Got visa issued but wifey don't want anymore

[Family 3,988]

Some seasoned VJ members are convinced CBP reads VJ forums every time a flight from Nigeria lands …

[Adujarric 67]

10 hours ago, Family said:

Some seasoned VJ members are convinced CBP reads VJ forums every time a flight from Nigeria lands …

Why nigeria?  im fairly new here and dont understand why that would raise red flags for cbp lol.

[Family 3,988]

36 minutes ago, Adujarric said:

11 hours ago, Family said:

Some seasoned VJ members are convinced CBP reads VJ forums every time a flight from Nigeria lands …

Why nigeria?  im fairly new here and dont understand

I am newish and lack both seasoning and seasons , but as I was told it includes all Countries designated as High Fraud. 
Hopefully others can elaborate 

[Adujarric 67]

4 minutes ago, Family said:

I am newish and lack both seasoning and seasons , but as I was told it includes all Countries designated as High Fraud. 
Hopefully others can elaborate 

Got it 😂😂😂.  

[JeanneAdil 6,505]

1 hour ago, Adujarric said:

Why nigeria?  im fairly new here and dont understand why that would raise red flags for cbp lol.

google the words "nigeria marriage scams and arrests in US"

and scan down the page to see site after site of past history and even new arrests 

[SalishSea 17,829]

3 hours ago, Adujarric said:

Why nigeria?  im fairly new here and dont understand why that would raise red flags for cbp lol.

DOS keeps data, by consulate, on many things.  Fraud is included.  Lagos is considered to be in a class of it's own in that capacity.

[Villanelle 4,122]

On 7/10/2022 at 11:17 PM, PGA said:

SERIOUSLY? You people are awful. Don't encourage this person to come to someone who obviously has lost interest....and only for the visa? ...and from Diamond members and moderators....shame.

 You know many many years ago there was a similar post. The reactions to it was completely different, basically the OP in it had explained his spouse had ended their relationship, suddenly, without warning, and refused to speak with him. He was bombarded with comments about how it 'wasn't right' for him to come.  Arguments above 'family unity' and fraud/visa misuse etc.

 

And after much discussion it was established that it didn't matter what the users on VJ felt personally about the topic- it is covered in immigration policy.  Once the visa is issued the visa holder is able to use it regardless of any personal issues the couple may have. The visa can be canceled by the petitioner withdrawing prior to the entry trip (where it becomes used). 

 

So immigration law says if he is in possession of a valid visa he can use it. Im sorry if you disagree with the advice given but it is the correct advice from a legal standpoint. Whether he should come and fight for his marriage or if it's wise to do such I am going to refrain from commenting as too few details were provided despite repeated attempts by @family for a more complete story as to whats going on between them. 

[Crazy Cat 41,857]

22 hours ago, Family said:

Some seasoned VJ members are convinced CBP reads VJ forums every time a flight from Nigeria lands …

LOL! ...... However, there used to be Consulate Officer here who did say that USCIS monitors VJ., FWIW. 

[MarJhi 963]

1 hour ago, Crazy Cat said:

LOL! ...... However, there used to be Consulate Officer here who did say that USCIS monitors VJ., FWIW. 

On that note, I just want to go on record saying that I love love love USCIS!

[WaterLeaf 200]

So she is saying she does not want to be with him anymore and want a divorce? Or she isn't just ready and stressed out about the timing because she probably have too much of other things on her plate, whatever that may be? It sounds like she isn't spelling out all the reason why. She have another man? If so, how long? Just need answers, no angry issue just to get the truth, then spew out anger later...

 

I hope OP can communicate with Spouse and get a clear answer. And hopefully, visual/voice chat like Facetime or Google DUO or something like that.

[Josh or 18]

Thank you everyone.  My wife and I has settled and she has agreed for me to come. . Thanks for your advises so far.

[Family 3,988]

1 minute ago, Josh or said:

Thank you everyone.  My wife and I has settled and she has agreed for me to come. . Thanks for your advises so far.

You Rock Josh ! Love conquers all immigration pitfalls. Green Light for GO!!! …NOW! 
You are my new Nigerian Hero on VJ! 
 

[Josh or 18]

22 hours ago, Family said:

You Rock Josh ! Love conquers all immigration pitfalls. Green Light for GO!!! …NOW! 
You are my new Nigerian Hero on VJ! 
 

Thanks so much bro. I really appreciate 🙏 

[Rocio0010 5,579]

23 hours ago, Josh or said:

Thank you everyone.  My wife and I has settled and she has agreed for me to come. . Thanks for your advises so far.

Hopefully she didn’t contact the embassy out of impulse. Congrats:

[dwheels76 5,468]

On 7/13/2022 at 7:25 AM, Crazy Cat said:

LOL! ...... However, there used to be Consulate Officer here who did say that USCIS monitors VJ., FWIW. 

Crazy Cat and wild as it sounds I know for a fact they watch and read and know who people are. Hey CO's. 👋