friends.

-    Copy of air and hotel reservations of an upcoming vacation.
-    Copy of my enrollment card at a local adult school showing current address.