Infidelity on the petitioner side, K1 in progress, relationship has ended

[Broken Heart 87 2]

Hi All,

I need advise, so I discovered that my petitioner has not been honest with anything he has ever said. I have been contacted by several people about all sorts of matter about him and it has taken a toll on our relationship we decided to end it. We were in the process of waiting for NOA2, my question is if he does not withdraw the petition and if in the future I am ever petitioned will this affect the future petition? 

Be kind in your replies the situation is already hard as it is.

 

Thanks

[Rocio0010 5,579]

Even if he doesn’t withdraw, the petition will die if you don’t do anything. So you’re good. No, it shouldn’t affect future petitions.

[Mike E 11,739]

Whether he withdraws or not has no effect.  That you had a past petition on your behalf will have an effect: that petition, and if approved, the visa application, will get more scrutiny.

[Rocio0010 5,579]

 I think I misunderstood the post. OP, are you talking about a future petition that someone else will file for you? Or are you talking about the same person applying for you?

If the former, you even if he doesn’t withdraw, the petition will die by you not doing anything with it. If the latter, yes, you will get more scrutiny 

[Broken Heart 87 2]

I'm talking about a future petition if someone else files not the same person.

[Verrou 1,962]

u will get more scrutiny from uscis if in the future someone else petition you

[Letspaintcookies 2,310]

44 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

But how do you know someone else will petition you?

OP just wants to make sure everything is done correctly. Everyone would want that.

[arken 4,197]

50 minutes ago, Broken Heart 87 said:

I don't know, I am just asking to know if it ever happens in the future. 

It has to be disclosed in the new petition if you were ever petitioned by someone else. So regardless of if this petition is approved/withdrawn/denied, you may be questioned about it at the time.

[Broken Heart 87 2]

Ok thanks for the insight,I understand. 

[Rocio0010 5,579]

1 hour ago, Broken Heart 87 said:

I don't know, I am just asking to know if it ever happens in the future. 

So you can allow the petition to die by not doing anything. Or if you have the case number, you can send a letter to withdraw .

It shouldn’t have an obvious effect on future petitions, but it might be scrutinized based on the totality of circumstances 

[MarJhi 962]

7 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

So you can allow the petition to die by not doing anything. Or if you have the case number, you can send a letter to withdraw .

It shouldn’t have an obvious effect on future petitions, but it might be scrutinized based on the totality of circumstances 

I wonder if they keep track of who did initiated the withdrawal of the petition? If they did, it would probably look better for her theoretical future petition if she did the withdrawal and not the petitioner. 

[arken 4,197]

11 minutes ago, MarJhi said:

I wonder if they keep track of who did initiated the withdrawal of the petition? If they did, it would probably look better for her theoretical future petition if she did the withdrawal and not the petitioner. 

Only the petitioner can withdraw with the uscis not the beneficiary. Once it reaches the embassy/NVC, then the beneficiary who will be the visa applicant at that point can withdraw.

 

It doesn't matter anyway who withdraws at what point.

Edited June 15, 2022 by arken

[Ontarkie 14,221]

The petitioner needs to withdraw the petition. Over the years we have seen many members told that the old petition was never withdrawn and it has caused issues. 

[Broken Heart 87 2]

@Rocio0010 No need to be judmenatal cause you do not know anythingI have been through this past months. I'm not worried about a future petition it was a simple question for knowledge sake and yeah it wasn't you,it was me. You gave you opinion all the other side comments weren't necessary thanks. 

[JeanneAdil 6,504]

I think all of us , man or woman,  have our dream about the ideal mate

could be for love

could be for stability

whatever it is,   sorry that you are going thru a breakup

that's hard on anyone as it squahes your dream of a new life

 

when u do meet someone that seems to be the right one,  take a long time to get to know the "real him" 

no matter what country he lives in,  when u marry, u leave home and family,  so make sure u are happy and the person really cares

 

and yes,  K1 relationships break up , just be glad this happened before u were stuck in the US with no family and friends to support u emotionally

and yes,  many still find another to do  a K1 as it seems people have an idea of what Americans are like and what life is like here.   

TV does not show what it really is / be careful and be wise