My filipina fiancee coming to US next weekend

[Rocio0010 5,597]

1 minute ago, Adventine said:

Thanks to everyone who jumped in to defend me. I believe I've been confused with someone else in this thread. Just another day working for the VJ Customer Service dept 😆

 

 VJ call center is busy today and callers are getting angry at the wrong person!

[SalishSea 18,039]

5 minutes ago, powerpuff said:

Didn’t you say the same thing last time? 🤔 

Promised.

[Verrou 1,962]

5 minutes ago, powerpuff said:

Didn’t you say the same thing last time? 🤔 

OP, i saw in ur post in January 2022 that u have a lawyer, I think it’s best to ask / tell your lawyer about ur concern. Many people here are giving you excellent input but it seems you are irritated by the way they response. Perhaps ask your lawyer maybe he can explain better ? 

[Crazy Cat 42,031]

Just now, Misscloud said:

OP, i saw in ur post in January 2022 that u have a lawyer, I think it’s best to ask / tell your lawyer about ur concern. Many people here are giving you excellent input but it seems you are irritated by the way they response. Perhaps ask your lawyer maybe he can explain better ? 

At least an attorney get paid to be yelled at and lectured to.....😄

[Verrou 1,962]

Just now, Crazy Cat said:

At least an attorney get paid to be yelled at and lectured to.....😄

Exactly my point 👍

VJ customer service are the worst (cough!)

[Rocio0010 5,597]

In fact this just gives me an idea of a post where we could all imagine we work at the VJ call center. Yeah, I’m derailing, please don’t report me. I’ll knock it off now.

[SalishSea 18,039]

Just now, Rocio0010 said:

In fact this just gives me an idea of a post where we could all imagine we work at the VJ call center. Yeah, I’m derailing, please don’t report me. I’ll knock it off now.

We must be due for at least a pizza party by now.

[Verrou 1,962]

1 minute ago, Rocio0010 said:

In fact this just gives me an idea of a post where we could all imagine we work at the VJ call center. Yeah, I’m derailing, please don’t report me. I’ll knock it off now.

Don’t forget to add USCIS call center scenario 

[Boiler 45,863]

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[Rocio0010 5,597]

6 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

We must be due for at least a pizza party by now.

And a .25 pay raise

[Crazy Cat 42,031]

@Joe98, I hope your fiance has a trouble-free journey to the US.....

[mushroomspore 3,044]

57 minutes ago, Misscloud said:

OP, i saw in ur post in January 2022 that u have a lawyer, I think it’s best to ask / tell your lawyer about ur concern. Many people here are giving you excellent input but it seems you are irritated by the way they response. Perhaps ask your lawyer maybe he can explain better ? 

Agree with this and there is also a search bar right at the top AND a whole dedicated subforum for K1. Many many MAAAANYYY threads of people's experiences entering with K1 that are easily searchable....

[MarJhi 965]

2 hours ago, Joe98 said:

My fiancee has been to another country like Saudi Arabia many years ago for work purposes but that's it.

Hmmm, maybe explain to her if she can deal with traveling to Saudi Arabia then traveling to the US will be a piece of cake.

 

 

On a side note, show some confidence in your fiancé. If you show her your lack of confidence in her (or if she just senses it) then that will make her even more nervous. I think my fiancé would be quite offended if I suggested she couldn't handle a handful of questions that require nothing but honest answers. You may be wanting to help her, but you might be scaring her unnecessarily. I bet she is a lot more savvy than you are giving her credit for.

[Rocio0010 5,597]

44 minutes ago, MarJhi said:

Hmmm, maybe explain to her if she can deal with traveling to Saudi Arabia then traveling to the US will be a piece of cake.

 

 

On a side note, show some confidence in your fiancé. If you show her your lack of confidence in her (or if she just senses it) then that will make her even more nervous. I think my fiancé would be quite offended if I suggested she couldn't handle a handful of questions that require nothing but honest answers. You may be wanting to help her, but you might be scaring her unnecessarily. I bet she is a lot more savvy than you are giving her credit for.

My thoughts. OP really puts her down by not trusting her

[Daphne . 1,913]

I think there might be a considerable age difference here as well, maybe that is why OP is protective/concerned? Not sure if that is the case, just a feeling I got.