Victim of domestic violence

[SalishSea 17,506]

Just now, Bryan odain Blair said:

I dont wish to be interacted here, I wrote a post seeking help from people with experience that might know how to assist regarding my current situation. 

Right.  And you have been given many good suggestions for how to go about dealing with your current situation.  

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*** Several inappropriate and nonconstructive posts removed. Post constructively and do not downplay other's experience.

 

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[Pinkrlion 2,681]

5 hours ago, iwannaplay54 said:

I do understand.  See note above about standby.  You have the right to enter your home with a police officer and retrieve all of your property and you have the right to look anywhere you want to look to find it.  You dont even have to clean up behind yourself while you’re looking for it LOL.  I’d search thoroughly and no, I would not put anything back while I’m searching. Don’t have to.  Not your problem.  I’d search every nook and cranny of that place.
 

If she has an attorney what is his/her name?  Ask the attorney for your property. An attorney cannot hold your documents.

 

This is poor advise to give to someone who is a victim of violence.  This will cause additional altercation with abuser.  Also,  he has to prove that he is a resident of the home.  Local laws are different than just being married.  

[Pinkrlion 2,681]

If your Green Card has already been approved, then you can file I-90 to get a replacement GC sent to your new address and also, you can go to SSA and get a replacement SS Card mailed to your new address.  

 

Leave your stuff there and when she calls you to come get it, then you call sheriff and pick it up.  Move on with your life and file for divorce.  File for a restraining order.

Edited March 26, 2022 by Pinkrlion

[Dan B 0]

7 minutes ago, Pinkrlion said:

This is poor advise to give to someone who is a victim of violence.  This will cause additional altercation with abuser.  Also,  he has to prove that he is a resident of the home.  Local laws are different than just being married.  

Well I do have mailed that came to our address, i have pictures, my name is on some utility bills that I dont have in my possession, also medical insurance card that she confiscated. 

[iwannaplay54 985]

37 minutes ago, Pinkrlion said:

This is poor advise to give to someone who is a victim of violence.  This will cause additional altercation with abuser.  Also,  he has to prove that he is a resident of the home.  Local laws are different than just being married.  

Return to the home with a deputy and retrieve your property is bad advice?

 

Are you Ok today?   That’s exactly what you do when your breakup is acrimonious. 
 

IF the abuser loses control the abuser gets hauled away.  You can have a yard sale at that point if you are married in Florida.

Edited March 26, 2022 by iwannaplay54

[Family 3,842]

15 hours ago, Bryan odain Blair said:

I already know about the I-360, but everywhere I turn different attorneys have a different figure not less then 5,200$ but with my current situation

This forum, VJ , has VAWA only links . Perhaps you can post there or appeal /write to moderators of VJ to move your original post to that forum. 
 

i gather you are PRE I-485 interview stage , no longer living with your spouse , not able to hire an attorney and looking for help in DIYing your I-360..(?)

 

 

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We can leave this thread standing alone, but after the initial questions here are resolved, the OP should post new questions in the big VAWA thread.

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1 hour ago, Family said:

This forum, VJ , has VAWA only links . Perhaps you can post there or appeal /write to moderators of VJ to move your original post to that forum. 
 

i gather you are PRE I-485 interview stage , no longer living with your spouse , not able to hire an attorney and looking for help in DIYing your I-360..(?)

 

 

Correct 

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2 minutes ago, Bryan odain Blair said:

Correct 

I believe you can search through Forums and find VAWA threads and post your questions there. Everyone there is going through the I-360 . Good luck 

[Dan B 0]

1 minute ago, Family said:

I believe you can search through Forums and find VAWA threads and post your questions there. Everyone there is going through the I-360 . Good luck 

Thank you

[Dan B 0]

On 3/26/2022 at 3:57 PM, Jorgedig said:

Why?  Do you think she would assault you in the presence of police?

I dont think she would have, but it is just who I am. I think the fact that I been there with the police and she said she gave them to her attorney, this was all that I need to verify that I'm being abuse.