So ruthless Russian

[Mike20090622 45]

1.5 years and 60000$, I traveled to Moscow to meet her and her daughters, did all things to please them, buy all gifts to her, her daughters and mother, medical equipment to her mother and we finally got the embassy letter, just a little argument and she kicked me out and blocked me, she said love me all the times and pushed to meet me in Moscow in such a difficult time and I brought 10000$, bought 3 new iPhones, used my money to repair her apartment, after all these, she kicked me out and blocked, I always trusted her and think she is different, never imagine this happen, Russian women are so ruthless, lessons learned.

[arken 4,197]

2 hours ago, Mike20090622 said:

1.5 years and 60000$, I traveled to Moscow to meet her and her daughters, did all things to please them, buy all gifts to her, her daughters and mother, medical equipment to her mother and we finally got the embassy letter, just a little argument and she kicked me out and blocked me, she said love me all the times and pushed to meet me in Moscow in such a difficult time and I brought 10000$, bought 3 new iPhones, used my money to repair her apartment, after all these, she kicked me out and blocked, I always trusted her and think she is different, never imagine this happen, Russian women are so ruthless, lessons learned.

Gold diggers are everywhere in every country and in every gender. Consider yourself lucky you are now not marrying her just to get bankrupted. I was just reading a news about a man who got duped into marriage just to get murdered by his newly wed wife for money in my birth country.

[Mike20090622 45]

48 minutes ago, arken said:

Gold diggers are everywhere in every country and in every gender. Consider yourself lucky you are now not marrying her just to get bankrupted. I was just reading a news about a man who got duped into marriage just to get murdered by his newly wed wife for money in my birth country.

Her friend said she is very poor and May not ever dine in a restaurant and she lives in the apartment where she was born, and she never dated but attached to her kids, we lived in mexico for about 4 months and everything is good, I can’t imagine this happened 

[JeanneAdil 6,489]

So sorry this has happened to u

 

but the 1st red flag was the friend's statement ""she never dated"    how does a person that never dated have kids?

[Daphne . 1,852]

You picked the wrong woman (who happens to be Russian). I am sure that there are a lot of very nice Russian women and there are bad people in every country.

 

So you didn’t continue with the K1, correct? You had a lucky escape! 

[Timona 4,207]

6 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

So sorry this has happened to u

 

but the 1st red flag was the friend's statement ""she never dated"    how does a person that never dated have kids?

 

To piggy ride, never dated but had daughters?? 🤔

 

What are the gate differences here? @Mike20090622

 

Honestly $60000+ within 1.5 years? That's going overboard. If I get a man/ woman who wants such expenses, I consider them early read flags and leave. There are many men/ women who are simple and understand the need to build together hence will equally offer support. 

[Timona 4,207]

I knew I read a similar story somewhere. Here.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-57358241.amp

 

[Mike20090622 45]

29 minutes ago, Timona said:

I knew I read a similar story somewhere. Here.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-57358241.amp

 

I read that story, but I think she is different, her friend just told me she didn’t date after divorce, her friend was cut off by her 8 months ago but she communicate with me now and then, I transferred money through her friend to her because she has American bank account, I zelle her dollars and she give rubles to my fiancé but they stopped talking to each other long time ago, her friend is not a good person also, wasted many American mens money, her friend never said my fiancé bad words but this time she offered to stay with me in Moscow after I was kicked out but I refused 

[SalishSea 17,801]

8 minutes ago, Mike20090622 said:

I read that story, but I think she is different, her friend just told me she didn’t date after divorce, her friend was cut off by her 8 months ago but she communicate with me now and then, I transferred money through her friend to her because she has American bank account, I zelle her dollars and she give rubles to my fiancé but they stopped talking to each other long time ago, her friend is not a good person also, wasted many American mens money, her friend never said my fiancé bad words but this time she offered to stay with me in Moscow after I was kicked out but I refused 

Are  you from Russia originally?

 

Please don't transfer money to overseas people you do not know.  That is not smart.

[Timona 4,207]

18 minutes ago, Mike20090622 said:

I read that story, but I think she is different, her friend just told me she didn’t date after divorce, her friend was cut off by her 8 months ago but she communicate with me now and then, I transferred money through her friend to her because she has American bank account, I zelle her dollars and she give rubles to my fiancé but they stopped talking to each other long time ago, her friend is not a good person also, wasted many American mens money, her friend never said my fiancé bad words but this time she offered to stay with me in Moscow after I was kicked out but I refused 

 

You're being played. Probably the 2 stopped talking because they couldn't agree on their $$$ cut.

 

Those of us outside see it clearly. 

 

Close your wallet, block her, count your loses and move on. You'll meet someone, maybe even in your neighborhood here in US.

 

Best luck ☘

 

 

[TBoneTX 45,258]

This has been an expensive lesson, but she's saving you a lot of time.  Cut her off immediately, take some time to recover, and look for one of the countless loving, honest, available women who'll be a real match for you.

[Lynxyonok 316]

On 7/30/2022 at 6:23 AM, Mike20090622 said:

1.5 years and 60000$, I traveled to Moscow to meet her and her daughters, did all things to please them, buy all gifts to her, her daughters and mother, medical equipment to her mother and we finally got the embassy letter, just a little argument and she kicked me out and blocked me, she said love me all the times and pushed to meet me in Moscow in such a difficult time and I brought 10000$, bought 3 new iPhones, used my money to repair her apartment, after all these, she kicked me out and blocked, I always trusted her and think she is different, never imagine this happen, Russian women are so ruthless, lessons learned.

As a native Russian myself, it's painful for me to read this.

 

That being said; there are good and bad people everywhere. I have come across situations where a girl would ask for money and... I've always stopped dead cold wherever and whenever such request was voiced. No matter the reason. And I've heard all kinds of stories over the years.

 

I'm sorry you've had to spend the time on this (money comes back; time doesn't). I genuinely wish that karma repays you with something good that you deserve in return.

[Neonred 3,562]

On 7/30/2022 at 6:23 AM, Mike20090622 said:

1.5 years and 60000$, I traveled to Moscow to meet her and her daughters, did all things to please them, buy all gifts to her, her daughters and mother, medical equipment to her mother and we finally got the embassy letter, just a little argument and she kicked me out and blocked me, she said love me all the times and pushed to meet me in Moscow in such a difficult time and I brought 10000$, bought 3 new iPhones, used my money to repair her apartment, after all these, she kicked me out and blocked, I always trusted her and think she is different, never imagine this happen, Russian women are so ruthless, lessons learned.

So sad you didn't see the red flags and allowed yourself to be played.  The amount of money spent just wows me.

 

There are some great women out there, just be careful going forward.

[To_the_moon 94]

It is also a "red flag" for me when I see a man counting all the $$$ he spent on his wife. 

[Mike20090622 45]

She is not smart enough to play me, she is just a pretty blonde with empty brain, easily do stupid things without thinking of the sequence, she started talking to me, but I won’t bring them to America, it’s a pity we got the embassy letter we waited for so long.