Request to unwithdraw

[flowerlilz0819 7]

Hello, i had filed and i130 for my spouse last year and we got approved ;case has been in NVC since. Weve been together and in this process for a year and a half. Recently about a month ago we got in a huge arguement and i was angry and did everything i can to withdraw the case! I sent a letter to USCIS and NVC expressing my feelings and anger i even uploaded it on cseac. We recently ended up mending things and working out and got back together a month later due to things that happened in my life. After we fixed things i sent a letter to NVC and USCIS stating to no longer with draw but by the time i did that i have recieved an email from NVC stating the case has been sent back to USCIS. What can i do now? If they decide to reopen it how will the interview be. For someone who had a similar problem as mine and had refiled in the interview do they mention the old case? Or if your case reopened do they mention the withdraw? 

[Timona 4,208]

That ship sailed.

Back to square one with fresh filing. They will ask you about that old case. So, be ready to explain.

[flowerlilz0819 7]

2 minutes ago, Timona said:

That ship sailed.

Back to square one with fresh filing. They will ask you about that old case. So, be ready to explain.

Do you know what they ask? I was soo angry and didnt think they were gona respond so quick i was just about to expediate my case because of an emergency then got hit with that email

[Rocio0010 5,580]

21 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

What can i do now?

Things to do:

1) think hard if you want to continue the relationship. Maybe at the time you saw a red flag or something that led you to make such a decision. So think hard. Step 2 is if you stay together:

2) Re- apply from scratch. 

23 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

now? If they decide to reopen it how

They won’t re open. They’ll just go by the new application.

 

24 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

do they mention the old case?

I’m pretty sure they do. They can if they want to.

[Rocio0010 5,580]

1 minute ago, Fattymay said:

Do you know what they ask? I was soo angry and didnt think they were gona respond so quick i was just about to expediate my case because of an emergency then got hit with that email

Just an (unsolicited) piece of advice: don’t be so volatile with your decisions: withdrawal, then expedite… breath and then react 

[flowerlilz0819 7]

Just now, Rocio0010 said:

Things to do:

1) think hard if you want to continue the relationship. Maybe at the time you saw a red flag or something that led you to make such a decision. So think hard. Step 2 is if you stay together:

2) Re- apply from scratch. 

They won’t re open. They’ll just go by the new application.

 

I’m pretty sure they do. They can if they want to.

would they say that i filed a withdraw because i didnt tell anyone what i did because i regret it 

[flowerlilz0819 7]

Just now, Rocio0010 said:

Just an (unsolicited) piece of advice: don’t be so volatile with your decisions: withdrawal, then expedite… breath and then react 

I know this is my first ever serious relationship it was also because of miscommunication 

[Rocio0010 5,580]

7 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

would they say that i filed a withdraw because i didnt tell anyone what i did because i regret it 

I mean, they said petition went back to USCIS so I’m thinking the withdrawal has been communicated 

[flowerlilz0819 7]

3 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

I mean, they said petition went back to USCIS so I’m thinking the withdrawal has been communicated 

My question is id i refile and everything goes well would they tell my spouse that i withdrew the first time

[Redro 4,611]

18 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

My question is id i refile and everything goes well would they tell my spouse that i withdrew the first time

They might ask your spouse about the contents of the withdrawal letter you sent. 

And ask why two I-130s were filed. 

This is something very serious.

You should be open and honest about the chain of events with your spouse.

This is not a secret you should keep because it is about their immigration process. 

Also, your spouse will know you had to re-submit because they will get a second letter from NVC welcoming them to apply for a US visa. 

 

Edited April 27, 2022 by ROK2USA

[PaulaCJohnny 713]

24 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

My question is id i refile and everything goes well would they tell my spouse that i withdrew the first time

So, she doesn’t know? What kind of things did you write it? Did you told something that can hurt her like claim that she was trying to scamming you?

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

37 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

I know this is my first ever serious relationship it was also because of miscommunication 

Withdrawals are irrevocable.  You have to start the process again.  

[Rocio0010 5,580]

24 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

My question is id i refile and everything goes well would they tell my spouse that i withdrew the first time

Oh, you didn’t tell your spouse!!!

Of course they can ask about it at the interview. And if he finds out at the interview, it might raise a red flag over the bona fide of your relationship.

What you did has a very profound impact on their immigration case. They might not trust you if they find out through another person other than you.

Before doing anything else, come clean with your spouse. 
I mean, as of now, refilling seems to be your only option. Your spouse will have to sign the forms again, you think he’s not going to ask why he has to sign again when he’d already done it?!

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

28 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

My question is id i refile and everything goes well would they tell my spouse that i withdrew the first time

Won't your spouse wonder why the case is taking another 2 years???

[JeanneAdil 6,583]

26 minutes ago, Fattymay said:

My question is id i refile and everything goes well would they tell my spouse that i withdrew the first time

yes,   he will learn of this as he knew it was at NVC and now its going to take  new petition and another year

and the CO will more than likely ask "why u withdrew it the 1st time "  and he must be able to answer this (and all other questions ) to prove the relationship

we have no way of knowing why you were so angry buy he has too and now,  u must convince each other that you have the trust needed for a life together 

remember ,  this hurt u both