I just got to America and my wife threatened to revoke my greencard

[nastra30 2,287]

2 hours ago, Josh or said:

I paid the money to get here. You don't know the full story,  i was inlove, when i got here i realized its been her plan to brought me here and use me, I also realised she is planning a life insurance stuffs on me she and her bf. 

Do not sign any life insurance stuff or anything involving your wife. Honestly, if everything you've said is true then the situation is becoming more and more cynical. Please file for divorce right away; no more delays.

 

Just curious. You may have probably addressed this but how did you and your wife meet? Did she ever visit you in Naija?

 

[Ricco355 3]

On 8/26/2022 at 11:41 AM, Josh or said:

Hello, 

 

I just to America three weeks ago, I was staying with my wife and later she brought a guy to start staying with us, and after that, she told me she just need me to be taking care of her, work and take care of her, she said the guy is the person she wants, I was unsettled with this so she started threatening with gun and also said if I do not paly along and agreed i should go back to africa,. Then there was  a day she wants me out of her house and I had to leave. Then have been trying to work but I don't have my social security yet as it has been delivered to her and when I called her today she said she returned my social security card to the social security office. Have paid for my green card but it hasn't been mailed yet, and today she said she contacted the uscis to cancel my green card , and she was making a lie accusation that I used her. Pleas I don't know what to do, will my green card not be mailed anymore after she make the accusation and report to uscis or what step should I take?

She can't threaten you. You need to report to the police. This is felony menacing. (threatening with a deadly weapon) it's not up to her that she can't cancel your Green card. 

[Ontarkie 14,226]

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[TBoneTX 45,308]

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[purify100 1]

There's a form you can file for spousal abuse where it will protect you through the immigration website  and you will still be able to stay in USA. Go to social security office and do as mentioned of the I-864? The one mentioned in this thread. I'm so sorry for the cruelness by the one who is putting you through this who is suppose to be your wife. You don't have to worry about divorce at this moment you can deal with it later after you get yourself in track with what you need right now. Please don't go back to her place of residence, if you need to go to a police station and report her and tell them what you said occurred there. They will deal with her and escort you.

[Crazy Cat 41,887]

2 minutes ago, purify100 said:

There's a form you can file for spousal abuse where it will protect you through the immigration website  and you will still be able to stay in USA.

The OP has a Green Card.  He is a legal resident.  He can stay in the US based on that.

[purify100 1]

14 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

The OP has a Green Card.  He is a legal resident.  He can stay in the US based on that.

Then he needs to go to police station and file a report on her for his protection and for later for his divorce. What she did was illegal and should face the consequences of her actions

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

Surprising that so many people are advising him to sue his wife under I-864. 

 

When a US citizen posts that their foreigner spouse is trying to sue them for support under 864, most of us don't think it's fair.  So not sure why people are advising suing under that.  He shouldn't get anything, he knew that his wife didn't want him to come but the gold card is too much to resist.  

 

 

[Crazy Cat 41,887]

32 minutes ago, Eric-Pris said:

Surprising that so many people are advising him to sue his wife under I-864. 

 

When a US citizen posts that their foreigner spouse is trying to sue them for support under 864, most of us don't think it's fair.  So not sure why people are advising suing under that.  He shouldn't get anything, he knew that his wife didn't want him to come but the gold card is too much to resist.  

 

 

I haven't observed that.  It takes 2 willing people to marry and provide all the bona fide marriage evidence needed for a spousal visa. Marriage is a commitment.  The I-864 is a commitment. The wife had ample opportunity to halt the visa process, but she didn't.  Life is full of choices.... and consequences.  She signed the I-864, and she will possibly have to pay spousal support.  Wise people learn from their unwise choices. 

Edited September 6, 2022 by Crazy Cat

[Boiler 45,525]

2 hours ago, Eric-Pris said:

Surprising that so many people are advising him to sue his wife under I-864. 

 

When a US citizen posts that their foreigner spouse is trying to sue them for support under 864, most of us don't think it's fair.  So not sure why people are advising suing under that.  He shouldn't get anything, he knew that his wife didn't want him to come but the gold card is too much to resist.  

 

 

Did you mean gold card?

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

4 hours ago, Boiler said:

Did you mean gold card?

It might as well be called that judging by what people are willing to do for it.