I just got to America and my wife threatened to revoke my greencard

[Josh or 18]

Hello, 

 

I just to America three weeks ago, I was staying with my wife and later she brought a guy to start staying with us, and after that, she told me she just need me to be taking care of her, work and take care of her, she said the guy is the person she wants, I was unsettled with this so she started threatening with gun and also said if I do not paly along and agreed i should go back to africa,. Then there was  a day she wants me out of her house and I had to leave. Then have been trying to work but I don't have my social security yet as it has been delivered to her and when I called her today she said she returned my social security card to the social security office. Have paid for my green card but it hasn't been mailed yet, and today she said she contacted the uscis to cancel my green card , and she was making a lie accusation that I used her. Pleas I don't know what to do, will my green card not be mailed anymore after she make the accusation and report to uscis or what step should I take?

[Crazy Cat 40,157]

I would report the SS card as stolen by her.  She cannot cancel your green card.  Find a divorce attorney to protect yourself legally.  Seek spousal support from her under the I-864 she signed.  Move on and seek happiness for yourself. 

Edited August 26, 2022 by Crazy Cat

[Josh or 18]

1 minute ago, Crazy Cat said:

I would report the SS card as stolen by her.  She cannot cancel your green card.  Find a divorce attorney to protect yourself legally.  Seek spousal support from her under the I-864 she signed.  Move on and seek happiness for yourself. 

Thank you so much, I can't afford a divorce attorney now, hope it wouldn't be too late like in two or three months time?

[Crazy Cat 40,157]

1 minute ago, Josh or said:

Thank you so much, I can't afford a divorce attorney now, hope it wouldn't be too late like in two or three months time?

Based on your post, I wouldn't wait any longer than necessary.  

[Family 3,621]

@Josh or …you made it to America! Incredible.

Your passport has a stamp on it that proves you are LPR as IR , if I recall..so you will get a 10 year green card….sooner or later.

You can go in person to Social Security office and ask them to print a verification if possible and update mailing address. 
Find a stable place/ address and leave your wife alone if she owns a gun…
Do an AR-11 change of address 
 

[Family 3,621]

Please post how it went when you got off the airplane. Did CBP ask you a lot of questions? 
Was wife waiting at the airport to pick you up?

[Josh or 18]

1 minute ago, Family said:

Please post how it went when you got off the airplane. Did CBP ask you a lot of questions? 
Was wife waiting at the airport to pick you up?

The CBP only asked where I want my green card to be mailed to, no other questions and yes my wife was waiting for me at the airport..

[Josh or 18]

11 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

Based on your post, I wouldn't wait any longer than necessary.  

Thank you sir, and pleas what could possibly happen if I can't get a divorce lawyer in time? We have been married more than two years and the cr1 conditioner is off. Is that why I need to get a divorce lawyer in time? Or something else?

[powerpuff 6,127]

~~ Topic moved from CR1/IR1 forum to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration benefits ~~

[Crazy Cat 40,157]

10 minutes ago, Josh or said:

Thank you sir, and pleas what could possibly happen if I can't get a divorce lawyer in time? We have been married more than two years and the cr1 conditioner is off. Is that why I need to get a divorce lawyer in time? Or something else?

Being proactive is better than just waiting around for her to file the divorce first. I would, at least, consult an attorney asap.  

Edited August 26, 2022 by Crazy Cat

[Verrou 1,908]

15 minutes ago, Josh or said:

Thank you sir, and pleas what could possibly happen if I can't get a divorce lawyer in time? We have been married more than two years and the cr1 conditioner is off. Is that why I need to get a divorce lawyer in time? Or something else?

try to find out pro bono lawyer near where you live. the faster the better for you to get a divorce lawyer. why wait if ur wife is like that? 

p.s i dont understand why ur wife said you have to work to take care of her but yet she doesnt want you to get the GC and SS? its like contradictive 

Edited August 26, 2022 by Misscloud

[Family 3,621]

56 minutes ago, Josh or said:

Pleas I don't know what to do, will my green card not be mailed anymore after she make the accusation and report to uscis or what step should I take?

The divorce is not a pressing problem…so if she kicked you out and you left without a fuss, don’t worry about when it gets filed or by whom. ..you can even wait it out for her to deal with it. 

Who signed for you as Joint Sponsor on I-864…since you said wife was unemployed when she tried to tell you “ it’s too soon to come to America “?
 

BUT if the story you tell of her / other man and a gun…is actually TRUE…..then STOP calling her or communicating or you risk picking up domestic type problems of the She Said/ He Said variety.

 

Your passport stamp is good enough and gives you a year to solve getting the physical green card resolved.

 

WHAT on earth happened in her life between when you and Wifey made up and now? 
WHO is the other guy?

Edited August 26, 2022 by Family

[Timona 3,996]

Is the new guy American or a foreigner? 

 

Which State are you in?

Edited August 26, 2022 by Timona

[Family 3,621]

52 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

Seek spousal support from her under the I-864

@Crazy Cat you are ruthless on the poor Wifey….she did try her best to stop him coming …worked out in Josh’s favor Wifey not a VJ regular. Lol

[JeanneAdil 6,323]

call 911 and file a police report

and then ask where u can get a pro bono attorney

 

go after her for support

 

for someone to bring you to a strange country and then want to just use u for money ,  galls me

as u stated she was fired from her job

just be glad u got here now and are lucky to have a chance to be free of  her

 

it's not fair to anyone (man or woman) to be treated without passion or respect 

Edited August 26, 2022 by JeanneAdil